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writes:I have the same problem that many girls seem to have on this site...my BF is ignoring me. We have been together for 3 years. It is the 4th time he has done it but it seems for the longest time this time, nearly 3 weeks.for the first few days I tried contacting him, now I have given up and am considering the relationship is over.I am not sure what is going through his mind but its hurtful and unacceptable and then I feel its ok coz he pannics when I talk about any emotional stuff and you have to trust me I am not over emotional, I am pretty rational, but if they have done it before how do you know when they are just panicing again or when they have gone for good? when do I move on? it seems so absurd... his behaviour...
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Yeh he is quite immature i would say... just when you decide to move on lol.. don't allow him to take you back. he is clueless and emotional.. you need someone of the same rational thinking as you.. this one, let him grow up first..if you decide to move on, make sure you've communicated this very clearly to him. least he comes begging his sorry ass back into your life when yu already on safe mode.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Your boyfriend is being very childish. He has left you hanging on and you don't know where you stand. I think that you should end this relationship and move on before he hurts you even more. You're right, his behaviour is unacceptable and he should be able to talk to you about emotional subjects without panicing and running off, he really needs to grow up before he has a serious relationship!! You deserve more than this and I hope you find someone better, good luck Xxx
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (27 May 2008):
 To be perfectly honest i think that now is the time to move on and start thinking about something else. Three weeks is a long time not to contact a partner, not even a personal visit, a call, an Email, or even a text. He has left you in limbo not knowing where you are or what is going on, and i think that is a really poor show on his part. Your word's are correct his behaviour is absurd, and i think that you deserve so much better. I would be inclined to forget about him now and find a guy that gives you the time, consideration, and the love and respect that you so rightly deserve.
Wishing you are the best x
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