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17 July 2009: Continuing the Harry Potter update thought I'd let you know I had a first date tonight with my bus girl. It went really well and she sent me a text saying as much too. Catch is, I look so much younger than I actually am she was pretty shocked w...
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My girlfriend and I still haven't had sex. She's never in the mood!
Q. Hi there. I've been with my girlfriend for about 1 year and 2 months. We still havent had sex, we're both 18. She isn't "in the mood" very often and we always stop half way through foreplay because she isn't in the right frame of mind or she g...
A. 29 July 2007: As a bloke, first of all, I can relate to the frustration...
But anyhoo, as pointed out by a previous ansa, is there anything in the past that's making things difficult for her? If so, mebbe u guys need to talk?
If not, then it's a matter of... (read in full...)
What are his true feelings for me? How do I figure this guy out?
Q. In 2002 I met and fell in love with a guy who was recently separated with 2 kids. For the first year he wasn't really sure what he wanted. He went down home for 2 weeks and I went there to visit on my holidays. Before he came back he mentioned about ...
A. 29 July 2007: What is it YOU want from this relationship? Sorry, but it sounds to me like he's using you.
I really do not think that he's afraid to say how he feels - I reckon he simply doesn't want to - cos that would mean he would lose what he has with you... (read in full...)
It there any way my sister can stop talking in her sleep?
Q. dear cupid my sister sleep talks in her sleep and does not know what she saying. is their any way of stoping this?...
A. 29 July 2007: Is there anything bothering her? Maybe she needs to talk some issues out with a friend?
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Back together now but everytime we argue he throws 'past issues' in my face. Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a very up and down relationship. He's about 6 years younger than me, and when we first got together, everything was perfect. He was thoughtful, caring, did everything and anything to make me happy. We started having ...
A. 29 July 2007: OK - sorry if this sounds harsh...
In short, you both need to get a grip on your drink problems before you ever start thinking about a relationship.
It's unlikely that you'll both be in that same place at the same time tho' - you at least hav... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going through a divorce and is sometimes moody with me
Q. My boyfriend of two months is pending divorce from his wife. He is sometimes attentive and loving, sometimes moody and distant. I have done everything I can to show how I feel for him. Is this a lost cause or should I be more patient?...
A. 29 July 2007: It goes without saying almost that the divorce will probably be a major stress between you two. Have you discussed this at all - and if not, maybe you should?
Whether it's a lost cause or not depends, I guess, on what sort of time and effort y... (read in full...)
Recently he rung me asking me not to get in contact for some bazzar reason but then after 2 weeks he rung and I was so happy for about a week..
Q. Hii... I'm 17 years of age, and I was in a 5 month relationship which fell to pieces and then I got over it when somebody else came along. He had a girlfriend and I asked him about her and he told me he had left her. We started seeing each other ...
A. 29 July 2007: Hard as it sounds, forget him and move on.
He seems to be using you, & you don't need that.
I know it's hard and it ain't easy but you gotta look at the bigger picture and the future where you can find a bloke that wants and needs just you, ... (read in full...)
A Survival Guide for the serial Dumpee!!
Q. Are you continually getting dumped?, Do you never get passed the first date? 1) Never assume love. The more you think you like a guy, the more you must let him chase you.Don't lose your head and think you love him, before things have evn gott...
A. 29 July 2007: I love this post!!!! Especially point 3 - something I always do!!
OPEN, HONEST, STRAIGHT...best way to be!... (read in full...)
My husband loves me, but he is horrible at showing affection!
Q. So I have been with my husband for five years and we just got married last month. He is the perfect husband other then the fact that he has A HORRIBLE time showing affection. I've confronted him many times over the years about this and he will be ...
A. 29 July 2007: Here's my opinion - for what it's worth...
Guys can be quite obtuse when it comes to showing love and affction at the best of times - it really does not mean that we don't love you! Other pressures - work is the prime example, can sometimes ge... (read in full...)
There definitely seems to be something between us but nothing's happened so far; I really want it to
Q. HI me and this girl have been best friends for ages and afew yrs ago i developed feeling for her but i wanted to make sure it wasn't just a crush as i didn't want to hurt her. I've also ben told by afew of out best friends that she loves me but ...
A. 29 July 2007: Seems to me like you're both waiting for each other to make the move! From what you say, it looks like she wants to take the relationship further too. She seems to have given you an idea of how she feels - maybe she's just waiting for you to ... (read in full...)
My High School Life being bullied
Q. As thousands of kids have to go through it I was 1 of the unfortanate 1's to be bullied in high scool. It was worse in year 7. I had no friends, the older lads kicked the ball at me constantly and i'd walk round the school on my own trying to find a ...
A. 29 July 2007: My daughter has experienced bullying in one form or another for around 10 years now. As a parent, I hugely sympathise with your story, which I'm so glad you posted.
It's easy to say that in the 'real world' after school's a distant memory, ... (read in full...)
I started dating a guy who is engaged but ended it recently, cos I know he's still going to marry his fiance; what do we do now?
Q. so i have been seeing a guy frm work for about a year now, we started off as really good friends and we confided in eachother with everything... As time went on we become very close and basically could not go a day without seeing or speaking...
A. 29 July 2007: This may sound bad but in line with the previous answer, he sounds like a loser, a player. What you've done by trying to end it, I think is right (although it must have been painful for you, I know). I bet if you stick to your guns, he'll lose ... (read in full...)
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