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7 October 2012: Last time I visited DearCupid, I was a lonely teenager of about seventeen: never had a girlfriend, and moaning pathetically about it to all who would listen. Terrified that I was destined to be alone forever. Now, I sit and type to you as a twen...
Happy days... :)
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26 August 2010: Hey guys! I haven't been on DearCupid in MONTHS, and I'm happy to say that, upon returning, I can still see some really great advice being given and received EVERYWHERE! You haven't changed a bit :) Except... I was just browsing through the ar...
Valentine's day 2010...
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9 February 2010: For those who don't know or haven't read my posts before, my name's Josh, and the biggest aspect of my love-life at the moment is that it hasn't existed yet. To read more about this, check my column and my other articles out (Y) However, this ...
Not just a metaphor...
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16 August 2009: Two weeks ago I was in Germany. The Rhine Valley, to be precise. I went there on a trip with my Wind Band. I wont say what I play, for fear of discorvery, lol. Any one of the 66 people with me could be on this site! One of the other 66 people ...
More about the classic "Be yourself"...
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15 November 2008: "Be yourself..." classic advice on how to get a girl/boy interested in you. They should love you for who you are, not who you pretend to be to catch their eye. This is all well and good. But who is "yourself"? Is it the person at home: reasonably...
Prents!! Prime examples!! "Do you want a smack?" - "Are you going out looking like THAT?" No, of course I don't want a bloody smack! and Yes, I am going out looking like THIS!
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23 September 2008: Has anyone noticed, that for all their showing-off, their cars, and their "I'm-dad/mum-so-that-makes-me-right" attitde, that parents tend to be slightly ridiculous most of the time? I mean, I still dont know the answer to "Where did you lose it?" ...
Help wanted: extra agony aunts/uncles required
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17 July 2008: I've been a member of this site for a while now, and from what I've seen here, I can conclude almost every agony aunt/uncle here is a good person: someone who likes to help out, to dish out wisdom by the barrel. I have thoroughly enjoyed adding to ...
How do you define "love" ?
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11 July 2008: I read a question posted recently that got me thinking: Can you fall in love before sex? Well, the answer is plain and simple: of course! But what I started thinking about was, how do people view love and sex? I know for a fact, for instance...
You're probably luckier than you think!
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24 June 2008: Guys, how old were you when you first entered a relationship? 11? 12? I know one guy who went out with a girl at the age of 7 years old. It tends to vary, of course, but it's normally around 10-13 these days. Perhaps some of you decided to wait lon...
Know who it is you think you love!
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23 June 2008: About a year ago, when I was 14, a girl found out that I liked her. This goes back to almost four years ago; when I first met her, thoughts went buzzing to my brain: "she's beautiful... she's smart... she's cute... she's funny... she likes to ...
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Help wanted: extra agony aunts/uncles required
Q. I've been a member of this site for a while now, and from what I've seen here, I can conclude almost every agony aunt/uncle here is a good person: someone who likes to help out, to dish out wisdom by the barrel. I have thoroughly enjoyed adding to ...
A. 23 July 2008: I accept that it may not be possible to answer all questions, but the purpose of this article was to point out that, whilst most answeres are good, just one or two may not be enough to satisfy the questioner: more than one opinion is very important ... (read in full...)
Help wanted: extra agony aunts/uncles required
Q. I've been a member of this site for a while now, and from what I've seen here, I can conclude almost every agony aunt/uncle here is a good person: someone who likes to help out, to dish out wisdom by the barrel. I have thoroughly enjoyed adding to ...
A. 17 July 2008: My views exactly... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's parents don't want us to go out, how do I approach them?
Q. help my boyfriends parents told him yesturday that we could go out but today he rang me up and told me that they have decided we cant any more i dont no why but me and him are really upset over this they rule his life. They told him that they di...
A. 17 July 2008: It is a good idea: you must know the reason as to why they wont let you go out. I think it would be much easier if you asked your boyfriend to do this.
It's more than likely that they dont approve of you as a person (no offence). If this is the case... (read in full...)
Students Falling in love with Their Teachers can really hurt? Your Opinions?
Q. Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. ...
A. 16 July 2008: Have you ever considered writing an article for this site? It's a very interesting topic, and would make an even more interesting read with more detail.... (read in full...)
I haven't been in a relationship for a year. There's no one I like who likes me, and I've lost respect for myself.
Q. I'm 15 and I haven't been in a relationship in a year because I don't think I can handle it anymore. whenever I've been in one I was always stressed out. Especially during school because I'm in almost all honors/ap classes and 2 year ahead in ...
A. 16 July 2008: This guy sounds dodgey to me. If he keeps talking you into giving him head etc then I dont think he respects you much at all. The fact he seems to have lost interest in you proves this. You need to move on: find someone else. You certainly sound ... (read in full...)
Torn between two boys, one is more like me and we agree on a lot of things, the other is not so much like me, and not sure of his feelings for me, who is the better choice?
Q. Hi, Im in year 9 and i'v had a boyfriend for about 2 months now. When he asked me out i wasnt really attracted to him it was just we are so much like eachother and we never argue because we agree with eachother for practically everything. N...
A. 16 July 2008: I think if you're not sure how much you like your current boyfriend, then you should talk to him about your relationship: how does he think you're both doing? As for your god brother, I would just wait a while: he may give some unintentional hints ... (read in full...)
Suddenly people are asking me if I have a boyfriend YET, I find that annoying!
Q. I don't know how to say this...um well basically i think there is something oing on that i don' know about. Suddenly people are asking me if i have a boy friend YET and they always say YET, its really bugging me, like the other day i was talkin...
A. 12 July 2008: Trust me: been there.
I suspect they either think you like this [Rob] or that he likes you, and they're all expecting you two to get together at some point. Perhaps you should ask him if they're actin the same to him?... (read in full...)
The Understanding Male Species...or not?
Q. After reading several of the replies submitted by Agony Uncles here on Dear Cupid, I have come to realise, or should I say, believe, that the majority of them are really very sympathetic, kind, loving, caring ~ but most of all understanding. But ...
A. 11 July 2008: Men are just as sensative to things as women: we just tend to be very proud too, and smother any "mushy" feelings in macho behaviour. Not all of them, of course. But I think I'm speaking for the majority.
But then, if we didn't act all tough et... (read in full...)
He's dating someone else but I want him!
Q. Ok, a guy is already involved with someone else. He says that in the past 2 weeks he has been drifting away from her. He visits me more than he does her and we spend evenings together just chatting and enjoying ourselves, there was a time when I ...
A. 28 June 2008: Well, if you said no when you could have slept together and he respected that, that's definately a good sign. I would say you two going together would be a great thing. The only problem of course, is that he is already with someone.
I suggest you ... (read in full...)
Why falling for your teacher is never good!
Q. *LONG BUT READ IT ALL TO UNDERSTAND PROPERLY* I know for a fact many of you girls on here have crushes/are in love/are in fatuated with your teachers, and most of you would love something to happen aswell.Most of the aunts say this is a b...
A. 28 June 2008: Very touching. A lesson all students in question should listen to.... (read in full...)
My love forever pt.2
Q. Well for those of you who wanted to hear the rest of the story to where his "ex" was tormenting our lives here it is. So about a month into our relationship everything with us is okay. We went to graduation and he, I, and a few of our friends ...
A. 28 June 2008: *applauds*
Brilliant article. ... (read in full...)
If he's a really nice guy in general and also the quiet type, how can I tell if he likes me?
Q. Quick question how can you tell if a lad has feelings for you? Like if he's already your friend, well not close friend or anything but still. Of he's not the flirty type or anything. infact if he's really quiet? So how would you be able to tell if ...
A. 28 June 2008: Sounds like a "strong silen type." I'm a little bit like that. And I find it much easier to talk to friends and other people I know than people I have feelings for: I get afraid of saying the wrong thing and messing up with chances I might have. As ... (read in full...)
We are having a break and have agreed to dating other people, is my BF using me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and half. We have had a rocky relationship but lately things have been going well. The other day he suggested that we 'take a break'. He said he needs his freedom because our relationship is like a ...
A. 28 June 2008: If he descibes your relationship as "like marriage," and he wants freedom from it, then I would say he's a little afraid of commitment at the moment. There is indeed a possibility that he is using you: and if you think that, talk to him. Ask him ... (read in full...)
By the information I've given you, do you think he likes me or not?
Q. I really like this boy from my band class (I sit right next to him) that's a year younger then me and all of my friends say that he likes me too and they think (and so do I) that we are very compatible. He always makes me laugh and he's always ...
A. 28 June 2008: It sounds very much as though you like each other a lot! At the very least he sounds like a great friend!
You could try talking to his friends to confirm this, or even get one of your friends to do that. Your right in thinking height doesnt matt... (read in full...)
Do you think the fact that this guy knew all this means my ex still has feelings for me?
Q. Ok this has been playing on my mind and I could do with a bit of insight. Last weekend I went out in group which included my ex (we split up year and half but stayed friends) Some of the people we went out with were my ex's workmates that I had not ...
A. 28 June 2008: I suggest you meet him somewhere, just you and him for a day out or something. During this meeting, mention that you spoke to this bloke and tell him what was said. He might deny having feelings for you, or he might not. If he doesnt, ask him. If he ... (read in full...)
I really don't know if we're still together or not! And I fancy someone else!
Q. Hi There, I have a bit of boyfriend bother... Here's the story; I know this boy at my fencing club, he is in Yr 9 and I'm in yr7. I look old for my age, he is quite normal. So, last week he asked me out to the cinema, but he didn't show up, or I ...
A. 25 June 2008: (Apologies for putting it bluntly) If you dont think you like him enough any more and you like someone else better, it's a good idea to end the relationship before something bad happens. I suggest you talk to your bf and find out where he thinks you ... (read in full...)
Someone who works at our school wrote 'u r sexy' in my friend's facebook account! How should I handle this?
Q. please help!!!!! yesterday i was on facebook looking at my frinds account and i saw someone who works at our school commenting her "u r sexy" i was shocked when i read this. and told my close freinds one of my freinds messaged him calling him a pe...
A. 25 June 2008: You should definately get this matter dealt wtih quickly: you're worried about what he might do if you report him, but if you dont, what if he goes further?
Just go and tell a member of staff you trust, and ask them to dealt with it if you're real... (read in full...)
I just kissed my best friend, who is also a girl! I'm really worried right now...
Q. Hi, I have a little problem... I just kissed my best friend, who is a girl... and I'm really confused because i thought i liked boys but i'm not sure, and i know no one else saw, but i love my best friend like a sister but i don't know what to do no...
A. 25 June 2008: Having feelings for members of the same sex is NOT against human nature: you cant choose your sexual preferances without forcing yourself one way or the other, and that would mean denying who you really are, and that's not good for you.
You're youn... (read in full...)
This thread is Rated "Arrhhh"
Q. As of late i find my posts.. vanishing or not even being posted. Apparently some of the mods/admins around here thinks its ok for a man to want to sleep with his sister. Instead of telling people what they need to hear, it seems as if they would...
A. 24 June 2008: That, my friend, was the most pointless thing I have ever read. Can I ask how many people you have heard saying "I'm sure you didnt mean to beat up your kids"? How many articles, or answers to questions have read: "It's fine if you want to sleep wi... (read in full...)
Been with my bf for nearly 2 years...but lately it seems as the the slightest thing he does annoys me...Help!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, i really liked him for ages before we actually started going out...but he sort of messed with my head - saying he liked me then going out with other girls etc, he really hurt me! Howeve...
A. 24 June 2008: Perhaps the best thing to do would be to talk to him about this. Not saying you think you like other guys, of course. That wouldnt help. Just ask him (carefully) how he thinks you two are doing etc. and if it turns out he's in a similar position, ... (read in full...)
Been with my bf for nearly 2 years...but lately it seems as the the slightest thing he does annoys me...Help!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, i really liked him for ages before we actually started going out...but he sort of messed with my head - saying he liked me then going out with other girls etc, he really hurt me! Howeve...
A. 24 June 2008: Perhaps the best thing to do would be to talk to him about this. Not saying you think you like other guys, of course. That wouldnt help. Just ask him (carefully) how he thinks you two are doing etc. and if it turns out he's in a similar position, ... (read in full...)
Why do straight people develop romantic feelings for a friend of the same gender?
Q. Does anyone have a psychological insight into why one can easily develop sexual/romantic feelings for a friend of your own gender even if you are usually straight? ...
A. 24 June 2008: I'm not entirely sure. But I suspect it's something to do with your hormones: as you go from childhood to teen and then to adult years, they are just aligning themselves and getting into the correct places. So one might get weird feelings for other ... (read in full...)
I don't love him anymore...how do I get this through to him without hurting him?
Q. Well...Where to start! I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, we are both 16. We haven't had sex, and he really respects me, he is really good looking and in all aspects he is perfect. We used to have such a laugh together...
A. 23 June 2008: I agree with PeterK: if you like another boy more than you like your boyfriend, you should end the relationship.
I know it's supposed to be the women that get all worked up when their partner lies to them, but the thing is, boys hate it too. If your... (read in full...)
How do I get the confidence to talk to the guy that I really like...??
Q. Hi, i need help. There's a boy that I really like, but I just can't seem to talk to him. I heard from a friend, that he found out I liked him. Ever since, I haven't gotten anything back from him. Once during a class at school, we were parternered up ...
A. 23 June 2008: Well, the best thing you could do is to find out about him. Not snooping around askin questions ABOUT him, actually ask HIM. Do you have his mobile number? Or an msn adress? These will help you a lot: find something you both like and mention it. Try ... (read in full...)
Hey guys! Would you mind a girl who just cant get enough?
Q. Im in need of advice here, I've been in a relationship with a guy that thinks im a freak for wanting to experience all kind of sex. At first he didn't mind it, but now it seems like he gets angry everytime I ask for sex.. just this morning I woke ...
A. 23 June 2008: Well, as much as I would enjoy being with someone like you, there is a thing to realise: there can be too much of a good thing.
Perhaps you should lay off him for a week or so (instead of laying ON him): make the gaps between sex longer and wide... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings and she admits to feeling the same way. So why the mixed messages?
Q. ok so I have these strong feelings for my friend. Shes amazing and even though I'm only 15 I've never met anyone like her. The thing is she has a tangled relationship with someone she's not happy with but doesn't want to hurt. Well she feels the ...
A. 23 June 2008: It sounds like this girl is very sensitive to other people's feelings: she doesnt want to hurt either you, whom she cares for deeply, or her current boyfriend, whom she cant bring herself to leave and possibly hurt. I think perhaps the first step ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit shy and I get walked all over. Advice please.
Q. I'm 17 year's old and i my whole life I've only had one girlfriends, and it was not very serious. Over the past year i have been able to talk to girls a lot better but i still struggle with talking altogether because I'm a bit shy and what you would ...
A. 23 June 2008: well, I could help here, as I am in much of a similar position. Am 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life.
The best thing I could recommend, is wait for who you think is the right person. I once liked a girl and it turned out she was a tota... (read in full...)
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