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I kissed my boss! Should I tell my fiance?

Q.   I'm in love with my boss im engagde but me and my boss spents more time together then me and my bf i really dnt know what i must do we kiss this morning for the first time do i tell my fiance or do i just make if it never happend i realy do love him ...

A.   24 December 2010: It depends on whether, you do LOVE your fiance, and if you think you can work through it, and forget about your boss.. or whether you feel that you really should be with your boss then you are going to have to go with your heart.. who do ... (read in full...)

How can you tell if your best friend is attracted to you?

Q.   How cant u tell if a guy u have mixed emotions fro is ever thinking bout u ?? i mean when i talk to ppl and the convo doesnt have to be about him and i just say his name when im suppose to say someone elses name its gettin really crazy! and idk if ...

A.   20 November 2010: well ... if he has told YOU that he wants to break up with her.. then he obviously wants to be with you! In the end, i think its all going to pan out the way that you wanted it to:) just let things happen on there own... (read in full...)

How can you tell if your best friend is attracted to you?

Q.   How cant u tell if a guy u have mixed emotions fro is ever thinking bout u ?? i mean when i talk to ppl and the convo doesnt have to be about him and i just say his name when im suppose to say someone elses name its gettin really crazy! and idk if ...

A.   14 November 2010: heyy(: i felt like i should answer this question because i am in exactly the same position as you.. me and my best friend have always had more serious feelings for each other.. but it has never progressed, i would say it has got to the point now, w... (read in full...)

I tried to get over my best friend and I can't!

Q.   i am 15 and in love with my beast friend, He dosn't know this and i really want him to love me back but the only problem he is gay, and i have tried to get over him and date other guys but i just cant, what shall i do? x...

A.   22 December 2009: Hi, well it sounds like there is nothing that you can do i am afraid, maybe if the circumstances were different i.e; him being straight then you would be able to work on the relationship and build a more closer one. However, because he is gay, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

Q.   i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

A.   18 November 2009: Hi, the only way to conclude this problem is to disucss it with your boyfriend more thoroughly, you need to be able to understand where each of you are coming from and discuss both sides of the argument before you decide what you are going to... (read in full...)

How do people have interesting conversations via text messaging?

Q.   What do you girls usly talk to your boyfriends about well your texting? And what do you guys like talking about with your girlfriend. Becuse its hard for me to like have a real conversation about any thing well were texting its mostly how was your ...

A.   17 November 2009: I agree with the previous answer, having phone calls is much more easier and practical as you can say what you want to say and say more of it. Dont bother having long conversations via text message, use it just to arrange phone calls and meeting ... (read in full...)

How does one differentiate between a crush and real love?

Q.   Hello :) I read some of the questions posted here and they've left me wondering... What is the difference between a small crush, fancying someone, infatuation and being in love? I know that with each one feelings run deeper. But how exactly do y...

A.   17 November 2009: hi, A crush is described as 'false love' a feeling that someone gets towards another induvidual, mostly at a younger age. Facnying someone is usually the same deal, however you like their personality more than just their looks. Being... (read in full...)

Christmas gift after 1 month of dating?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about a month now, what do I get him for Christmas? I know I should get him something based on his personality, hobbies, etc but I don't want to overdo it. Any general ideas or opinions on what would be a good...

A.   16 November 2009: hi, getting a christmas present shouldnt be awkward! just get him what you think you should! If you know he is getting you a christmas present aswell then it should be fine ... just dont got overboard and scare him off, somthing small and though... (read in full...)

My trust issues may destroy my relationship. How can I work beyond them?

Q.   hi. i use to go out with a boy on/off for two years, i loved him so much, he was my first love...he use to lie and cheat and make me feel small infront of people, i knew deep down he didnt love me, he only wanted me when he felt like it. a year on i ...

A.   16 November 2009: hi, It must feel horrible to be feeling that, you obviously love your boyfriend very much and he loves you. Remember that trust is a really important thing to have within a realtionship and it only makes the relationship stronger, its go... (read in full...)

I'm too afraid to tell him outright that I like him in case he hates me for it!

Q.   Hey ok ive wrote here before about a guy that me and some others thought really liked me and then when he was asked he denied it but still continued to show it. For some reason he would talk to be on msn but i had to start the convos and if we were ...

A.   16 November 2009: hi, yeah, dont tell him that you love him, something as simple as that my have a bad effect on the way he reacts to this... it will scare him off ... I think that the best way to do it is to go out as friends somewhere casual and usual. Then may... (read in full...)

What can I do to stop my girlfriend drifting futher away from me?

Q.   hi im 15 my girlfriend my girlfriend who is 14 seems to be getting further and further away we used to talk a couple times a day on the phone and online now we barely talk once a day shes just starting high school and shes meeting new people and ...

A.   16 November 2009: Hi, Your girlfriend is going to have alot on her mind now that she is starting high school. She probably isnt drifting away, just getting caught up in the high school life and her friends. If she didnt want to be with you she would of broken ... (read in full...)

Have I fallen out of love? Or am I just confused?

Q.   i have been with my bf for almost 3years now the one time we broke up because he was a player and i figured i had to move on. i fel for his friends kindness and mistook it for love he heard im dating his friend and he came back to fix things it...

A.   16 November 2009: Hi :), Its only you that knows if you really love your boyfriend or not. Deep down you will realise if you are still in love or not. The only advice i can give you is be cautious of your relationship at the moment and dont do anything stupid ... (read in full...)

Stressed by school and exams - I need tips on how to calm myself down!

Q.   I need help! Im really stressed with school work and its really getting me down. Im doing my GCSEs and i go to a very high profile school which makes us work really hard and im finding it really hard to cope with the stress, i leave the house at ...

A.   16 November 2009: hey :) I am in exactly the same position as you, i am currently taking my GCSE's. The replys that you had to this question are really good and i would recomend the same advice. When doing coursework and revision, dont attempt to do bot... (read in full...)

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