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writes:Hey, so my boyfriend said that he loves me and that he said he sees us having a relationship in the future - we have only been going out for 7 months but he is the most loveliest guy I have ever met. He is always saying to me that I am the most beautiful girl there is out there and that Im the only girl for him. We have spoke about cheating as I said I have trust issues with men sometimes, his ex always cheated on him many years ago and he said he would never cheat on me, he feels almost disgusted when he hears when people cheat. So I believe him that he wouldn't cheat on me he has promised he would never do such a thing. So, the last few times in bed, he has been "making love to me" and he has been saying "this is all for you, no one else" and when I asked him after why he said that, he said that I get him so hot and that he wouldn't do that to any other girl but me (have sex with them) am I looking into things too much??I asked him if he minds if we do call each other every night and he said no he likes it, but he would like it if I called him as sometimes he said he forgets etc so I said I want to do that sometimes, but I dont want to come across as too clingy or needy bY phoning him everynight and he said no he would like that. So I said to him, I just thought you'd like your space, and to which he said, yeah obviously I will need a little space but I dont mind phone calls every night and then I asked "ohh so, with us not seein each other that day, is that your space??" and he said, cuz we also have to have friends, hobbies etc. is there anything wrong in anything he has said here??thanks esp answer the one with reference to the sex thing he said, thanks
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Hey, i wish my girlfriend would want to talk to me on the phone every night, or even want to talk to me in general haha..
she barely texts me, and when we do chat on text, she says one word answers and never elaborates, when i ask her to call me she finds an excuse, and when i call her, we chat for a bit but it just goes no where because she is doing something else (facebook, homework, listening to music, playing Wii), so i think its a great thing that you want to talk to him all the time. in my honest opinion, he would like to talk to you every night, but just don't be at him all day, let him miss you a bit, you know?
hope i helped you out
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reader, sebaslookingforward +, writes (19 April 2011):
Personally I think that's not clingy, it's fine to show some love to your boyfriend before each other goes to sleep. Of course let him see his friends, family, etc. What I mean is, if he wants to see his friends one day and has arranged something with them beforehand, let him be free and talk to him afterwards - I'm sure he will call or text you after he's done.
So far I think everything is fine in your relationship.
I noticed you are from Argentina??
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reader, HereForYou_!  +, writes (19 April 2011):
This guy clearly wants to be with you, i would say what he said in the sex thing is natural you should let things flow a bit more. In relationships you will need space being around eachother 24/7 is what causes relationshps to go down-hill.i call my boyfrind of a year every 2 nights or he calls me, every night may be too much. i hope this helps :)
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reader, jayce48  +, writes (19 April 2011):
that sounds alot like me. i cant stand cheaters i hate the. there is no point in cheating. im sure he cares but guys need some space for friends and sports and stuff like that. i didnt find anything wrong with it
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