My b/f is my BFF and the only person I trust, I don't want to rely on only him, Please Advise.
Q. I don't think I actually have one question, and it's not really a problem just I like to hear other peoples stories and options on things. You see the thing is at the moment I have no, real girl friends. So I really don't have anyone to talk to. I ...
A. 5 August 2010: Thanks the only thing I have different is the guys that I am friends with and so is he is because i've been hanging out with them for ever .... they really are my best friends not because of him more like he's my boyfriend because we were friends. ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher & I think he likes me back. Any advice?
Q. MODS NOTE: OP's own title. Okay first off I'm new to this site, so if its in the wrong category, my bad. Anyways I had this teacher 1st semester. At first he was like a normal teacher, then after the 2nd semester started he started to act all funn...
A. 5 August 2010: Um I say, that you ask him to back off, cause he can get in some serious trouble ... and he sounds like a pedo. Chances are too if he is a highschool teacher he;s atleast 26.... (read in full...)
What should I expect when I lose my virginity to my best friend?
Q. Im only 15. i know im young but me and my best guy friend decided we might have sex. I dont know what to do or what to expect....We are just friends and its going to stay that way we are just going to do it to expiriment kinda. I dont really think ...
A. 4 August 2010: I'll tell you know after you do this, you will probably NEVER be close again. Just wait untill you are in a relationship and that it is really special, cause when you wait I can promise you, you wont regret it .... (read in full...)
Am I doing it wrong?
Q. I ve been dateing this guy for a few weeks I gave him oral sex today he is the first guy I have ever given a b j to anyway while I was doing it he started pushing the back of my head down on it further and makeing me suck iyt faster do all men do ...
A. 4 August 2010: No he was trying to show you to go and put more of it in your mouth. My boyfriend the first time I did it to him did the same thing. I did appreciate him try to help me but it kindda freaked me out too. You didn't do anything wrong and if you did, ... (read in full...)
Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?
Q. Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...
A. 4 August 2010: I do not believe in any way its something normal about love making. When it comes the vaginal sex it's totally different. That is natural... those parts of our bodies were made for that. If any guy EVER tried to have anal with me I would flat out ... (read in full...)
I ache for my own baby.
Q. Hey guys, thanks for reading. Sorry for the long question too. My mother just gave birth to her fifth child, and i'm her eldest at 17. I went to see the baby today and it made me realize how much i want a child. When i was holding the baby and ...
A. 4 August 2010: I know how you feel, I am only 16 though. I love kids and can not wait to have some of my own. But still I am realistic. I too, when in collage going to become a teacher for the younger kids, If you do want kids you don't have to wait till your 30. ... (read in full...)
Just how much does sex hurt...?
Q. I have question?and its about me and my boyfriend. well the deal is that we been together for about 4-in half going on 5 and were both in are 20s and we been wait for so long that we want to have sex already but im afriad of pain and getting hurt. ...
A. 31 July 2010: I remember this girl I know telling me it hurt so much she couldn't walk for days. But then when it actually happened to me, it didn't, like a little sore afterwards but other then that, it wasn't HORRIBLE pain. But maybe that is because MONTHS, ... (read in full...)
I had an abortion over 2 months ago and its killing me!!!
Q. Hey, i made the silly mistake of having unprotected sex with my boyfriend and as a result became pregnant. I never found out i was pregnant until i was over 7 weeks gone like the feeling sick and tiredness etc. I had missed my period so decided to ...
A. 30 July 2010: Even if you had kept the baby, and gave it up for adoption chances are you would still feel the same way. I close friend of mine gave up her baby and it's been 5 years she still sits there wondering what she's like (it's a closed adoption)
I thin... (read in full...)
I feel I just can't say no...
Q. I'm a male and after a divorce I didn't want to have sex with a woman again. I didn't believe I was gay but was followed home when leaving a rest area. The guy followed me home and right into my apartment without an invitation. I had heard stories ...
A. 30 July 2010: Your being used. Cause none of then want an actual emotional relationship with you .
And if you want to or not I do believe you are gay.
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My bestfriend likes my boyfriend , what should I do?
Q. what do you do if you so called bestfriend likes your boyfriend ...
A. 30 July 2010: I would ONE - talk to my boyfriend and make sure he DOES not feel the same way.
Then Ask my "bestfreind" how she could even think about liking my boyfriend, even if she started to feel something she should have pushed it back in. And tell her... (read in full...)
13 and never had a boyfriend!
Q. I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone ...
A. 30 July 2010: Be proud that you are independent. And that you aren't going to have to go through "break ups" especially with guys your age, very unlikely the guy even cares as much bout you as you do them. I Had my first boyfriend when I was 16, one of the ... (read in full...)
Guys: Was it hard for you to realize you were in love the first time?
Q. Mod Note: Poster's Original Title Guys: The first time you fell in love when did you realize it? Was it hard for you to tell her? For me it seems that girls can realize it and decided when they are in love with some one easier then a guy can....
A. 30 July 2010: Thank-you all of you.
And ohh I know girls can it just, seems more guys don't want to. And yea, he doesn't believe just like me that after two days you should be saiyng I love you. Or those teens that say i love you every 3 secs on facebook. Just... (read in full...)
Its been 18 years since I had sex and I don't know how to move this to the next step...
Q. I am 47 and divorced. I have not had sex in 18 years and I'm thinking too hard. I'm dating but I can't figure out how to move us from a kiss in the living room to sex in the bedroom. (Sex in the living room would be even worse.) Is it as simple ...
A. 29 July 2010: well you could lead her by the hand. Or well making out in the living room have her sit on your lap the end up getting up and carrying her to the bed room. Maybe even tell the girl your dating, that it's been a long time and maybe she will take ... (read in full...)
Its not her thing so why is she mad at me?
Q. What did I Do Wrong? Ok so me and my guy best friend John, are planning a camping trip. He made up a list with, Some french girls (I live in a french english community), Some guys, me and my boyfriend. Well talking to me one friend about it, he went ...
A. 29 July 2010: I don't, I was going to talk to her about it. And I was not the one inviting people thats the biggest thing. Basically I am being invited. Yes I am involved with planning. And .... the people going kindda dont like her I should have mentioned that. ... (read in full...)
He's excited but I don't feel ready for this...
Q. im 17 n my boyfriend really wants to have a baby he says he wil be there for me and everything so we started having unprotected sex and ive missed my period and have been feeling sick so im reaaal scared now and dont know what to do. i told him and ...
A. 27 July 2010: First take a pregnancy test.
If you are pregnant tell him straight out that you are not ready.
He should understand this. If he doesn't obviously it's not a good idea to have a baby anyways. If you are not ready your best bet is to terminat... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to take a break!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been fighting since forever. We love each other alot but we don't trust each other. He just lost his job so he's stressed out about that. I'm trying to be supportive but he just ignoreS me like if I'm not even there. Last ...
A. 27 July 2010: I think, taking a break ..... would be good.
Love and Trust go hand in hand. I believe you can not truly love some one if you can't even trust them. You both need a break from each other. To figure out how you really feel about each other. If you ... (read in full...)
Did I really choose my boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad?
Q. Did I really choose my Boyfriend over my best friend? And If so why is that bad? Soo, My Friends (Guys) and My Boyfriend have a very .... Crud sexually sense of humor sometimes. They know how to joke around and so do I. Sometimes we'll ...
A. 26 July 2010: Oh believe me if it was that simple I would.
And No I was sitting there when he supposedly "cheated" on me believe me it didn't happen. We share the same friend group .... and he's not that kinda of guy.
And Her problem is that some how by ... (read in full...)
16th birthday prezzie needed for my boyfriend! Help!
Q. I need a 16th birthday present for my boyfriend. By then we will be dating for 8 months. I want to get him something kindda special that he can keep, and stuff. I was thinking of a Picture of the two of us and put it in a nice frame. But idk, if he ...
A. 26 July 2010: Thank-you for all the ideas. :)
I have Decided a picture of us with a gift card to his favourite store .. I am going with a gift card cause I'd feel weird buying him parts from his snowmobile :P ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's dad walked in on us during oral sex, kicked me out and now she wants me to apologize to her dad!
Q. I am 18 and my girlfriend will be 18 next month, we have been dating for 6 months. Her dad is a total hard ass, he is beyond over protective and he hates me jsut because I am dating his daughter. Afew nights ago we were in her basement fooling ...
A. 24 July 2010: I believe you should go and try tell him that you are sorry for doing something he does not approve of under his roof. Do this for your girlfriend. Even though I do think you should be saying sorry to him, or should this girl be mad at you. The ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my sister about her daughter and this boy?
Q. i m in confuse situation , my sisiters daughter is involve with one boy ..but nobody knows only my kids know..ab,t it.. how should i tell my sister..i m worried because my neice is only 16 yr old.. and my sister live in small town with conservative ...
A. 24 July 2010: She probably has a reason not to tell her mom.
I tell you not to tell your sister instead talk to your niece, telling her she should tell her mom. Maybe she is scared cause she has never had a boyfriend or her mom or dad, do not approve of her dati... (read in full...)
He'll kiss and cuddle but won't kiss me!
Q. So I've been seeing this guy since 08 we have sex once in a while but he never kisses me, he'll cuddle after sex, talk with me, and play fight but never kissed me..I'm starting to like this guy alot and I wanna keep him for myself lol but I'm sure ...
A. 24 July 2010: Maybe he just doesn't like kissing?
Have you ever tried to kiss him, or talk to him about this? You might want to ... (read in full...)
Got drunk, had a threesome and now scared I'm pregnant and only 15!
Q. Im 15 and well i got a bit drunk at a friends house party and well one thing led 2 another with these 2 guys and we ended up having a 3sum and we didnt use any protection and i know i shoud of but i wasent thinkin straight The thing is im 2 days l...
A. 23 July 2010: I suggest that, if and when you take a pregnancy test and you are pregnant you go to a women's health clinic they can give you the advise and help you need.
Another one I know you are scared but tell your mom. And yes she will probably be disa... (read in full...)
Does sex really hurt?
Q. i'm 14, i have a boyfriend only a year older. he's not like any other guy when he's with me, he's the badass' kid but with me he shows emotion. we've been dating almost 4 months. he gives me advice, and really great advice at at that. he helps me...
A. 23 July 2010: Well .... It didn't for me but it was probably because for 4 months before that we did partake in Oral Sex .... THAT hurt at first ...... then when the time came when we did have sex, it didn't hurt all the much. I was sore a little bit afterwards ... (read in full...)
Do you discriminate against obese people?
Q. I am 13yrs old and weigh 105lbs. I know that I am not a fat person but im a little chubby. I think its terrible when people make fun of huge people. Some people even say that they hate fat people. What I want to know is if people really feel this ...
A. 23 July 2010: I do not and I think anyone that says that is probably jealous cause that "fat" person appears to be WAY more comfortable in their own body then they are. I definitely do not feel that way my boyfriend is "chubby" NOT fat. (To me fat is 400 pounds ... (read in full...)
Did I ruin any chances with this guy?
Q. there is this guy i really like a lot. i literally can't think about anything else but him. a few nights ago i had been drinking at my friends' house and i called him for a sober ride home (he owed me atleast one) and he came and got me. when we ...
A. 23 July 2010: I think there is a chance that he does like you. Would you rather knowing that well you were drunk he took advantage of you ? He kissed you back for a bit. Maybe call him back apologize for your actions? ... (read in full...)
She was intent on holding onto her virginity, now she's trying to lose it
Q. My best friend isn't acting like herself. As long as I've known her she's thought sex is something you should wait a long time before partaking in with your partner, which was a view I completely supported. We talk about these kind of things all the ...
A. 22 July 2010: Just ask her what changed her mind. Don't make her feel like you are trying to change her mind. Just talk to her ... hey hun, why is it that you so badly want it gone? Don't tell her it's wrong. Maybe she is feeling pressured and these other friends ... (read in full...)
Will he not kiss me because of his friends?
Q. okay so, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few weeks, and he is a really sweet person, but acts tough for his friends. me and him get along perfectlyy but we havent kissed yet. im not sure weather he wants to kiss me because of his friends ...
A. 22 July 2010: Maybe try to get him alone, with out his friends around. Get close into a hug, look up at him and move in for the kiss. If you don't want to kiss his first maybe try to hint like ..... you know you can kiss me if you want to .... ok so maybe thats ... (read in full...)
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