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*shleytran
writes:I ve been dateing this guy for a few weeks I gave him oral sex today he is the first guy I have ever given a b j to anyway while I was doing it he started pushing the back of my head down on it further and makeing me suck iyt faster do all men do this and dose this mean I was doing something wrong
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 August 2010):
 happylife is right. He was guiding you. Many women don't like what he was doing, so if you didn't like it, you should say something. But, if you didn't mind it, then go with it. I would love for a girl to let me take control like that, but I'd only do it if I knew she was ok with it.
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reader, muffyny  +, writes (4 August 2010):
You are just inexperienced and get a quite frightened by your first time. Put it surely, every man loves BJ and there is no way of performing a bad BJ. But there is an idea of perfect BJ waiting for you to discover.
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reader, neptune +, writes (4 August 2010):
 no it doesnt mean your doing it wrong.most guys like it when you go deeper. hes just establishes a rhythm he enjoys.
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reader, happylife +, writes (4 August 2010):
No, this was simply his way of guiding you to giving him oral sex the way he likes it better. For as long as your teeth aren't bighting or scratching him you really can't mess up. Most men prefer for you to suck deeper. I'm sure he loved it. Don't let it bother you at all.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 August 2010):
 In my day and mind u im 25, I didnt give oral till i was at least 19..and frankly i think ur a lil too young to start. But the reason he pushed ur head down, is they like u to deep throat it taken him all in meaning ur going to gag a lil. but that will go away within time. I didnt like doing oral at first so if ur not comfortable with it u dont have to do it.
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 No he was trying to show you to go and put more of it in your mouth. My boyfriend the first time I did it to him did the same thing. I did appreciate him try to help me but it kindda freaked me out too. You didn't do anything wrong and if you did, don't worry about it you'll learn. And if you do not like his hand there just ask him not to. I did and I am 100% sure my boyfriend appreciated it more when he wasn't ...... cause he sounded alot happier ...
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reader, junje  +, writes (4 August 2010):
gal i think you are stil young todo this dont get me wrong.knowing someone for weeks and indulging in sex is rather to soon.have u two gone for hiv tests.gal plz take care of urself.
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