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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:ive been together with my boyfriend for 8 years we have two kids together. and a year ago when i got pregnant with my second baby i cheated on him with someone else. i didnt now if the kid was his or the others so i told him 2months after the baby was born he was very disappointed and hurt. he did a dna test and it ended up being his, my boyfriends, that was good. things wernt going so good then but they wernt bad either. for about 9months now he tells me that inside his heart he still loves me, but his head is telling him to do something else. i really love him and dont know what to do to keep him. he tells me he wants to try another relationship with someone else and it really hurts me. i dont know what to do to make him trust me again. please help me. what can i do? i really love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (24 December 2008):
you have hurt him so much and it will take time for him to forgive and trust you again.
you can try writing him a letter telling him you are very sorry for what you did and love him so much
the best might be to let him go,letting him date someone else
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