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female
age
36-40,
*ulu in lov
writes:i been living with my boyfriend for 10 months but at the end of november he told me his plans for next year . He wantd us to live separate .He said he needed his onw space and his onw stuff. But the problem was that i went nuts ! i got very angry and i blow it up complitly. i started yelling at him insulting him and doing any kind of stuff. He kept trying to make me calm donw but i was very hurtn.Then he got so mad at me and he broke up with me. I felt that all the things he told me before were a lie. We were getting ready for christmas he even decorated our home and bouth our first beautiful chritsmas tree we were also planning to adopt a litle puppy as a chritsmas present but all of the sudden he hanged and said he was confused he didnt know wath to do that he love me and care about me but he wanted us to live separate. That same night after evrything happend he went outside and started talking with a girl on the phone he was telling her everything that happend and he was making plans to go hangout the next day with her. Then i asked him who was that girl and he said a friend .. what i figured out was that he started chnging with me sice he met her about two weeks ago.
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reader, askJAY  +, writes (17 December 2008):
 shame. not pleasant. he's being silly. you have to suck it up and take responsibility for your own emotions. this happens in life. we cannot control others, so we have to look after ourselves.
be positive within yourself. use this opportunity to rediscover yourself and your desires. then affirm those desires in your subconscious mind through meditation, and take a step towards a new more fulfilling life. don't even think about how karma is going to deal with him.
just be a big girl, while acknowledging your hurt, use the experience as an opportunity to grow as a person in character.
much love and i will be thinking of you in your situation. we all go through this type of thing.
ciao
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (17 December 2008):
let him go,if you are meant to be he will be back
let him move out and have his space,it will hurt but its for your own good
find something to do to keep busy,don't call him when he moves out
cry if you want but do not beg for his love,it will make things worse
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