I've just found out his passwords - do I sneak a peak at his emails?
Q. I'm having another moral crisis in my relationship, and dont know what to do... I've known my boyfriend for aboutfour years, we've been in a relationship for nearly two. Basically at Christmas last year I saw he had messaged one of his ex girlfrie...
A. 22 July 2008: Again like the rest, I have been in the same situation. I looked and found what was to be the most heart breaking thing I had ever read in my life. He was very good at manipulating me to believe what he wanted me to believe even if I KNEW what he ... (read in full...)
I've been reeling in a married man, does he really want me?
Q. i am in love with a married man and its only just happend... he doesn't know and i wont tell him.(well i cant not yet) i noticed him at work in the office, shy very quiet and sexy.he has been with his wife since he was 15 years old and he is now ...
A. 22 July 2008: Whoa, for every married woman out there. Not trying to sound judgemental, but think of it like this, you say you dont want a relationship but you have "chemistry" with this man??????? One day you will want a relationship, maybe even a marriage, and ... (read in full...)
My curvy Goddess is trying to slim down! How can I tell her I like her the way she is?
Q. my girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 months and she is the largest girl that i have ever dated (shes about 5feet 6 inches and about 180 pounds. before her i only liked women with slim bodies but found myself so attracted to her curvy ...
A. 1 July 2008: Well this sounds like me and my BF. I was the first full figured woman he dated. She may be trying to loose weight to make herself feel better. The best thing you can do is to SUPPORT her in what ever she wants to do and not stop her for your own ... (read in full...)
What is going on? Is he cheating?
Q. About 4 months ago I was checking his phone for someone's phone number and noticed a message. I checked his messages and it was a women that he works with telling him that she missed him and wants him to come visit her again. She ended the message ...
A. 11 April 2008: For him to get so defensive and tell you that what he does is none of your business is suspicous in itself. Everything either of you do will affect the other in some way. Also that fact that she called to give him a heads up is fishy too, if he is ... (read in full...)
He hates condoms!
Q. I've recently began having sex with my boyfriend, and I went on the pill, so we could have unprotected sex together (as we know we have no STIs and are regularly checked anyway). Yet, now I've decided to not be on the pill, as its easier if he just ...
A. 31 January 2008: Its your body, although you want him to be happy, you also want to happy yourself. You need to come up with some sort of compromise. Maybe you can get on the shot, or explore other birth control options like maybe the patch. In the end its really up ... (read in full...)
Why do many females, that have been raped--become sexually active after this crime agianst them?
Q. Look Im at with young females so they ask me this question " Why does female became very sexaulity active after they been rape. So can someone please answer that question for me....
A. 29 December 2006: I was molested at the age of 10-12. I became sexually active at the age of 14. I feel that is because now we feel like we want to be excepted, we want to feel needed and some way we start to feel protected by the guy while we are with them. Truly no ... (read in full...)
Bras hurt me and I just can't wait to take them off! What can be done?
Q. i cant wear bras, i tried 4 just a year, it hurts so much, i've even figured out a way to get my bra off with my t-shirt on since it is soooooo painful. it pulls in my chest so i cant breath i doesnt help becuase i have asthma. i have been fitted ...
A. 4 December 2006: try to go a size bigger as far as around your chest and then adjust it from there... (read in full...)
I feel like he should want to see me more. I don't want to push him but it's making me frustrated!
Q. Please help me understand this one. Men your opions would be good. Been seeing my man now for eight months he says he loves me. But we still only see each other one night in the week, and most nights of the weekend. Although sometimes on a Friday he ...
A. 1 December 2006: Im sorry to be the one to tell you this, but it sounds like he may have a "full time" girl friend and you are the "part time" girlfriend. If you were the only one there would be more time for you. You may be confronting the wrong thing. Instead of ... (read in full...)
He avoided answering me about a sexually explicit text I saw on his phone from another girl!
Q. I was using my boyfriends phone to make a phone call and once I was done I looked at his phone and saw my name that I called and then saw a message from another girl. So I looked at the message and saw that is was pretty sexual and explicit. I had ...
A. 14 November 2006: Please if this is your man you have the right, he dont have any business allowing another woman besides you, friend or not, send him any messages that include anything sexual. Get him right before its too late. Good luck... (read in full...)
Would it be wise for me to move in with my bf and his friend?
Q. My boyfriend is refusing to ask his friend to leave the house they share. He has said that i can move in with them. Is this wise?...
A. 3 November 2006: No, dont do it, you cant walk around your house the way you want and always have to creep to have sex and do what you want to do, and you want to be able to walk around the house naked if you choose to. So tell him its either you or his best friend, ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 3 November 2006: Do it in the dark, tell him dont look at "just put it in your mouth". (lol) You have to let him know it goes both ways, a penis dont look all that cute either, so if he wants you to do it he's going to have to give. Good luck and have fun.... (read in full...)
He cheated with his son's mom and I forgave him. How can I start feeling secure with us again?
Q. I have been dating my guy for 6 months now. And already we have crossed a lot of hurdles that we shouldn't have had to. To start things off, he cheated on me with his son's mother when we first got together. I forgave him and all. But now we fight a ...
A. 3 November 2006:
I am in the same position except my bf has not cheated with his Baby Mama ( as far as I know ) you have to set your foot down, I tol my bf he has no business even talking to her unless it is reguarding their child. If he has no interest he woul... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in this dead end relationship with a man I don't love! Help!
Q. I have been with a guy who is 15 years older than me for 6 years. I got with him when I was 17, and I ended up moving in with him within 3 months of us seeing each other, it was a complicated situation, I felt like I was being forced into it. ...
A. 3 November 2006: I feel that a dead end relationship is a relationship that does not progress, which is not the case here. He is moving forward and wanting to spend the rest of his life with you. I think that you know that this man loves you truly and I think that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has started to drink more and more, should I be concerned ??
Q. My boyfriend likes a beer but has started having 2 and 3 beers every night. Is this normal or should I be concerned?...
A. 31 October 2006: I had that problem before, it came out that my bf was doing another drug that caused him to want to drink more, you shld inquire more before jumping to conclusions. good luck... (read in full...)
Who do I choose-my wonderful new man or my husband who left me for another woman?
Q. My husband left me for another woman, I was devastated but eventually tried to move on and even began seeing someone else. Now my husband has left the other woman and says he@ll do anything to get me back! I am very confused and dont want to hurt ...
A. 31 October 2006: if he left you once he'll do it again when he see's or comes across another woman he may be interested in. If you're happy stay that way. Good luck... (read in full...)
I told him I didn't like the idea of sharing a hotel room with two cute blondes, one with big breasts who he's slept with!
Q. Last week a woman called and left a voicemail for my boyfriend, stating that she would be in town in a few days and wanted to see him. I grabbed the phone before she hung up and introduced myself as his girlfriend (he wasn't at home at the time). ...
A. 26 October 2006: Do let him or her push you around, he should respect the fact that you are not compfortable and make other arrangments unless he is trying to sleep in the same room with her. He has lied and said they never had sex so hes' hiding something and i ... (read in full...)
We been married for 15 years and want to spice up marriage with threesome!
Q. dear cupid, my husband and i have been married for 15 years,and we are very secure in our marriage.but we need to spice it up a bit.my question to you is it cheating if we have a threesome? thanks...
A. 26 October 2006: I think having a threesome is ok if you are secure in your relationship, but be careful. Make sure its not someone that either one of you knoe, that could cause problems. Dont do it at home. Some woman associate sex with love and that could cause ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and she's already had sex so why now does she want to wait til she is married!!!
Q. This is actually two questions I need answers to. I asked my girlfriend the question about if and when we should have sex but she says she wants to wait until she is married. I think that's a bit hypocritical as she has been in a sexual relation...
A. 25 October 2006: Woman will say things out of anger and you are the one top deteremine whether or not that is the case. I know woman that wish they would have never lost their virginity and now that she is with someone who still has thiers she may just want that ... (read in full...)
Who comes first? The spouse or the kids?
Q. Traditionally, I have always believed that in a relationship where children are involved; be it children from outside the relationship or not, your partner/ spouse comes first and the child second to the unity of the “adult” relationship further, ...
A. 25 October 2006: Im not saying that you should put off your happiness but know what ever happens with the man, those will be your kids for the rest of your life and nothing or no one can change that.... (read in full...)
How do you get a boy to like you? Any tips?
Q. hi im 15... how do u get a teenage boy to fancy you?...
A. 20 October 2006: act as if you dont like him. Men want what they believe they cant have. Good luck... (read in full...)
I have brown discharge in the middle of my cycle...is this normal?
Q. i have a bit of a problem im in the middle of my monthly cycle and have been seeing brown discharge. i have been on numerious contraceptive pills in the past because they havent agreed with me and have eventually found the right one and now im ...
A. 20 October 2006: When bleeding comes to a stop it becomes discolored. It's no longer really red. It may be a sign that your sycle is a little abnormal because of the contraceptives. Good luck... (read in full...)
We broke and decided to be sex buddies. But we stopped as he has a new gf, now! Why am I upset about this?
Q. Hey Everyone, I've been friends with the guy for about 5-6 months. In the beginning we were getting to know each other and I decided that we should just stay friends because He seemed like he was the playa type. Anyway, four months later our frie...
A. 20 October 2006: unfortunately women relate sex to love and emotion and men relate sex to sex. You feel that way because although you werent really together, you both shared something. Now you see that as another woman has what was yours . Although he told you in a ... (read in full...)
Should I eventually tell my kids I was raped as a teen?
Q. I was raped at the age of 14, my husband knows about this, and is very supportive of it, should i tell my children, when they are old enough?...
A. 20 October 2006: When I was 12 I was raped as a teen and so was my mother. I wish I would have know before hand to know what to look for. You should tell them, you'll feel better if they know. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How can I move on from him, been having an affair for a year, but he wont leave his girlfriend, but cant stay away from me!!
Q. I was seeing a guy from work for about a year although he has a girlfriend of 3 years. They have a weird relationship and hardly see each other and he has always said to me and others that he has never thought she was the one but he has been with ...
A. 20 October 2006: dont be the other woman!!! Either he is with you or he's not. Put yourself in her position. You are not going to be happy and he is not going to be happy, and now there is a woman at home loving man thats not loving her. Even if he leaves her he'll ... (read in full...)
He's been violent and cheated and just treats me real bad in general!
Q. bin with me partner 5 years i was 17 him 25, bin pregnant 10 times have 2 kids. he has been violent and cheated and hes just a twat in general.doesnt have the kids never done the night feeds and doesnt class what i do with the kids as being work. ...
A. 20 October 2006: Its easy for me to say leave him its not worth it, but you never know what you would do until your in the position. Voice your opion, let him know what and how you feel. Do not allow him to touch you. A man that hits you will kill you and whos to ... (read in full...)
I am having problems with my wife and the only thing that makes me happy is my lover!
Q. Hi everyone: I (age 28) have been married for 3 years and never cheated on my wife before. 2 months ago, I kissed one of my co-workers who is 21 years old. AN unbelievable romance started with that kiss. I first started liking her and now we are ...
A. 19 October 2006: My first instict was to tell you, you shld be ashamed of yourself. But sometimes a person cant help who they love. Dont lead your wife on. Dont let her believe that the relationship is fine. Let her know what is going on and let he make the decision ... (read in full...)
He has issues with trust from his past...so how do I get him to trust me??
Q. Any advise on how to get a guy to gain trust in you? I havent done anything to ruin his trust in me we have recently met. We both like each other but he says he has issues with trust due to his past. Im nearly 15 and he's 17. I dont want to be ...
A. 19 October 2006: I understand your concerns. Me and my bf started the same way and have been together for almost three years. There isn't too much you can do but be trustworthy. Eventually he'll come around, although sometimes men dont trust you because they are ... (read in full...)
Ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner?
Q. ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner? ...
A. 19 October 2006: it turns me on when he watches. I dont mind doing it online though.... (read in full...)
After we broke up..he still flirts with me! Does he still have feelings for me?
Q. my boyfriend and i just broke up about a month or two ago..we werent always kissing or making out or ne thing like that we would go to the movies flirt hold hands hug kiss u kno all that we went out for a total of 5 months we told each other we ...
A. 19 October 2006: I dont want to sound insenstive but he may only be trying to keep your sex relationship alive.... (read in full...)
Periods are 2 weeks late! Am I pregnant?
Q. Ok, my period is almost two weeks late and this really isn't normal for me because the most I've ever been late is a day or two. I've taken two pregnancy tests, one when I was a week late and this morning. Both negative. I'm not stressed so I don't ...
A. 19 October 2006: I can understand your situation. For I have been in the situation before and turned out I was pregnant, even though I took multiple pregnancy test.I suggest getting into the doctor ASAP. It could be nerves, or your hormones could be a little ... (read in full...)
Is he moody like this because of something I did or because he quit smoking? What do you think?
Q. hi. i quit smoking 9days ago and my boyfreind quit 4 days ago. i handled it quite well. but my boyfreind is not doing well at all he is being so moody, we went to Wales was meant to be for 5 days but we only went for 2 days because he wanted to come ...
A. 19 October 2006: Oh honey I feel you. My boyfriend tried to stop drinking and smoking for two days and he snapped to the point where I told him not to talk to me. I believe it is because he quit smoking, try to do something to help him take his mind off the fact ... (read in full...)
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