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writes:I need a woman's advice here! I was making love with my girlfriend last night and as usual the sex is great, we have been together for 3 years now and we have had lots of fun in and out the bedroom!! but as we were making love we both came together which isnt unusal but this time she kept hold of me and was crying?! This has never happend before and all she kept saying was I love you, I love you, and we then spent the whole night holding each other. At first I thought I'd done something wrong or even hurt her, and this morning when we spoke about it she said she never had that before, any ideas what happened?
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reader, Organ Donor +, writes (20 April 2010):
 She loved it, OK? So you are great at sex with her. Be happy!
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (17 April 2010):
Men always think a woman's tears are bad. They're not. Tears are a sign of and a way of releasing emotion. That's why we cry at the weddings AND funerals. That's why we tear up at the triumphant scene at the end of the movie. In this case i think your lovemaking was so intense it sparked a lot of intense emotion in your woman and she expressed that with tears. I'd say it's good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): It was such a release for her that when she came, that tears followed, it's nothing to worry about it means she had a very GOOD time.
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (17 April 2010):
 Matbe she's just emotional, either PMS or she is pregnant. I've even teared up while having sex before but that was because it felt THAT good. Enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou to your comments its put my mind at ease now lol, yeah we are both very much in love and i know shes the one for me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): Maybe she came close to cheating on you recently and now realizes that she could've messed up a good thing, hence the tears and the level of appreciation/intensity.
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reader, MostUnknown +, writes (17 April 2010):
That happen to me to guess that's real love
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reader, rambini +, writes (17 April 2010):
 a womans hormones are a life of their own, even we women dont always understand them!! it may just have been something to do with the timing of her hormonal cycle meant she was particularly emotional that day, or maybe she had just had a particularly worrying/stressful/upsetting day, and being able to fully let go of all that and release all the worry, by being intimate with you was just such a nice weight off her shoulders. who knows, but you are a very lucky man to have such a great relationship!! hormones are a pain, which can make us women a pain, but just cuddle her and give her plenty of support, and everything wil be fine :) best of luck, its a relief to know there are still such good guys out there xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 April 2010):
Sounds like she has PMT and you were especially good and handsome looking last night. Or maybe she's figured out she wants to spend her life with you.
This is a good thing and she loves you. She just got a bit overwhelmed by how MUCH she loved you last night.
You must remember the time when you realised you wanted to say "I love you!" for the first time. Last night was like that, but the next step. She just realises how special you are to her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): Sounds pretty amazing to me! It sounds like she was overwhelmed with the whole experience, but in the best of ways. But, if in any doubt I would simply ask her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): I am jealous!
IT sounds amazing and awesome and like every girls dream come true. She found it intese and moving and loves you very much.
Just be happy about that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): You two just experienced a deep spiritual connection through the use of sex.
I believe you two deeply love eachother... possibly soulmates.
That is so very beautiful.
Her crying is a release of emotional intensity you share...
I cant explain it, but i know.... and you felt it, obviously. Believe me, this is a very good thing.
Its a bond! A very mutual and loving bond. Congratulations. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, thanks for the reply, yeah shes been fine today just her normal self happy and smiling,
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): hi,
Don't worry sex for girls is more than the action and its more the emotion. She is probably just realising that she's really in love with you and is really happy about it. You should ask her if everything is ok but not take the piss out of her.
Has she been ok today?
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