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writes:My partner is 20 turning 21 and after he cums hes penis starts to die and it takes him around 30mins or more for him to have another erection is this normal? or dose he have a problem i don't know for he was my first sexual partner please help
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reader, Peace Love  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 It sounds like the issue isnt if he is normal or not its about what You need. You may need a little more stimulant. Just a suggestion, but when you are getting close have him help you out in some way: sit on his face, have him stimulate your arse, what ever. Myself I refuse to finish without my wife. I used to do what ever it took to accomplish this. You can ask him to pull out when he gets close and go down on you or stimulate yourself while he "calms" down a little. Find something that stimulates you more during sex. Like stimulating the arse hole while being penetrated in the P**** ask him to help beleive me I don't think he will mind. Talk with him about it and try not to let it be all about you because he is important too... right?
Be safe have FUN. P&L
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): It sounds like the issue isnt if he is normal or not its about what You need. You may need a little more stimulant. Just a suggestion, but when you are getting close have him help you out in some way: sit on his face, have him stimulate your arse, what ever. Myself I refuse to finish without my wife. I used to do what ever it took to accomplish this. You can ask him to pull out when he gets close and go down on you or stimulate yourself while he "calms" down a little. Find something that stimulates you more during sex. Like stimulating the arse hole while being penetrated in the P**** ask him to help beleive me I don't think he will mind. Talk with him about it and try not to let it be all about you because he is important too... right? Be safe have FUN. P and L
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Wish that I could still recharge after only 30 minutes! lol He is perhaps much better than normal - more like a stud!
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (23 March 2011):
 My boyfriend is 26 yo and needs about one day (~24 hrs) to recover. It's pretty frustrating for me, since I'm horny most of the times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): That's normal, although I find if you continue with foreplay after sex it will come back quicker.
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reader, WonderBite +, writes (23 March 2011):
WonderBite is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well Then I'm a sexaholic? I had my daughter in jan this year and he's been the first lover i ever had as i mention yet now i have more sex urge and am not satisfied enough as he's job makes he be away for weeks so when i get the chance when he comes home i try to make the best of it i would want once in the morning afternoon if possible if bubs asleep and 2-3time a night before he use to complain he didn't get enough now he says he's tired I mean come on ur 20! Going on 21 it really frustrates me because it takes me ages to orgasm and sometimes I don't even get close when he gose reason why I want it 15mins later I understand it takes awhile but this is pathetic 60% of the time I don't go and he's gone before me and the 20% I'm about to go and he cnt hold it and it's tolate is it me or him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): That's normal at his age. Physical fitness, health, sexual desire, stress and other things will affect the refractory period. I don't remember how long mine was at that age, but I remember getting off 3 or 4 times in a hour and a half or so, and I guess the act averaged 15 minutes, so that means I didn't rest for more than 10 minutes max I guess.At my age now (42), I have to rest for about 30 minutes minimum, more typically an hour or two.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Perfectly normal.
Ok, to tell you the truth at his age... he could do better ,since the average refractory time ( the period before he can have another erection ) is 15 minutes for an 18 y.o. But 15 minutes, or 30, who's counting ? You can't make love with a stopwatch at hand - and anyway , when he'll be 70 , his average refractory time will be 20 HOURS.... so, seize the moment :) and enjoy!
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (23 March 2011):
 That's normal. Guys gotta recharge!
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reader, Heisenberg +, writes (23 March 2011):
No, that appears to be normal. Recovery times, as it were, vary from man to man. Some require almost none at all, while others need upwards to an hour or more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): NORMAL!
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (23 March 2011):
 No, its normal. We as women can sometimes just go and go if you know what I mean. But men lose alot of energy when they cum. He's 21 wait til he gets in his 30's, you may have to wait until the next day. But if you ware him out....take it as a compliment
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