Is my vagina sore because it was rough or another reason?
Q. it had been a month at th longest since ive had sex, and i just recently had sex on saturday night just gone, it is now wednesday. i have a really sore vagina, like it hurts when i pee, th sex was rough though. is that normal? should i go see the ...
A. 22 July 2010: Yes it does. Thanks for updating us and good lass for getting it sorted quickly x... (read in full...)
Is my vagina sore because it was rough or another reason?
Q. it had been a month at th longest since ive had sex, and i just recently had sex on saturday night just gone, it is now wednesday. i have a really sore vagina, like it hurts when i pee, th sex was rough though. is that normal? should i go see the ...
A. 21 July 2010: Go and see your doctor and have it checked properly. It could be that the rough sex has caused a urine infection. It can happen. Speak to your doctor.... (read in full...)
Someone sent my partner a text saying I'm sleeping around but I'm not!
Q. Hey dealt don't no what to do as me and my partner who is 4mnts pregnant with our first are falling apart and I really don't want to loose her two days ago my partner got a text saying in sleeping with your boyfriend no name gave or evidence or ...
A. 21 July 2010: Hi. You can tell her you would like to attend clinics with her and start asking what she will need for the baby. Just let her decide if she trusts you or not. You didnt really know each other that well before, which i didnt realuse, so give the lass ... (read in full...)
I have serious concerns about my daughter's mental health!
Q. My daughter is 15, nearly 16. When she was 13, she got bullied very badly. Her mental health hasn't yet fully recovered, although she has been in therapy for attempting suicide. Her brother has Asperger's Syndrome and is quite violent. He make...
A. 21 July 2010: The best way to deal with your concerns is to go and discuss this matter with your daughters doctor. Please do that and have your concerns addressed properly.... (read in full...)
How can I improve my posture?
Q. i am 5 feet and my husband height 6.2 .;i have a bad habit that i walk with bent shoulder and neck...like old..i want to overcome this...and want to walk straight...sit straight...any body help me...any exercise any suggestion..it also destroy my ...
A. 20 July 2010: Hi. It may have been an issue with your bust that started you stooping in the first place... as you tried to hide/cover your chest. So i would suggest going to a good bra specialist shop and get properly fitted for bras. Whether you feel top heavy ... (read in full...)
We had sex without a condom, and now I am worried I may have a STD or vaginal infection! Could he be sleeping around behind my back?
Q. Dear folks.my problem is kinda embarasing,please hear me out.last wednesday i had sex with my fiance who i see 2 or 3 times a month.ther was no cöndom,i took morning after pill.now for the past 3days i woke up to a VERY BAD smell coming from my ...
A. 20 July 2010: Hi. There are some common "downstairs" infections that women get that have nothing to do with sex. One of them can be quite wiffy! So go to your doctor and have a proper check up. If you feel a little embarrassed just request a lady doctor x... (read in full...)
Someone sent my partner a text saying I'm sleeping around but I'm not!
Q. Hey dealt don't no what to do as me and my partner who is 4mnts pregnant with our first are falling apart and I really don't want to loose her two days ago my partner got a text saying in sleeping with your boyfriend no name gave or evidence or ...
A. 20 July 2010: Hello. Well if you havent slept with anyone one else, then someone either doesnt like or is jealous of your gf. I imagine it will be a girl that she knows or used to know. Sims are so cheap and easy to get, that its probably not a regular number. So ... (read in full...)
I have serious concerns about my daughter's mental health!
Q. My daughter is 15, nearly 16. When she was 13, she got bullied very badly. Her mental health hasn't yet fully recovered, although she has been in therapy for attempting suicide. Her brother has Asperger's Syndrome and is quite violent. He make...
A. 20 July 2010: My heart goes out to you. Dealing with the effects of bullying can be very distressing. The same thing happen to my daughter. And i have a nephew with Aspergers, so i can understand how you feel at times. My sister in law got my nephew involved in ... (read in full...)
Sex doesn't feel right!
Q. when i have sex with my partner it doesnt feel right it feels like its in my stomach and is touchin my belly button a dont get any pleasure at all but i have a few times it just wont go away what could i do to help make this feeling stop. ...
A. 19 July 2010: Hi. It might be a good idea to pop along to your doctor and ask for a check up "downstairs". Sometimes there can be other reasons for the sensations you are getting x... (read in full...)
I used my mascara stick for pleasure and now I'm having pain
Q. i started to use my mascara stick to pleasure me i did it so hard and fast that i bleed and i keep doin it bt i thought it was normal because wen i first had sex i bleed. but now near my appendix (right side) they av started to hurt. wat shud ido? ...
A. 19 July 2010: Hello. As others have said, do go to your doctor or your surgery triage nurse and explained what happened as it sounds as if youve done yourself an injury. Bleeding when you did it isnt normal. It might be wise to invest in a proper "sex toy" for ... (read in full...)
I have never been in a relationship in which girls were threats...
Q. Well, to start off, I am a twenty-three-year-old gay male with an extreme amount of insecurity about my appearance when compared to others. I have an anxiety disorder (mainly social anxiety), and quiet, shy, reserved, do not like big parties, and ...
A. 19 July 2010: Hi. I would suggest researching Narcissism. It sounds as if your bf may have issues in that area. If he does, it will be having a negative effect on you. Narcissists seek attention and adoration. They dont need therapy because they are "perfect". ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from this? Please help!!
Q. Mod Note: Posters Original Title Can you get pregnant from dry humping? I'm so worried. My boyfriend was over a few days ago and we were dry humping. I was completely naked but he was completely dressed. Is there any way I could be pregnant from...
A. 19 July 2010: Sperm has to get into the vagina for a woman to get pregnant. As long as there was no way that could have happened, then you dont have to worry. But the thing is, you are young and its wise not to take any chances. It would be a good idea for you to ... (read in full...)
Why didn't she tell me about her date???
Q. My friend met a guy online and she went out on a date with him. I didn't know until she told me about it. The last time she went out with a guy, she called me and I helped her decide what to wear and how to do her hair. This time she didn't tell me ...
A. 17 July 2010: Maybe shes getting used to online dating now , so its not such a biggy anymore. Or prehaps she thought you might not approve for some reason. Did you offer advice against online dating or object to the last guy she met? The best thing to do is to ... (read in full...)
What to do... who to choose???
Q. I have this problem here. Actually a few, but they all mend together somehow. Here it goes: I got accepted to school in Fall and I have no idea if I should go. I have a boyfriend here at home and I take us really seriously, and he does I the same ...
A. 17 July 2010: Hello. You are correct in thinking if someone loves you they will do what it takes to stay with you. Even if it that means being in a LDR for a while. But your current boyfriend has told you hes not prepared to do that. So in all honesty, while he ... (read in full...)
Will a threesome ease my retroactive jealousy?
Q. Ok where to begin! I was in a relationship of 8 years and that ended 1year ago, for the past 5 months I've been dating and living with a woman who 24 years old! She has 2 children and I love her and them! The problem is she has done soooo much ...
A. 16 July 2010: Hello. If her past behaviour hurts you and makes you feel sad, then im not sure asking her to repeat it is going to make you feel any better. She didnt know you when she did those things. And she probably wasnt in a relationship at the time. If she ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be born without a hymen?
Q. Sorry this isn’t a relationship question but I think everyone here is a bit more helpful than yahoo answers. it’s a bit personal. As far back as I remember I have not technically been a virgin (never had a hymen). I was wondering if you could be ...
A. 14 July 2010: Hello. The lad was disturbed and being a bully. I expect he behaved like that with the other children too and was closely watched. So unless you have any memories of sexual abuse, dont torment yourself with thoughts about something that more than ... (read in full...)
She found a sexual text I had sent to another woman, how do I reassure her it means nothing?
Q. OK I have a situation. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about three months. I screwed up in the beginning by sending a sexual message to another woman. I didn't put much thought into the statement. Well anyway she seen it. How can I reassure her ...
A. 14 July 2010: Hello. But you were doing that type of thing. Hence the problem. First impressions are lasting but hopefully you can recover from this. Im in agreement with the other posters. Dont tell her it meant nothing. Someone did similar to me once and said ... (read in full...)
Spotting, uncomfortable feeling, what could be the problem??
Q. I am fourteen years old. I have only had oral sex ( recieving . ) but it was three months ago. Since then I have been masturbating . Recently, I've felt the urge to pee a lot more and it comes without warning . When I go to use the restroom almost ...
A. 11 July 2010: Hello. You are becoming a young woman, so you will have to get used to taking control of your own health and looking after yourself properly. And that will mean going to the doctor from time to time. If you feel shy you can always ask to see a lady ... (read in full...)
After intercourse I get what feels like urinary infection what is causing this?
Q. Thanks in advance for any answers! Recently, after intercourse, I get what feels like cystitis or a urinary infection. Sometimes it's a day after sex and other times only a few hours. It stings and my bladder feels uncomfortably full yet I only ...
A. 10 July 2010: Hi. You might have a low grade urinary tract infection, so do get it checked. To help stop its return, always use lube if you get a little dry during sex. Remember the One Hole rule during sex. Make sure things dont get too "rough" when your partner ... (read in full...)
He's begging to come back but I just don't have the strength. Any comments?
Q. I have been married for almost 17 years, but have been separated for the last 12 months. I separated beacuse I just could not take anymore, the lies, the secrets, etc... He just was not a man, I mean in taking care of the house or me. nor was he a...
A. 10 July 2010: Dont put yourself through it again. Im sure hes told you what a changed man he is. But he didnt care what he was putting you through the first time and he used you...not loved you. If you go back, once hes feeling comfortable, he will go back to his ... (read in full...)
Should I have been stronger and left my cheating husband?
Q. i have been with my husband for 8 yrs... we were high school sweet hearts, i was only 14 when we got together. he said all the right things and did all the right things, so we've been together ever since. now the yrs have passed and our 5th yr ...
A. 8 July 2010: Hello. You didnt leave him because you didnt want to leave him. You still love him. But loving someone and forgiving them are two different things. Its very easy for people to say leave. But as youve found out...and your mother will know. It takes a ... (read in full...)
Sex is leaving me in a lot of pain ..
Q. hey, im 16 and iv been withmy boyfriend for about 6 months. we do have sexual intercorse and started about 5 months ago. when we first started having sex i was fine i could do it with him all the time, but then i stopped taking the pill because i l...
A. 8 July 2010: Hello. If you havent changed anything in the way of sexual activity but now it hurts when it didnt before, then my advice is to phone your doctors surgery and ask to see a lady doctor. Go back and explain your symptoms again. What ever is wrong ... (read in full...)
I do not mind him viewing and saving porn;but he saved a picture that cleary isn't pornographic and I don't know what to think..
Q. My fiance watches a lot of porn and I don't really mind. He has a fetish for nylons. On a nylon fetish site he found and saved a picture of a group of girls approximately 14yrs old posing for a formal. All in dresses and nylons of course. I ...
A. 4 July 2010: If his fetish is such, that hes even sexually aroused by minors who wear nylons, then he needs watching. Closely.... (read in full...)
I think he may be cheating, but I need proof!
Q. I strongly suspect my husband has, or is about to cheat on me.Pevious posts to this site, and the replies recieved,say my instincts and gut feelings are right! I am absolutely sickened and heartbroken, but I know he will deny all and make me out to ...
A. 1 July 2010: Hello. It is possible to retrieve deleted texts. I know the police have the software to do it and cheaper versions of the software are available to the public. But i dont know how good they are. "Google" cell phone spyware. But my bet would be that ... (read in full...)
I am worried my colleague is suicidal, what can I do?
Q. Afternoon aunts and uncles. I need some advice about a colleague of mine. Over the last few months she keeps talking about suicide and killing herself. She even asked what is the best way to kill yourself. At first I thought it was just attenti...
A. 30 June 2010: Hi. Try and meet up with her outside of work and have a chat. Shes very depressed and needs to speak to her doctor about it as soon as possible. Maybe as she cant drive, you could offer to go with her. It might be something as small as offering a ... (read in full...)
Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask?
Q. Another poll for you ladies: Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask? If not, how far off are you? A) Yes, I tell them my real number if they ask B) I tell them my number of "real" boyfriends or relationships, bu...
A. 30 June 2010: Answer A. I hope men dont all take our number and double it. Thats supposing we are all liars, which would be rather sad x! ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant despite everything that is going against us?
Q. i am pre-menopausal for several years and maybe 1 period a year and my new companion is shooting blanks can i get pregnant. i am 40 he is 48 thanks...
A. 30 June 2010: Hello. You can definately still get pregnant even if you are only having one period a year. As for your partner. Some of the "older style" vasectomies have been known to produce an offspring after many years....i have that on very good medical ... (read in full...)
Why did my ex treat me so badly but he's so good to his new g/f?
Q. My ex boyfriend was very abusive to me. In ways you would never want to imagine. I was such a great girlfriend ifelt like tho. I did everything for him too. Well now he has a new girlfriend and has never even threatened to do anything to her (not ...
A. 30 June 2010: Hello. He treated you like that because hes a bully. Bullies pick on people that they know wont fight back. The other girl is probably different to you and would walk away if he tried hitting her. So he behaves properly around her because he doesnt ... (read in full...)
I have found out my boyfriend has been lying to me for nearly a year, I'm scared there could be even more he is hiding!
Q. Hi, I'm a little lost as to which dirction to turn. My boyfriend lied to me. Everyday, for nearly a year. He told me that he lost his licence because he never converted his international licence to an Australian one about 1 year ago. I recently ...
A. 30 June 2010: Hello. If his drinking problems have already caused you problems AND youve now found out hes also a liar, has convictions and a suspended sentence hanging over his head. Then my advice would be to follow the other advice here and leave him to his ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to take pictures with me for facebook?
Q. Dear Cupid, I know this sounds sooo soo stupid and its a really stupid thing to ask. But I see some of my friends on facebook who have pics with their boyfriends really cute ones...Im just wondering how do I get pics with my boyfriend and how do ...
A. 30 June 2010: Hello. Its not stupid at all. If all of your friends have them it must make you feel a bit left out! Just explain to him that you would like a few nice pics to put up. He wont think you are weird. You could just say youve noticed friends have some ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him? And if I do how can we get over this?
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me for two months. Sorry this is extremely long but we have an unusual background to our relationship. Let me start by saying that we don't have a typical young relationship, we met in a pro...
A. 29 June 2010: Hello. Id give him another chance. Hes kept things together for you both for a long time...and in freezing conditions sometimes. Make this something you both overcome together as well. As C Grant points out, the fling could just be a reaction. Let ... (read in full...)
He was repeatedly checking out my friend's pics
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and we live together. I was going through my internet history yesterday to find a website I went to a few days ago and made a different discovery. He has been looking through ALL of my friend's pictures ...
A. 29 June 2010: Hello. If your partner thinks your friend is hot and hes been looking through her pictures multiple times. And hes told you he wanted to find out more about her. Then it sounds as if he has a crush on her. If it was a media star ect it wouldnt be so ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend gone off me?
Q. ive only been with my boyfriend for two months,so we dont love each other yet, when we first were together he always wanted to see me, he text me quite alot and said really nice things to me, then out of no where he never texts or calls, i havent ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hi. Id ask him whats going on if i were you. If hes gone quiet and only responds when you contact him...thats not really being boyfriend and girlfriend x... (read in full...)
Help! I don't think I'm as good as his ex!
Q. I cant help but compare myself to my boyfriends ex girlfriend. And he can tell whats going on and we keep growing apart. he says i dont need to amount to her. but i want to be better than she was. she is beautiful and has a great personality... i ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hello. I hope you dont put your boyfriend off you because you dont feel as good as his ex. That would be such a shame. Hes told you that you dont have to try and be like her, And he obviously likes you a lot and probably wouldnt even want you to be ... (read in full...)
Is My Husband my Third Cousin or Not?
Q. Ian currently married to my couson Which my grandpa has a half brother an he has a son,which he has a son which is now my husband,it would make us third cousins right?we have a son too....
A. 28 June 2010: Hi yes i think your husband is your 3rd half cousin x... (read in full...)
Are we just friends? What are the signals he likes me?
Q. I have been friends with this guy for a few months now and because i have never been in a relationship before i am unsure whether he is just being friendly or if he really likes me. Can anyone give me advice on what the signals would be if he really ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hello. He may be shy and not want to ask you out incase you say no. I think its safe to say that he must like you if hes being friendly, so just drop it into conversation that you like him alot...if you do! With a little encouragement from you, he ... (read in full...)
Possibly jealous bitter friend
Q. I have this friend, he's great, very likeable, down to earth, always helpful, compassionate and kind. Sometime he views life through rose-tinted glasses but thats a minor quibble and a good problem to have. He was struggling to pay the bills so I ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hello. Maybe you should have a word and ask whats up. It might be something to do with work. Or it could be his housemate that you contact. Maybe he doesnt like that. Or another possibility is that as you work with him now and see him on a more ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, moved away and now wants me to come there?
Q. How confusing is this? My boyfriend of 4 and a half years moved to another state and when he left he sent me a message saying i'll meeet someone who will treat me better.. then kept acting like we were together and messaging me saying he misses me ...
A. 28 June 2010: Hi. He sounds rather unreliable. First leaving you...then inviting you to join him. Maybe he felt like a fish out of water when he got there and the thought of having you there was comforting. If he hasnt mentioned it again, hes probably thought ... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with him, I want him back!
Q. I broke-up with my x for cheating on me. The girl he cheated with was a 'one' time thing. We were still dating for 8 months after that ended. I just couldn't deal with the emotions and needed to break-up. This happened 1yr ago.. We wanted to hav...
A. 28 June 2010: Hello. Yes men can be as calculating as women. And yes it sounds as if hes using the dog as a means of seeing you or atleast keeping in contact with you.... (read in full...)
We are Both in Relationships, But he Wanta A Blow Job, Should I??
Q. Im 14 and this guy iv new for over10 years hes 15 and wants me to give him a blowjob and i said ill think about it..couse he gots a girl friend and i have a boy friend...i want to but dont know what i shoud do?...
A. 28 June 2010: Hiya id be a bit insulted if someone knew i had a boyfriend but they still asked me to give them a bj. Id wonder if they thought i was easy or something. Say...No chance, pal! And be glad your boyfriend isnt like him. You will find some boys go ... (read in full...)
I'm 10 weeks pregnant but I don't feel anything towards this baby...why?
Q. Hi guys, Im wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar. I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year now, and everything is perfect with us. I know we're meant to be together. And although it wasn't planned, I found out I pregnant. ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hi and Congratulations! As its your first baby you wont know what to expect. But how you feel is normal. Its early stages and your body is going through massive changes. You arent at the mumsy stage just yet but it will come. As your bump grows and ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my life?
Q. I am incredibly confused about my life. I had to quit my previous job due to the lack of skill in that area. Now I have trouble finding another job. I am 18yo, and it's the end of June, and I start college in August. I am broke as hell, and in 1 ...
A. 25 June 2010: Hello Mr Incredible. Usually when people hit the wall...which happens a lot you know. They go to family for help. Either to parents or grandparents. Aunts, uncles ect. Thats what we are all there for. A safety net for when things go wrong...which ... (read in full...)
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