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writes:How confusing is this? My boyfriend of 4 and a half years moved to another state and when he left he sent me a message saying i'll meeet someone who will treat me better.. then kept acting like we were together and messaging me saying he misses me (even though I was distant and acted uninterested) Now that he's all settled there, he said to me "I wont ever meet anyone better for me then you in this life time" then he said that i would love it there and if i ever wanted to move there with him the option is always there and to think about it within the next 6 months. I'm not sure if he sounded keen. I said that I wouldnt wanna impose on his dad but he said his dad would love to have me there and that I could go uni there. but that was the whole conversation about it pretty much, he said we fell into a good place and we just sorted out everything somehow and we're good for each other then no mention of it since, he still acts couply to me.I wanna know if he's serious or not without bringing it up myself. Do you think he was being serious or playing head games to see if I care?
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Hi. He sounds rather unreliable. First leaving you...then inviting you to join him. Maybe he felt like a fish out of water when he got there and the thought of having you there was comforting. If he hasnt mentioned it again, hes probably thought better of it now hes settling in. If you dont want to ask him outright, you can either drop a few hints or just leave it and see whether he mentions it again. I dont think he was purposely trying to play heads games with you. Its more likely that he just missed you and felt out of his comfort zone for a while x
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