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writes:Hi I really like a guy in my local town and he goes down to the pub alot with some of his guy friends... but i dont really know him and he doesnt know me..? how can i get to know him, my friend knows him and she is trying to play matchmaker and saying "i think you should go for him" ect. but yes hes about 24 and im 18 do boys in their 20's go for girls in their teens or do they think they are too immature for them? and how can i get him to like me? xoxoxo thank guys and girls!
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 I think age differences are not the main thing you should worry about. I suggest try to make eye contact with him, flirt with him. Make him to see you (not on extreme ways:) And then next week or day be more close to him. Talk with your friend in his nearness. Then try to talk with him. You can start with "hey, what's up? i saw you and i said to myself i have to know you". You can talk with him about music in pub or those kind of things. Make conversation first and then you'll probably see if he likes you. Maybe you can ask him to go to the drink next afternoon. Good luck, tell how will things progressing in future.
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reader, heatherrrrrrr  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Yay! I'm planning to write a book for girls on how to pick up guys, this is perfect.
A guy who is 24 is not all that different from a guy who is 18. They only carry themselves with more confidence in the beginning, once you get to know them, they're just normal guys like the ones your age. The trick is getting him to pursue you when you are actually pursuing him.
If you have a hobby, or many hobbies, you probably have a great story about something funny or crazy that happened(while you were playing a sport, or having your weekly knitting circle, it doesn't really matter as long as it's funny). You must approach this guy with confidence, don't let on that the age difference makes you feel inferior. In your head, pretend that you are also 24, and act the way you think a 24 year old would. Tell him AND his friends about your funny story, and make sure there's nothing sexual in it because that would come on too strong.
It is literally as easy as just walking up to him and saying, hey guys, I want to tell you what happened to me the other day. And then tell your story. Make eye contact with everyone in the group. Once you get a response(hopefully laughter), say something playful but kind of mocking to the guy you are interested in. Make fun of him a little. Do not say anything sexual, because we don't want him to think of you as an easy fuck, or give away the fact that you are after him. He's a man so he will be thinking about sex whether you mention it or not.
If he has any interest whatsoever in dating you, this will work. You just have to get the balls to try. You've got it in you!
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