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Why am I hardly ever in the mood for sex?

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Question - (1 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *rys writes:

Is there something wrong with me? I am hardly ever in the mood for sex and i am only 23 years old. Does anyone have any advice for me, to help me have more of a sex life with my boyfriend?

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A female reader, junebug United States +, writes (2 August 2008):

my boyfriend and i have been datin about 3 years and just a couple weeks ago the same thing happen 2 us. It not that we dont like sex it just the same so we watched some porn (which we do if this happens to us) well we still just was not into it.well i was on the internet and found some videos on sex advice and the lady said everyday have sex around the same time.(after work ,before work, whatever works best for u 2)and it has to be the same time everyday and just have sex even if ur not into it. This will makes ur body crave it.so sooner or later ur body well crave it around that time and u will enjoy it more and want it. Sounds crazy but it worked for me and him!in about a couple days my body was craving sex.and also go to a sex shop buy some sex position books.watch porno.best of luck!

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (1 August 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntFor some ladies, once they have been with their boyfriends for a while, they get a little too accustomed to the same old action in bed. It gets to the point where when the two of you reunite at the end of the day, all you want to do when he wants to have sex is go to sleep. Try to remember though, sex is important in a relationship. Try new things. Get dressed up, watch a good porn together, play out a fantasy, do something that will have you begging for more. Think of something that turns you on (even if it doesnt involve him) and use it! Good luck, make it fun!

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A female reader, MuffinGirl Netherlands +, writes (1 August 2008):

MuffinGirl agony auntYou're dreams of every guy. If i'm understand you, your boyfriend doesn't want to have sex as much as you do. I suggest, buy new sexy underwear which would makes him more horny. Or act more sexually, like sexy seducing with your moves..or maybe easy striptease. There's nothing wrong with you, i want to have so much libido as you!

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