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... Send *SA a private message | | | *SA's profile:I'm a professional dreamer and believer.. that love is worth fighting for. I believe in giving chances, especially to the one least worthy. We may be disappointed in the outcome and think we've wasted that chance, but you never know, somewhere down the road, your love may be remembered. Never give up on someone and never give up on a relationship... not until you've tried and tried and tried again.
True love never comes easy... it must be fought for and worked on. Hold on to your dreams and believe in love... it will take you far!
I've only been a member of this community for about two years. I truly love and appreciate all the members and their insight. This place is awesome!
When I first joined this community I was heart broken over a guy who chose to cut contact with me over something silly. Thanks to a special member, ShareBear, who stayed with me every step of the way, I was able to get over the heart break and love myself again.
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How can I get my ex to actually talk to me about the way he feels about me?
Q. How do can I get my ex to actually talk to me about the way he feels towards me? I recently broke up with my boyfriend and not on good terms I basically wrote to him on Facebook messages that I was cheating on him and it's best if we called it ...
A. 11 April 2014: He's feeling very upset at your right now... that's what he's feeling. He's upset that you cheated on him (he doesn't know you didn't), and he's upset that you chose to break up with him via FB. I'm not sure if he will ever forgive you.. that rea... (read in full...)
I'm at a crossroads, do I work things out with my ex or stay with my new boyfriend?
Q. Hello! I am taking the time in advance for taking the time to read my agony and for any help you may provide. I also apologize for the lenghty paragraph. I am at a crossroads. I have an ex husband who I was with for 6 years and we have a...
A. 11 April 2014: You don't have to choose either one. Why not take some time out for yourself without either of them to decide what you really want... or who you really love? Do you remember why you and your ex were always fighting? Can those issues be resolved... (read in full...)
Could it be he prefers other girls but settles for me because I'm so eager to spend time with him?
Q. Hello. I have a complicated relationship with my best friend. We have known each other for two years now, and have spent a whole lot of time getting to know each other. In fact, we're together so much we are mistaken for a couple all of the time. ...
A. 11 April 2014: I agree with Cerberus, it could mean anything. You won't know exactly how he feels about you unless you ask. So, be brave and talk to him about how you feel.
There's really only two answers here -
#1. He's serious about you, so he doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
Facebook friend question
Q. Just a quick question. I want to know would you think it was strange/weird if someone sends you a Facebook request when although you've chatted briefly you haven't exchanged names. Would you think it was odd how they managed to find out your na...
A. 10 April 2014: I've had friends whom I've only met once through a mutual friend add me. Once I receive the friend request, I usually take a look at their FB page and then decide whether to add or not.
I can share a story tho... I had a friend from elementary scho... (read in full...)
If he likes me why avoid touching me?
Q. please help me understand this if a guy likes a girl why would he avoid touching her.? there is one of my male friend he talks to me stares me does everything that makes me and my friends feel he likes me but he avoids to touch me he does touches ...
A. 9 April 2014: Maybe he's waiting for you to reach out to touch him first ^_*
Sometimes touching you or not touching you is not a definite sign of whether he likes you or not.
Try talking to him more and getting to know him more. I bet once he feels more com... (read in full...)
Are cheaters always cheaters?
Q. My ex constantly cheated when we were dating. I was even the one he cheated on his ex with. I forgave him everytime because I loved him and thought he loved me to death according to the commitment he gave and he would beg his parents and friends to ...
A. 9 April 2014: I agree with Honeypie.. once a cheater does NOT mean he/she will always be a cheater.
I do believe that once they realize just how much their actions hurt their partner, they will change. But they will need to realize this and make the deci... (read in full...)
A little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now... Help?
Q. Hi Everyone. First and foremost, thank you for reading this. I’m feeling a little lost, hurt and vulnerable right now, and I could really do with some wise words if you might be so kind. I had a partner (we’re both female) on and off over the...
A. 9 April 2014: Many of us here, including myself can relate to how you are feeling now. Many of us have been right where you are. There really isn't any advice anyone can give you to help alleviate the pain you're feeling right now. There is no instant cure... ... (read in full...)
He won't spend any time with my friends or family? I have to beg for him to do so!
Q. Hey everyone so I have a question. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and two months. We live together as well. The problem is he wont go around my friends or family at all like he used to and he doesnt take me around his friends ...
A. 9 April 2014: How long has this been happening? If it only happened recently and for a short period of time, it might be that he is upset about something? Try talking openly with him. Let him know how much it means to you to be a part of his family/life as well ... (read in full...)
My best friend is hanging out with my ex and lying to me about it.
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up three months ago and right after this he moved away to another town where my "best" friend lives. He and I stayed in touch at first but were arguing a lot so have been in touch on and off for the past three months. We ...
A. 31 August 2013: I can relate to this, as something similar happened to me recently. A friend of mine suddenly became very close to a guy I recently 'broke up' with. The three of us were always friends, but just suddenly with my out of the picture, the two of them ... (read in full...)
He can't respect that I'm sensitive
Q. I'm posting here because I would appreciate someone's input on this. My boyfriend and I have been dating for several months now. I noticed this before but recently it's been bugging me a lot more. I'm pretty sensitive and emotional at tim...
A. 31 August 2013: How ironic, I know a guy, also from Canada and around the same age that has the same personality. We've stopped talking for over a month now.
He will never want to calmly talk to work out an issue. He will always say 'just forget it and let's move... (read in full...)
LDR says I'm nicer than the other girls he's been with
Q. This year I went on holiday with my family and whilst I was away, I met a guy who lives in Wales and I'm from England, so we could make it work. The hitch is, he is 19 and has slept with 18 girls, including a threesome he told me about whilst he ...
A. 26 August 2013: hhhmmm.. how about this. Tell him that you DO want to be in a relationship with him, BUT he will need to wait a year to have sex with you. Tell him you'd like to get to know him, for you both to chat often via text or online chat and on the phone, ... (read in full...)
Do I keep boyfriend? Or stop dating him because I'm falling for someone else?
Q. Hi all, I'm feeling really confused now and advice would really mean a lot to me. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year but I might be falling for someone else. Let's call him B. B knows that I'm attached. But we text all the time, to ...
A. 26 August 2013: There will be many guys you will cross paths with that will be better looking, have a better bond, etc than your boyfriend or husband to be. The true question and test is, are you going to leave each of your boyfriends or husband for the next ... (read in full...)
I asked him a question and he can't give me an answer. What do I do?
Q. Hello cupid members, there is a guy friend of mine that I recently asked the questions of whether or not he sees us more than friends and if we could ever be more. His response was a plain 'i don't know' and we never finished the conversation to ...
A. 24 August 2013: My question to you would be - will you still continue to be friends with him if he tells you that he only wants to be friends with you right now?
If your answer is YES, then I would say just give him the space. He might need time to think abou... (read in full...)
Worth trying? Or pointless? Do you think I can contact her and have coffee and try for the truth?
Q. Thank you Aunts for your time reading my agony...My boyfriend of 2.5 years had a ' friend' that he met up with at her house unbeknownst to me over a year ago, i caught him there, he said they were just friends and were talking about a guy she was ...
A. 24 August 2013: I believe that TRUST is most important in a relationship. If you both are in a committed relationship and the other girl knows that, then you need to trust your boyfriend. Other people may have their own opinions and it's fine to hear them out, but ... (read in full...)
Could you suggest anything to make myself feel better, please?
Q. hey, im in such a bad place at the moment i fell out with one of the girls due to this all the girls arent talking to me, i am single so now have no one day in day out in stick in my house doing nothing, theres no clubs or anything around my a...
A. 23 August 2013: I would think back on the last time I was happy, what was I doing? Make a list of things you enjoy doing and try to at least do one of those per day. Listen to music, that usually puts you in a better mood! Sing along! Force yourself to go outside, ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if he prefers me or her!
Q. So, I like a guy at my high school, and I know he likes me or at least likes flirting with me. We flirt often because we play the same sports, but don't have any classes together. One of my friends thought he liked me, too, which helps because I ...
A. 22 August 2013: The best advice I can give you is to just focus on you and him. Stop worrying about his relationships with other girls. They can all be just friends and there is nothing wrong with a guy having female friends or even female best friends.
You have... (read in full...)
Why did he let me go if I was so good for him?
Q. I posted a few days ago in regards to my boyfriend not sure if he saw me in his future. I'm 23, and he is as well. He told me he wasn't sure he saw me completely and he was completely confused. The day before yesterday, he came over to talk. ...
A. 8 August 2013: I believe the best answer is TIME. Only time can tell.. maybe this is not quite the right time.. I suggest to give both yourself and him some space. Focus on something else, hang out with friends, take on a new hobby. Let time take it's course. Good ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and told him, when I suggested splitting up he cried and begged me to stay, but the thing is I am much more attracted to the other guy than to my boyfriend
Q. Guys, I need help, I think I'm going mad. I've been in this relationship now for around 9 years. We love each other, but many a time during the first few years I slipped and cheated on my excellent boyfriend. I told him and we managed to work ...
A. 8 August 2013: Sometimes, love and passion are two different things.
If you can control for passion for someone else and focus on the love you have for your boyfriend and try to ignite passion with him.. then I really think you should try it.
However, if you c... (read in full...)
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