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Depressed because of age. Any advice?

Q.   I am getting terribly depressed and although not suicidal. I keep getting very depressed because I am coming up to 60 years of age. No man will want me now I know that and cant help wondering what a bleak future. I know one doesnt have to have a ...

A.   9 April 2011: It is bound to be partly confidence as well, if you outshine the younger girls with big smiles and confidence you will get noticed in a good way! I always think doing excersise like yoga is the best way to improve mental health as well as meet new... (read in full...)

How can I get the friction I need during sex?

Q.   I have always had trouble reaching orgasm through intercourse but can do so by using sex toys (whether vibrating or not). I have found that I need the friction that toys provide in order to achieve orgasm where with an actual penis, it seems that ...

A.   9 April 2011: Try using the pleasure max condoms, the ones that are ribbed and dotted ... (read in full...)

Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?

Q.   My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...

A.   8 April 2011: It's totally understandable you have fantasy but there are surely things you would not do for your wife in bed, because you didn't feel comfortable doing them.... (read in full...)

Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?

Q.   My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...

A.   7 April 2011: Would you enjoy getting messy hot sticky liquid all over your face and in your hair???... (read in full...)

I have a very high libido, and she used to, but now it's almost nonexistent. Please advise.

Q.   I am 28, my wife is 24. We have been married for a year and have no kids (yet). We dated for five years before getting married (for school reasons). About a year into dating, we started having sex. Lots. Like three times a day. Most of the time, she ...

A.   7 April 2011: Maybe start taking her on dates or doing thoughtful stuff to seduce her :) I know that would do the trick for me if things were getting samey... (read in full...)

Girls, thoughts on chewing tobacco?

Q.   Quick question for the girls on here. How much would it bother you if your guy dipped. By dip i mean used chewing tobacco. Enough to leave him or view him differently? What if you have been with him a while and you barely find out hes been dipping?...

A.   7 April 2011: Wouldn't bother me because I smoke, however, I do dislike tasting things in other peoples mouths hypocritically :o Can I just ask... Why ?? Is it a nicotine thing where you chew rather than smoke??... (read in full...)

Sexual encounter btw an 18 yr and 25 yr? legal yes but is it ok?

Q.   Thoughts on a recent high school graduate having sex with a 25 yo? Or a college sophomore dating a 26 yo? I know its legal but is it appropriate?...

A.   6 April 2011: It's fine!!! Don't worry.... (read in full...)

Should I marry her while I still have this desire to be with men?

Q.   I have a lovely girlfriend. We've been together for a few years. I want to married her and start a family soon, but there is a problem. Back when I was in my twenties, I made a very bad decision that landed me in prison for almost a decade. While I ...

A.   6 April 2011: Ask her to buy a strap on? Also maybe you just enjoyed it due to the sexual relic it gave you in a time where no woman could give it to you. You could always buy a Dildo for yourself if you don't want her to know Xxxx... (read in full...)

Should I meet my ex coworker? We are both married and I am unsure of her intentions.

Q.   I worked with a woman a few years ago, and our relationship at the office got very intense. We worked together all the time, and this woman, who was my superior, had my office moved next to hers so we could be closer to each other. We are both ...

A.   6 April 2011: You should just ask, but make sure you don't come across as big headed. Has she mentioned anything about divorce that she may have been through? Perhaps this is why she emailed you. You could casually ask her how her husband is?... (read in full...)

My guy loves to give me some love down there. Does that make him a freak?

Q.   In discussing how much he loves going down on me, he said: "That's when I take in how beautiful you are" What did he mean by that? Is this dude a freak?...

A.   2 April 2011: He's just been sweet! In a vaguely kinky way I guess! Either way it's a compliment!! Don't worry about it... (read in full...)

Husband isn't in love with me, should I stay?

Q.   My husband came home from being gone over seas for 7 months..The first wk things were ok and then it just got worse. He told me he wasn't in love with me and that there is just no spark there no more. I felt like dying right there. Well I thought ...

A.   1 April 2011: Don't make excuses for a man who is willing to trap you in a loveless relationship and waste your life!... (read in full...)

Husband isn't in love with me, should I stay?

Q.   My husband came home from being gone over seas for 7 months..The first wk things were ok and then it just got worse. He told me he wasn't in love with me and that there is just no spark there no more. I felt like dying right there. Well I thought ...

A.   31 March 2011: You deserve someone who loves you. ... (read in full...)

My wife refuses to try anything new in the bedroom! Help!

Q.   my wife and i have been married for 18 years but have known each other over 20 years, she is 44 , i am 57,she is not adventurous at all in the bedroom. i have asked to do a few things like, play with her breasts when we make love, i have asked her ...

A.   31 March 2011: Maybe try whatever she wants to first and then it will only be fair for her to give yours a chance. Maybe she is jut extremely shy, romance her and tell her how beautiful you find her to boost her confidence.... (read in full...)

My bi-sexual wife has made friends with a lesbian. should I be worried?

Q.   should i allow my wife to be friends with someone she's attracted to? my wife is bi and the person she's attracted to is a gay girl. i just found out about. shes been hiding it from me by deleteting her text messages. when i confronted her about it...

A.   31 March 2011: Would you be worried if your wife who's also attracted to men had male friends? Same answer for this question.... (read in full...)

I'm so negative and it's ruining my life. Any suggestions?

Q.   Hello everyone. So it's time to get this sorted once and for all. I have no idea where this came from, but I have a paranoia problem. I am not very confident to start with, I am a short guy. I have just grown this paranoia, if I see peopl...

A.   30 March 2011: Do you do excersise? It makes you feel better, gives you time to think and gives you better stronger (making you look more self assured) posture. I have really cynical attitudes towards anything and everything but paranoia is different, it so... (read in full...)

My LDR boyfriend can be quite unreliable...do you think he'll call me back?

Q.   My LDR boyfriend can be quite unreliable at the best of times - and even when I ask him things he can never give me a straight answer! - Anyway, the other day I text suggesting we don't see each other again if he can't make more sense to me - and he ...

A.   30 March 2011: He's been absolutely rubbish. In a LDR text and phone is a vital part of communication as you don't get to talk face to face. He doesn't seem worth the hastle! However, are you sure there isn't a problem with his phone maybe?... (read in full...)

Information on how to make a Russian girl happy on a date

Q.   I know it's silly to ask, nationalities aside, people are people. Saying that, I do need some advice regarding a certain wonderful woman that I have met that happens to be Russian: I want to know what NOT to do and what I SHOULD, how to make her ...

A.   30 March 2011: You sound like a nice and caring guy!! Don't worry but be yourself! If you want it to keep going then act as your normally would and tell her how much you like her, bound to win over most women. Is what you meant are there any special Russian ... (read in full...)

He says I'm crazy and insecure and I need help yet he is the one who cant get over his ex...

Q.   I don't even know where to start.:( My boyfriend has this ex who he can't let go of. She has been a big problem in our life. She lives far from us but that doesnt seem to matter. When I found out I was pregant he promised me he was done talking ...

A.   3 March 2011: sounds like he's trying to distract you as his problem is much worse ... (read in full...)

We're not official, do I have a right to feel like this?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for 3 and a half months... we are exclusive but not official... there are a number of reasons why we can't be official but if circumstances were different we would be... as you can see the status of our relationship is a ...

A.   3 March 2011: if you're exclusive you basically go out, you have the right to feel any way you do xxx... (read in full...)

He's cheated on me, now what?

Q.   My boyfriend is telling me he has practically cheated on me, and he told me the reason he was telling me because he didn't want me to get upset by hearing it from someone else but i wish he had never told me. When i see him i just can't get mad, so ...

A.   3 March 2011: it's never good to act in denial. I think once you've seen whats happened truely you will come to the right conclusion that you can be with someone truely committed whether thats a forgiven boyfriend or someone new... (read in full...)

Are there women out there that will still find me attractive, despite the size of my manhood??

Q.   I am 41 years old and separated from my wife for a few years. I think I am quite good looking and I have had sex with a couple of women since our separation, but I am concerned that my penis is very small as the last women said she was shocked ...

A.   26 February 2011: Your penis is fine! Dont listen to that woman!... (read in full...)

I'm sick of my lazy and unromantic boyfriend..

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together since 2years. and its been more than a year we started living together. He is not at all a romantic kind of a person and little dominating. He is out for vaccation and is meeting his family for 1 month. My ...

A.   15 February 2011: i once had this problem, then he left me, i felt so much better. a would recommend that you move on... (read in full...)

How do I tell a girl, she's the one for me??

Q.   How do I tell a girl that she is the one for me? Anything? Thanks....

A.   14 February 2011: just like that! :) x... (read in full...)

How do I swallow without upchucking?

Q.   Hi all, Okay, here goes, I need advice about a sexual thiing, so I will get to the point! My partner is offended that I don't swallow and says if I loved him I would (it would mean a lot to him) but I just cannot do it, it makes me want to reach...

A.   14 February 2011: swallow it down with some water, works for me!... (read in full...)

So do LDRs ever work out?

Q.   do long distance relationships ever work out? ive been seeing a this girl for a little over 2 years and we are in love. the thing is that she got an opportunity to go work in europe for 2 years and she decided to take it. We both want her to stay ...

A.   10 January 2011: it can work for you so keep faith in this relationship working and don't wander and you will be fine (that came out a bit biblical sounding)... (read in full...)

Do woman know when a guy likes them in a romantic way?

Q.   My question today is pretty straightfoward: Many girls I have met tell me that, "Women know when a man likes them in a romantic way." I have asked, "Really? How do they know?" "We just know," is the simple reply. Is this true? If this is...

A.   10 January 2011: i think it depends. If you mean romantic as in more than physical then no i don't personally think you can tell. Unless you personally are very expressive then i have no idea what they're on about xxx... (read in full...)

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