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writes:I've been seeing this guy for 3 and a half months... we are exclusive but not official... there are a number of reasons why we can't be official but if circumstances were different we would be... as you can see the status of our relationship is a little fuzzy... when we first started seeing each other he was SO KEEN, he was making all the moves, really going for it. since the decision came about (on his side) that we can;t be official, it has all been fine, he is so sweet, never pressures me and if i worry about our situation he reassures me there is nothing to be worried about and that everything is fine between us. the thing is though, he is in general a really busy person and so recently has not been able to see or talk to me as often as he once would.. i do miss him but because of our fuzzy relationship status i don't know if it's inappropriate of me to tell him this, or if he is even bothered like i am, that we haven;t been speaking as regularly... and it's just so frustrating because i want to tell him i miss him and feel that we never see each other but he might think i'm clingy since we're not officially going out... do i have any right to feel like this? i don;t want to be a clingy, worrying person but i just don't know where i stand! Reply to this Question
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reader, moon river +, writes (3 March 2011):
 if you're exclusive you basically go out, you have the right to feel any way you do xxx
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reader, The13th_Floor  +, writes (3 March 2011):
I'm pulling the same thing on my wife right now. Our situation is way different, to say the least, but we're living in different countries at the moment. I would love to text her all day long, but I'm lucky to get a 'sweet dreams' text every other day or so. Like you, I don't want to be clingy because our marriage is kind of on the rocks, so I'm literally 'forcing' myself to only text her if she texts me first.
In your case, honey if I liked you a lot, I would absolutely LOVE to receive your messages night and day. Wonder what your guy's deal is? I don't mean to scare you, and maybe it's just me, but if I really liked a girl, I would put everything else off, within reason, to go and get her.
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