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Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?
Q. if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because ...
A. 19 November 2008: It doesn't matter wether or not your hymen is 'busted' you are still a virgin. Even tampons can tear the hymen. Even though I've said it in another post and every other person has also told you so.... YOU ARE ONLY A VIRGIN IF YOU HAVE SEXUAL INTE... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian, bisexual or just perverted?
Q. Hi!I have a question for you.Well,I am 25 years old,and over this last months I think...I ve changed. Since I was 7 years old, I masturbate, and think about sex at all times. I also remember thinking about sex before that age. So, since then,I e...
A. 19 November 2008: You might be a bi. There is nothing wrong with it at all. Talk to your boyfriend about it and maybeee suggest a threesome to satisfy yourself? You sound happy with your bf though so I don't think any of this roots from there.... (read in full...)
Is this cum?
Q. After I ejaculate theres a clear sticky liquid? is this cum?...
A. 19 November 2008: Sort of. Kind of like a delayed reaction or a post-cum like EbonyBlossom suggests.... (read in full...)
Ladies: What is up with people thinking masturbating is just for guys?
Q. Just a quick query about female masturbation. Ladies/girls is it just me or do you think it's a bit sexist to presume that girls don't masturbate and that wanking is a guy's thing? If you are a girl and you masturbate, do you feel really annoyed b...
A. 19 November 2008: Yeah I know. For some guys, masturbating is like second nature but when it comes to a woman doing it...OH MY GOD!!!! What's with that? I thought society had gotten over the whole 'women are dainty little figures and should not be doing or thinking ... (read in full...)
Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus?
Q. Hi! Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus? If so, why do some say they do and some say they dont? Are they scared we think they're gay? I only met two men who asked me to touch them there. However, I don't really know how...
A. 19 November 2008: I agree with the anonymous guy, what is so pleasurable about anal sex? I don't think it sounds gay at all, but I do think it sounds pretty awful. And why would I want to touch theirs either? I would never eat finger food again. Seriously.... (read in full...)
She always able to steal my guys because she has big boobs!
Q. My best friend has really big boobs and all of the guys like her. Any guy that she asks out says yes, and any guy that I ever like she has to get with him. It really frustrates me and I hate her for having big boobs sometimes. What should I do?...
A. 19 November 2008: You should thank god you didn't end up with all those shallow guys. Still be her friend, but talk to her about this, if she's your real friend, she won't take the guys you like. Hopefully she'll stop. And remember, one day her boobs will be all ... (read in full...)
She's said she's in love with me but it's not working... she's terrified of committing here. WHY?
Q. To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - ...
A. 19 November 2008: I understand her. She loves you, but she's so afraid of committing, this could be caused by a number of reasons. A bad past, bad relationships...and now it's left her scared to commit, or maybe it's just she doesn't want a serious relationship. ... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?
Q. if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because ...
A. 19 November 2008: You're still a virgin. 100%
The only way you lose your virginity is if you actually have proper sexual intercourse (sex)
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I am on the verge of jumping on a plane and see my ex, but he has a girlfriend, would I be mad to do this?
Q. Please help! I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. We split up 11 years ago but I still miss him! We have met up with each other occasionally over the years but I have not seen him in two years. He lives abroad so it's not easy to meet in perso...
A. 15 November 2008: No, telling someone how you feel isn't wrong, but he has a girlfriend, even though he's asked you if he can stay at yours, that doesn't prove anything. If he didn't want to be with his girlfriend, he would break up with her.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is not ready for sex... what can I do?
Q. I want to have sex with my girlfriend as we are living with each other since last 3 yrs i told her i can use condom while doing sex but yet she is not ready for doing sex wht should i do?...
A. 14 November 2008: Hey if she's not ready, support her and never try to force her. She isn't ready yet, so respect that. She'll just hate you if you try and force her, and that includes slyly saying things like 'You would never hurt her' or 'We'll be careful and safe' ... (read in full...)
She doesn't appreciate anything I do, should I keep her?
Q. ok so i have been with my girlfriend for about 1yr and 6 mon. she has been living with me for 6 mon. this whole time i have been the only one working and i pay for everything food, if we go out, cigs, everything. i mean she does housework like ...
A. 14 November 2008: Good for the both of you if she's going to get a job, that at least shows you she wants to make the relationship work. As for her her moodswings, I would say...hug her. Seriously I know it sounds stupid but if she gets angry and starts yelling at ... (read in full...)
He lied about watching porn for 3 years. Should I dump him??
Q. My boyfriend have been together for nearly three years. The topic of porn is something that has come up in our conversations before and he knows it is something I really do not approve of. I found out back in June that he has been watching porn ...
A. 14 November 2008: See, this is exactly why he didn't tell you, he knew you would be mad and dump him, simply because you don't approve, but you know what? Something I have found is that only a small percentage of guys DON'T watch porn. If he's within the same age ... (read in full...)
I am on the verge of jumping on a plane and see my ex, but he has a girlfriend, would I be mad to do this?
Q. Please help! I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. We split up 11 years ago but I still miss him! We have met up with each other occasionally over the years but I have not seen him in two years. He lives abroad so it's not easy to meet in perso...
A. 14 November 2008: Ok, imagine it was you in the girlfriends position, what would you think if one of your bf's ex's (one that he hasn't even dated for ELEVEN years) jumped onto a plane and started saying she loved him. You'd think she was crazy wouldn't you? Of ... (read in full...)
I like giving men blow jobs - am I gay?
Q. I have always wanted to know what it was like to give another man a BJ. I answered an ad and got to know this guy. I went over to his house and gave him a BJ. I did enjoy it! Now my problem is, I want to do it again. I like giving the BJ pa...
A. 14 November 2008: I think you may be a tiny bit bisexual, I mean, you've done it, and found yourself wanting to do it again, so that kind of says 'Bisexual' Hey, you might not be, but just because you've had relationships with girls and everything does not make you ... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend fight about everything!
Q. Me and my girlfriend fight about everthing! Sometimes it's so little and it turns in to a huge fight, we can be just sitting around and she will ask me to get her something to drink or make her a sandwich etc and if I don't do it she gets pissed ...
A. 13 November 2008: She is a spoiled brat. No offence, but she must have been given what she wanted all the time and never had to worry about problems, now she has them, she can't handle them so she's just rebelling against them. Why are you even with her? I know you ... (read in full...)
Unless I'm on MSN, I'm too shy to talk to girls.
Q. Well I've been 14 for a few weeks and, well I can't get a girlfriend. Unless I'm on msn I'm too shy to talk to girls no matter what I do, I don't know whether it's because I'm ugly or something but it's depressing me cos all my friends r dating ...
A. 13 November 2008: Pretend you're just talking to one of your guy friends, I mean obviously don't start treating her like a boy but seriously. We're just all people lol. Girls are just better versions of guys :) I understand you feel nervous around girls unless you're ... (read in full...)
We're on a downward spiral, how do I get his feelings back for me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 years and, like most relationships the physical side of it has dwindled over the years. However we have always had a very loving and close relationship and always enjoy being together. This year has ...
A. 13 November 2008: Just try and get him to open up more. Romantic meals, just a night watching a movie...if you start talking maybe he'll start telling you about how he feels and everything, I mean I know he's already said he loves you so much and he wants it to work ... (read in full...)
Why am I having these thoughts after he cheated on me?
Q. yeah ummm da problem is my boifriend cheated on me once and im with him again. c we been 2 gether 4 a year and i love him very much but sometimes i ask myself questions at night about will he do it again? where was i when he was cheatin? what wasn't ...
A. 13 November 2008: You're having those thoughts because you'll be afraid that he might do it again, and that if you never knew the last time, how will you know if he's cheating this time.
When people cheat in a relationship, the trust goes. You'll feel insecure... (read in full...)
I need to lose weight badly... I resemble a cow!
Q. I need to lose weight badly, and I have made up my mind to do that. I'm particularly insecure about my breasts... they're too big, and too saggy. I realize there are worse things but I resemble a cow. If I were to lose weight, would it affect ...
A. 13 November 2008: If you lose weight, your breasts will get smaller, but it depends on how much weight you're planning on losing.
And I think I say this for everyone answering when I say it, I'm sure you don't look like and cow and I'm positive your boobs do not l... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my girlfriend believe that I don't watch porn?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with a great girl, we have been together for 3 years. One problem we have is that she doesn't believe me when I tell her that I don't watch porn at all. I don't watch porn, at all, but she thinks I am lying. Why does ...
A. 13 November 2008: Well, maybe she has only ever known men that do watch porn, and she's determined to think that you do too. Ask her why she's so insistent that you watch it, and ask why doesn't she believe you when you're telling her you don't.... (read in full...)
I don't think I will ever be able to have a proper relationship again...
Q. I first dated this girl in high school.. kind of fell head over heals for her then she broke up with me which sucked.. a lot. Now I have been intimate with many women and not wanting a relationship even though I know they want one... I just ca...
A. 13 November 2008: There's actually a couple reasons you might not want a serious relationship, maybe everything just stemmed from that experience. Yeah, that did suck, so maybe you're afraid you'll get dumped again? I don't think you're screwed, more...kinda los... (read in full...)
She doesn't appreciate anything I do, should I keep her?
Q. ok so i have been with my girlfriend for about 1yr and 6 mon. she has been living with me for 6 mon. this whole time i have been the only one working and i pay for everything food, if we go out, cigs, everything. i mean she does housework like ...
A. 13 November 2008: Wow, no offence but your girlfriend is a spoiled brat. She must have grown up never having to work hard for anything, always being given whatever she wanted and so on. If she was raised like that, then she must expect nothing to change now she's an ... (read in full...)
I didn't like her until my friend started to date her.
Q. My friend is going out with this girl that i used to like. i didn't like her until my friend started dating her. What do i do?...
A. 13 November 2008: Maybe you didn't realise that you liked her until she was taken, or you only want her because you can't have her. Either way, don't do anything, if he really is your friend and you're willing to risk it, then do nothing. If they break up and you ... (read in full...)
My stupid ape-looking boobs
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been getting pretty far in our relationship, sexually wise. On our last make-out session, we both took off our shirts. He wanted to take off my bra. I told him no because I'm not altogether comfortable with the way my ...
A. 13 November 2008: Ok, you've probably heard this a million times but everyone is different. Your boobs are fine, you're only a teenager so you're changing and growing up. Also, porn is never a good source, it's fake and kinda depressing. Don't try and learn and ... (read in full...)
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