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*IZZ MALLY
writes:yeah ummm da problem is my boifriend cheated on me once and im with him again. c we been 2 gether 4 a year and i love him very much but sometimes i ask myself questions at night about will he do it again? where was i when he was cheatin? what wasn't i doing rite, therez tons. why am i having all these thoughts?
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reader, MissUnique  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 You're having those thoughts because you'll be afraid that he might do it again, and that if you never knew the last time, how will you know if he's cheating this time.
When people cheat in a relationship, the trust goes. You'll feel insecure that he might do it again and that's worrying, but the thing is, none of it is your fault, you can't blame yourself. You did nothing wrong at ALL.
Maybe you need to think if you want to be with him. I don't mean to pry, but you're feeling insecure about your relationship now and that can't amount to anything good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): I'm sorry to hear that he cheated on you. Infidelity can definitely cause damage in a relationship and now you're afraid of getting hurt all over again. Observe his behavior. Is he working hard to gain back your trust? Has he been paying attention to you? Has he been acting suspiciously? Think of these questions and go figure.
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