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My friends say leave him, but I can't! Please help!
Q. I am 14 nearly 15 i have been with my bf for 1year and 5mounths when we first meet at school we became great freinds and we started to become more we kissed and flirted and then he asked me out. He moved away 2mounths back now and its really f...
A. 14 June 2011: Wow, being how young you are it's amazing how long you have been together. Kudos on that, but maybe that's the exact reason why your relationship is falling apart. He's your age I'm assuming? He's probably just growing distant because he's you... (read in full...)
My gf is ignoring my calls. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend has changed to the extent that she didn't call for a while now. When I ring her phone she will remain silent on phone, deny my audience time without number. This is bothering my mind. What should i do?...
A. 12 June 2011: If she doesn't want to speak to you then there is no hope for a relationship. Try to see her in person and stand up for yourself. Ignoring someone for no reason (as you make it seem) is not acceptable behavior in a relationship.
Think of it this... (read in full...)
I fear karma and don't want to hurt the guy but what do I do?
Q. I met this guy online ("roy")and he seemed cool but didn't want a relationship. Neither did I, was still so in love with my ex. Chemistry was good but I was a virgin and told him so. We played around, nothing serious. But then I met "jody" and ...
A. 12 June 2011: You've let it go on far too long. For that you are wrong. All you can really do now is tell Roy that you aren't interested, apologize profusely and hope with all of your might that he doesn't take it too hard. If he rebels and won't stop ... (read in full...)
Is there a reason for this?
Q. Hey everyone! This seems like a awkward question.. but I honestly don't know the answer or if there even is one! Anyway, I have had sex before and I never bleed or anything like that, does that mean nothing was really broken and Im still a virgin? ...
A. 11 June 2011: It's a person to person thing. Some bleed, some don't. You are not a virgin because you have had sex, a hymen (or lack thereof) does not determine whether or not you are a virgin. It doesn't mean the guy wasn't big enough. It means you were ... (read in full...)
What do you think of teachers dating former students?
Q. Alright, here's my situation... I'm a 30 year old male teacher, and I've fallen completely in love with a 17 year old female student. She has no idea how I feel as I have never, and would never, under any circumstance, act on it while she is sti...
A. 11 June 2011: After she is 18 and no longer a student you have nothing really holding you back. Go for it :) Good luck!... (read in full...)
This may be the last time I see her - Should I confess my feelings?
Q. I was dating a girl who i fell mad in love with. After losing my virginity to her and sweeping her off her feet, somehow we broke up. What seemed to be the most amazing 6 months of my life were over. I put everything i had into the relationship. I ...
A. 11 June 2011: If she doesn't want to be with you and doesn't show any intentions of a future confessing your love will ultimately cause you more pain. I know you love her, I know you see her as the end all be all of human existence but realize something- you can ... (read in full...)
We just really talk about our kid. Any advice on how BF and I can spice up a conversation?
Q. Sometimes me and my boyfriend have nothing to talk about on the phone and sometime in person. We have a baby together and we mostly talk about him, were young and I don't want him getting bored. Maybe we just got to comfortable to were we feel like ...
A. 11 June 2011: Good conversation is made up of discussing shared interests, events from your day, opinions, debate... so many things can go into a good conversation. Do you and your boyfriend get adequate 'me' time? When you don't have time to explore your own... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I don't want to be around anyone but my boyfriend?
Q. Hello Agony aunts and uncles! I have a quick question for you all. I have noticed lately that I don't have any real friends outside of school. The only person I do hang out with is my Boyfriend, and I'm fine with that because he's the only person ...
A. 11 June 2011: It isn't necessarily bad, depending on the situation but it can become bad very easily. There's a fine line between spending all of your time with your boyfriend and both of you being happy to you suffocating him by loving him too much and, in ... (read in full...)
My friend told my boyfriend I was cheating even though I'm not! Should I end the friendship?
Q. Ok so this girl who is suppose to be my best friend told my boyfriend that i was cheating on him by sending naked photos to some other guy. Truth is, i wasnt cheating on him and yeah she did go through my phone and saw a picture of me in my bra but ...
A. 10 June 2011: Please, please, pleaaase let the friendship go.
This person is obviously manipulative and a liar. Knowing someone for a long time is no excuse to keep them around when they've done something like this. Give her the f**king boot.... (read in full...)
I still do love her. And I do want her back. So how can I get her to come back to me?
Q. hey my ex broke up with me 2 months ago and we were together for 1 year and a half. Tomorrow is the last day of school. but she completely changed. now all she does is hang around the people I'm jealous of, she sings a lot now and she only sang in ...
A. 10 June 2011: She obviously doesn't care about your feelings. If you did get her back, would you really be able to trust her and forget all of the awful things she has done?
She, from what you described, has changed from the person you once loved. You don'... (read in full...)
Was it love, a crush, or just a game for him?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I need your help to find out what exactly what was going on. It's kind of long but I want to give you as accurate a picture as possible. So I had a coworker a few years back that I thought was cute...
A. 10 June 2011: Well, first off I'd like to say please don't marry someone you don't love. You say you're resigned to your fate, but obviously you aren't resigned if you're contemplating things that 'could have'/'would have'/'should have' happened with someone ... (read in full...)
The girl I'm friends with and like has had a complete change of moods!
Q. Male or female ANY advice!! This girl i'm friends with and like has had a complete change of moods with me!! I admit, i was off with her and did ignore her because i didn't want to be around her... but i had my reasons. Though I didn't mean to p...
A. 10 June 2011: She may have felt rejected. Did she in any way try and make contact with you and you ignored her? Whether you have your reasons or not if you ignore her she's going to assume you don't like her.
Or maybe she is going through something herself and ... (read in full...)
I gave her my all, but was it enough?
Q. I just turned seventeen this week. I met a girl over the summer and fell in love with her. Just the way she looked at me and the way she would smile just blew me away. a month and a half into the relationship I lost my virginity to her, wasn't p...
A. 9 June 2011: You did everything you could- more than that actually! From what it sounds like you were wonderful to her. Maybe she isn't in a place where she wants a relationship, maybe she's just immature and thinks she'll find something better. Regardless, ... (read in full...)
Are guys who like damsel in distress girl bad type of people?
Q. [English as a second language speaker here] There's a girl in my class which I haven't found attractive before. In fact, I thought she's loud and annoying. Today she asked me a question about the assignment. Me being one of the smart kids in th...
A. 9 June 2011: So long as you don't take advantage of these girls finding it attractive that they're a little helpless is normal. You're a guy meaning you're genetically programmed to want to be strong and be a provider. Really, these feelings you're having are ... (read in full...)
Why does he express his love so frequently?
Q. My new boyfriend is really into me. We don't get much time together as we live apart so when we do, we treasure every minute. He cooks for me, and we make each other happy. One thing , however, is that he repeats very often throughout my stay that ...
A. 9 June 2011: I think he's just that into you! I'd be extremely grateful to have someone who admired me so much.
If you aren't comfortable with his constant affection however, then talk to him about it. You might just not be the affectionate type- which is comp... (read in full...)
She doesn't give me oral - Is she really a lesbian?
Q. I'm dating a girl who doesn't like to give oral. The basic thing to like and love in a lesbian relationship. Is it possible to still be a lesbian and not like to give oral to your partner?...
A. 9 June 2011: Is it possible to be a straight girl and not enjoy giving blowjobs? --Yes, so I would assume it's just like that. Oral- some people love it, some people hate it, some people won't even say it without blushing. Have you asked her why she doesn't ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my head or my heart?
Q. I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months and this time I think for good. This was my first serious relationship. I broke up with her 3 times and I know she will not come back. Problem is I still feel very attached to her. Like I lost ...
A. 9 June 2011: I think you should follow your head. You know in your head that you two aren't good for each other right now. You may love each other, but that doesn't mean you're good together. Clashing personalities is something that almost always leads to a ... (read in full...)
Relationships with ex-teachers - how does society view them?
Q. Do you know of anyone who got together with their ex teachers? If so, do you know how they deal with pressure from society in general? Like with the ex student's friends, the ex teacher's students and friends etc. How do people view the coupling in ...
A. 9 June 2011: I know of one or two teachers who ended up having relationships with their former students.
From what I can tell the relationships themselves worked, but that's because they are two compatible people who just so happened to meet in a classroom sett... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my daughter's odd behavior?
Q. Your daughter is a great student! She is tall, beautiful with the sweetest personality." those were the words coming from her history teacher at parent teachers conference. My daughter is a freshman in highschool and all the things he said are ...
A. 9 June 2011: From her behavior something might be up, but all I can say (and anyone here really) is that you don't know unless you ask her.... (read in full...)
Who's in charge of the baby, me or my parents?
Q. I'm 16 years old and have a 2 month old son, me and his father are still together. My parents act like the baby is theirs and like they can make decisions that pertain to him. I'm very responsible and I do everything for my son, my boyfriend (his ...
A. 9 June 2011: If you are taking good care of that baby, being responsible with it physically and fiscally, then your parents should be understanding and let you raise your kid. However, if your parents are being financially supportive, being that you're so ... (read in full...)
Healthy mom or sick dad?
Q. Im now writting to ask what to do in my family situation. My mom and dad are divorced and i currently live with my mom and my dad lives in a differnt state. The doctors have told my dad that he is diagnosed with cancer and complete kidney faluire ...
A. 9 June 2011: I'd say go be with your dad. You only have such limited time left with him, go enjoy it and have those great memories. You'll end up regretting it if you don't, at least that's what I would think.... (read in full...)
I want to move out from my parents go to Canada, but what do I do if my request visa is rejected?
Q. I know this isn't the place to be asking this but I need some help and advice. Please read, I know its long but Id very much appreciate as much input as possible. Im 21 years old and I couldnt be more lost in life. For years Ive put up with an a...
A. 9 June 2011: Wow, can I start with a big hug? I'm so sorry you're going through all of this. Frankly, I think you should have been out of there a long time ago- the very first time a knife was ever pulled or a hand was raised at you. I know that is difficult ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend treats me like garbage but I still love him. He's not broken up at all about us splitting!
Q. Okay so i broke up with my bf last night. Lately, we've been breaking up more than anything. Last night, me and him was spending time with each other, so he starts packing up his game in his backpack. I asked him where is he going and he responded ...
A. 8 June 2011: Leave him out to dry. He cheated, he lied, he treated you like rubbish. He doesn't even deserve a 'Hello'. Behavior like that is inexcusable. You may love him now, but if you stay with him you'll just end up hurting more. Leaving him now mean... (read in full...)
I'm 18, am I bisexual?
Q. I'm 18, and find myself attracted to both boys and girls my own age. I have been in a serious relationship with a girl in my year at college, and now have my eyes set on another girl. But I check out guys as well. I masturbate over them and ...
A. 8 June 2011: From what it sounds like you may just be bisexual. You'll never know unless you experiment. But be aware some people don't understand bisexuality. Some people are very black and white about sexuality, and you're going to take a risk of getting ... (read in full...)
Did he lose interest or is he playing games?
Q. So I have been "talking to" a guy for about a month now. We have hung out plenty of times and most recently at a party we hooked up (not all the way) and we "slept together" (again not sex) . Everything was going great he was asking my friends ...
A. 7 June 2011: Sounds like he may like the chase more than the catch. Maybe he's playing hard to get.
I can't honestly give a definitive answer because of course I'm not him, but it sounds like maybe he's a chaser. I'm sorry for this is he actually does want to b... (read in full...)
My family feels I'm too young to be in this long-term relationship
Q. So here's my problem..... I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and I love him to death. He's my best friend and I don't know what i would ever do without him. But the thing is my family doesn't really like me to have a steady boyfriend ...
A. 7 June 2011: Tell them to shove it?
Maybe that's a bit too blunt, but honestly he makes you happy. Nothing else should matter.
It sounds to me like you might have a problem standing up for yourself when your family/extended family makes fun of you.
Don't be ... (read in full...)
What is it really like to be a mistress?
Q. What is it really like to be a mistress? I have been propositioned by a married man I've known for 2 years. He is 24 years older than me and he really turns me on. Obviously I know this is wrong but it all just sounds amazing. Plus he's had a rocky ...
A. 7 June 2011: RED FLAG
Alright, I can't answer what it's like to be a mistress, but I can say this: it HURTS to be cheated on. Put this in perspective here. What if you were his wife? How would you feel if he got some young, pretty girl to drape over his arm ... (read in full...)
To all the men, is that fact that I don't have or don't want any children off putting?
Q. To the men out there, please be brutally honest: If you were single and looking, and met a woman who was in her mid 30s and had no children and claimed to not want any, would you think she was a loser/mentally ill? I ask because I have zero desire...
A. 7 June 2011: I know you're asking all the men, but I find this kind of ironic because just the other day I saw posts about a man COMPLAINING that all women want kids.
That being said, know that there is someone out there for YOU, not for your body to dump spe... (read in full...)
She says she loves me but won't date me!!
Q. so here I am again... looking for help because it seems like you guys are the only people I can rely on for this kind of thing. I love this girl who happens to be one of my neighbors just a street over. I found this out somewhat recently because I ...
A. 1 June 2011: Get. Out Please, for the sake of yourself. This is so unhealthy to be a part of She says she loves you... but what is her excuse for not wanting to be with you? It obviously isn't that she doesn't want a relationship as you have expressed clearly ... (read in full...)
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