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She ditched me to hang out with her ex!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Its been a long time since I wrote to you (I apologize), and now I am here again asking for help for more of my girl problems. In advance, I apologize for any grammar errors or fallacies since my english writing is not that great. ...

A.   17 October 2013: thank you my friends, and you're right I am completely friend-zoned i beleive. So Ill just move on and search for other hot girls on campus.... (read in full...)

Facebook misunderstanding--does she think I am stalking her?

Q.   Sometimes I wish there is no such thing as facebook. Why? Because a 4 months ago I met this cute girl at a party and Ive sorta had a crush on her ever since. Just recently I look her up on facebook I dont friend her because im a bit shy. Two days ...

A.   21 May 2012: Well. . that's a very odd. Right when she friend requested you, thats like giving full permission to stalk her. So that's her wrong doing. Well there isn't really a system that tells the user who checked their profile. So it just might just ... (read in full...)

Should I lose contact with her? Or should I continue pursuing her?

Q.   Okay I haven't asked any help for awhile, but I am starting to have problems again. So I have a friend that is also in my English class. We started as friends and soon we started dating. We were fine for the first two weeks we started dating u...

A.   21 May 2012: Thanks Guys and Gals. I have decided to chose the no contacting route. I respect all your opinions.... (read in full...)

How do I get over my fear of asking my female friends out?

Q.   I find it difficult asking girls that I am very close to out because of fear of what might happen if I am rejected. I mean if she says no,it might affect our friendship. What should I do?...

A.   3 August 2011: All I have to say is. Just go for it! I was in the same position and trust me I got my fair share of rejections. I didn't want to ask out my lady friends for the fear of rejection, broken friendship, and aftermath awkwardness. So for all the fair ... (read in full...)

Ideas for a "welcome home" surprise?

Q.   Ok, so I need some advice on how to surprise my bf in a respectful kinda way tomorrow. I've been away on holiday with my female friends for a week, and get home tomorrow. My bf works shifts and is on Nights, but has asked me to let myself into his ...

A.   23 July 2011: LOL, the comment below does makes sense, but then again if you are in love, you don't have to make assumptions that if he loves you, he will welcome you home wif a surprise (vice versa). Everyone shows love in their own unique way. Anyways..... (read in full...)

How to tell if a girl likes you?

Q.   Hi just a long story short. And question is How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? or likes you? Not to sound conceited, but I think I'm really cute and my female friends says the same thing. I been told by many people at times that th...

A.   16 June 2011: Thanks Guys! I don't fully like her because i barely know her, but I am willing to build up enough courage to ask for her number. thanks for advice!... (read in full...)

How do you feel about yourself? How does this opinion affect your relationships?

Q.   Sort of a big question here, I just want opinions. How do you feel about yourself? How does this opinion affect your relationships? The reason I ask is because I have very low self-esteem, which I am working on but it always comes back to bite me ...

A.   16 June 2011: Well I have recently learned about human behavior and love in my Psychology class. Im not 100% correct but i can still give you my advice. To be able to love others, you must first love yourself. Meaning, you can only give what you have. But i... (read in full...)

I'm open to love, but I'm cynical about highschool relationships.

Q.   Hey guys and gals, haven't needed advice for a while. I'm fifteen. A guy in my gym class is a junior, eighteen, but shoudl've been a senior this year. There is a mentally challenged kid that isn't so bad that he is separate from other kids. He gets ...

A.   16 June 2011: Haha yeah that is a big jump and I would be freaked out too. Go slow and get to know him more. like MissTellAll said, "Have some self respect" And you shouldn't tie yourself down. You are in high school and you should be able to experien... (read in full...)

How can I tell if he wants to kiss me?

Q.   What are some signs a guy wants to kiss you? A guy that I've been dating recently invited me over to his house and during that time, we cuddled and watched a movie on his bed (nothing sexual AT ALL) and he'd lean really close to my face to where...

A.   15 June 2011: YES HE WANTS TO KISS YOU!! Sorry to say it like that but it's so obvious :)) You guys seemed so intimidated with each other. That's cute that it's going to be your guys first kiss, but make sure to not rush things...... (read in full...)

I'm open to love, but I'm cynical about highschool relationships.

Q.   Hey guys and gals, haven't needed advice for a while. I'm fifteen. A guy in my gym class is a junior, eighteen, but shoudl've been a senior this year. There is a mentally challenged kid that isn't so bad that he is separate from other kids. He gets ...

A.   15 June 2011: Hmmm it's nice to see someone that is unique compared to other guys. This guy never had a relationship, but you find him very attractive. Well don't rush into the relationship; Get to know him more. If it is hard to pull a conversation with... (read in full...)

Did she reject me? Should I quit talking to her?

Q.   So this girl and I (she's a freshmen in highschool and im a junior in highschool) have been talking for a couple of weeks and I thought things were going pretty good. And then we stopped talking for a couple of days cause we both thought ea...

A.   18 April 2011: There is a lot of things that could of happened.. I dont know what type of girl she is, but she could be busy, have her computer taken away, or forgot? I would understand that if you liked her and you guys didn't get to go on the first date like ... (read in full...)

Long distance: she won't text me back, is she extremel busy? Or is she just playing me?

Q.   Long story short, and ill explain it the best i can. I am having a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 months now. We seen and hung out with each other for a week over winter break, but after that she went back to living in ...

A.   21 March 2011: Thanks anonymous,but where we are right now I think its the end for us. It breaks my heart that distance has to tear us apart, and it breaks my heart that she doesn't trust me either. thanks for your guys support, but this relationship is a day ... (read in full...)

Long distance: she won't text me back, is she extremel busy? Or is she just playing me?

Q.   Long story short, and ill explain it the best i can. I am having a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 months now. We seen and hung out with each other for a week over winter break, but after that she went back to living in ...

A.   10 March 2011: Yeah i did Called and we did talked about the situation, but she can only give me the same reply " she is Busy" i keep on telling how can she stay busy 24/7 but she can only say is school and work. I dont know if it is me having trust issues, but ... (read in full...)

Who do you prefer, a good boy or a bad boy, both girls and guys opinions matters

Q.   Hey this is just a short question. I've been curious, is it true that girls only go for bad boys? I'm usually considered as the good boy which a lot of my female friends told me. So it has always been on my mind for awhile. Girls and guys ...

A.   14 December 2010: Thanks for the comments and opinions, sorry it took so long to get to reply to my own question. I can guess why girls woudl consider a bad boy, out of excitement, but i guess being the nice guy is a better option for the future... (read in full...)

Does he regret what he did?

Q.   ok so i have a boyfriend and we went to a party last night and his cousin was there. he is a flirt so basically the whole night he flirted with me. he would even touch my back and caress me. my boyfriend couldnt see. so we were all buzzed or drunk. ...

A.   15 November 2010: Definitely tell your boyfriend. Thats why you guys are in a relationship right? to build trust with one another. & Trust me, if you dont tell him now, things will get really ugly if he finds out what happened, and he will freak out at you and his ... (read in full...)

He caught me in a lie, and he won't talk to me now! Can I fix this?

Q.   After going through a tough break up a year ago, I connected with someone I met at college. We started talking and hanging out, and we became very close friends. A month ago, he decided that we needed to take a break. He told me that he didn't ...

A.   15 November 2010: too me it doesn't sound like a big problem in my case, If you had to lie about something you must have a reason for it right? well why not apologize to him and give him a reason for lying to him. If he wont listen, then give him some space to... (read in full...)

I want to tell her I'm moving on...but I can't bring myself to do it.

Q.   Short short version. My girlfriend of two years and I broke up this last week. She had become more and more cold to me over the last few weeks until she finally told me she didn't know if she loved me anymore. I care for her more than anything, ...

A.   14 November 2010: I'm going through a situation similar to what you are saying, but If she really does love you she would have listened to what you have to say when you told her that she is hurting you, and despite the fact that your hurt and she's just going around ... (read in full...)

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