I like Chris but I slept with his brother who now says he loves me
Q. OK well I started the basic training for my job (Navy) about a year ago, this lasts 3 months and we are told from the start that it is the most intense 3 months you will ever have to work. What happens is you are given a date that you will be ...
A. 10 January 2010: Oh well... thats a different ball game now! You definitly should have included that. So you are in a relationship with him... well you got yourself into a bind. Do you want to be with Jaden? If you don't then you you need to tell him. You have to be ... (read in full...)
Abortion pill??????
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I am 4 weeks pregnant and having issues. I dont believe in abortion , however having this baby is not the best idea at the moment. How safe is the abortion pill? 2nd question: How would the abortion pill af...
A. 10 January 2010: I have taken the abortion pill myself, you can get it up to the 8th week and 6 days of pregnancy, you cannot get it past the nineth week. The abortion pill IS safe, but there are always things to look out for everyone reacts differently. You would ... (read in full...)
I like Chris but I slept with his brother who now says he loves me
Q. OK well I started the basic training for my job (Navy) about a year ago, this lasts 3 months and we are told from the start that it is the most intense 3 months you will ever have to work. What happens is you are given a date that you will be ...
A. 10 January 2010: Yeah, you probably should have known when "Jaiden" mentioned a hotel that something would happen, even if it didn't include sex. But you probably should have told him before hand that you liked him only as friend. Now you are going ot have to ... (read in full...)
Pregnant by my ex and he is being ignorant and distant!
Q. Im 26 and 5 months pregnant by my ex. Not the most ideal situation to be in but fortunately we are still friends and he promised to support me. Well, until now. Im about to move out of my 1 bed flat (not allowed chidren) into a 2 bed little house...
A. 10 January 2010: I agree with the last poster. You can even go get registered at a baby store, mark all the things you need on your registry, then when you've finnished you can get a print out of your registry list and send it to him by mail, if that would work out ... (read in full...)
Sign over your rights!
Q. I am 4 weeks pregnant. I discoved this on New Years Eve. When I told my then boyfriend he was very excited. I havent heard from him in 4 days. He wont answer my calls, he took me off his FB (how childish is that?). I texed him and asked him to just ...
A. 7 January 2010: I agree with marieclaire. Give him a chance to be a father, but don't get back together with him, unless he really REALLY makes some changes to the way he's reacting to this pregnancy. ( and changes for you and the baby in general) It could be that ... (read in full...)
He won't have sex with me because I'm pregnant yet pleasures himself with porn!!!
Q. I'm 27 weeks pregnant with my partner. There is a 20 year age gap between us. He told me he is not sexually attracted to me any more and then tried to tell me that he didn't say that a few days later and that he meant it its because of the baby he ...
A. 7 January 2010: Asking a man not to watch porn is reasonable when he's in a relationship. But only a real man will stop, men that are selfish and childish or who don't really love you wont. Every now and then they may slip up but they still try not to for sake of ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and he doesn't want another child! How can I make this work?
Q. Ok. My son's father and I got together fall 2006. I knew he had a daughter and they had a good father-daughter relationship. I got pregnant soon after we begin dating. My son is 2 now. His daughter is 11. I don't really care for his daughter because ...
A. 7 January 2010: Well the trick would have been to get used to his daughter before and and maybe tell you how you feel about his parenting to begin with, nothing rude, just that you had noticed it seems he spoils her. But it maybe a lot harder to tell him this now. ... (read in full...)
Anal anxiety!!!
Q. I've never had anal sex nor had my ass eaten out. My boyfriend wants to try something new and I'm up for it. If I've never had anyone barely even touch my ass, will it feel good when he does it? Or will it take some getting used to. I'm kind of ...
A. 7 January 2010: Well, it will take you time to get comfortable with it. I really think it depends on the person on wether it feels could or not, I've had friends that loved it and friends that hated it, I personally like it, but its just my opinion. Eating your ass ... (read in full...)
Is my belly button sticking out because I'm pregnant?
Q. Is there any other reason why a woman's belly button would stick out? I just recently noticed that my belly button has slowly started moving outward. I don't feel pregnant or look pregnant. I have a 6 month old who I breast feed, so isn't it ...
A. 7 January 2010: Oh wow. Fist off breastfeeding isn't birthcontrol, my ex's mom actually got pregnant again 4 months after she had her last baby. Apparently she was using condoms but sometimes she would go without. So it really IS that easy to get pregnant, breast ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and porn...
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years with my current girlfriend. Things are going great, and we both confide in each other for pretty much everything. Porn has been a little bit of an issue in our relationship, though. I like to watch ...
A. 7 January 2010: Well, this is not someting I typically tell people, but from what you are saying it sounds like you both have the right mind set about this. But why don't you watch lez porn together, and see how she feels after, if she does get bi - curious, then ... (read in full...)
My pregnant wife or my mistress whom I have met months ago?
Q. My Wife or my mistress? I am in mid 30s.married for 4 years. Got my wife pregnant and I feel responsible for it. i got the work from another country . where i feel very lonely. until one day when i meet my other woman. she is everything to me....
A. 7 January 2010: Then why did you marry her if you felt you weren't compatable with her? There must have been something, some reason you fell in love with your wife, some type of spark. Remember it and hold on to it. There will always be a missed oppurtunity with ... (read in full...)
He says he won't be with me forever, so wants to be my first... what do I do?
Q. Okay I'm 13 bout 2 bee 14 my bf is 14 and he is not a virgin but i am.he tells me how much he cares for me and sometimes he gets alil freaky over the phone and he always tells me that he knoes that we won't be together forever so he wants to be my ...
A. 4 January 2010: Sweetie I hate to tell you this, but he does! His only real motive is to have sex wih you. Please wait for someone that really loves and cares for you. You'll know when a guy really loves you because he'll stay with you whether you have sex with ... (read in full...)
Do I have to be scared that I might be pregnant?
Q. Ok my period was on the 26 and I got through on the 30 but I had unprotected sex "I know dumb move " on the 31st at 11 55 pm " my question do I have to worry about being pregnant? Yes no plz explain CAZ im scared!!!!...
A. 4 January 2010: Why is everyone telling you shouldn't worry??? I would! The truth is absolutly yes you could be pregnant. Everytime you have sex you are taking the risk of getting pregnant. (Even more so if you don't use contraception) It doesn't matter if it was ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with two possible fathers...
Q. I am pregnant and I dont know who the father is. I have been sleeping with 2 guys for the last 3 months. I have never been so reckless. however I believe that this neglegent behavior was more of a defense mechanism to prevent gettingin an emotional ...
A. 4 January 2010: The father is the guy who raises the child, I 100% agree. I'm pretty sure that the only way you can tell who the biological father is to wait until the baby's born and have a paternity test. I can't tell you whether to have an abortion, give the ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 3 January 2010: You are trying to reason this out. It's not reasonable. You don't have sex with married men. I know that this wasn;t directed towards me, but you asked someone what they would do if they got pregnant by a married man and he didnt reply for seven ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that the condom broke and we didn't notice?
Q. Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. We are both 18 and in college and we had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago. We did use protection. My period was supposed to come a week after, but it still hasn't and my breasts have bee...
A. 3 January 2010: I 110% agree with Satindesire. Follow those exact instructions. Hopefully your period is just late. Good luck and best of wishes to you both.... (read in full...)
He won't have sex with me because I'm pregnant yet pleasures himself with porn!!!
Q. I'm 27 weeks pregnant with my partner. There is a 20 year age gap between us. He told me he is not sexually attracted to me any more and then tried to tell me that he didn't say that a few days later and that he meant it its because of the baby he ...
A. 3 January 2010: All the emotions you are feeling are completly correct. When he said he wasn't doing anything wrong, did you try explaining that he IS doing something wrong, because it's hurting you? It sounds to me like he is being very selfish and you shouldn't ... (read in full...)
What will I do if she becomes pregnant?
Q. hi. my girlfriend and i had unprotected sex then she took a morning after pill. we had sex two more times and she took another dose. am afraid of her becoming pregnant. we are both in college. we are waiting. what will i do if she becomes pregnant? ...
A. 2 January 2010: First of all, and I'm going to get a little mad at you here, the "Plan B" pill, what you are reffering to as the "morning after pill" IS NOT BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!!!!!!! I can't stress that enough. If you are planing to have unprotected sex, she needs ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 2 January 2010: I have to agree with Celia. You can't truely have a relationship with a married man, then expect him not to worry that his family finds out. Even though he shouldn't have even been with you in the first place. I know your appalled by the fact that ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get pregnant and after how long should I go to check?
Q. Please i need your help. I started my periods on 25th last month on the 27th that is my 3rd day of my periods i ended up with my boyfriend. We didnt make love but he was brushing near my vagina until he cum now idont know if the sperms went in. ...
A. 2 January 2010: Okay just to get it straight, he cummed on your genitals right? Then yes there is a chance of you getting pregnant, its more slim because you didnt have intercourse, but then again one drop of siemen contains like hundreds of thousands of sperm, ... (read in full...)
My pregnant wife or my mistress whom I have met months ago?
Q. My Wife or my mistress? I am in mid 30s.married for 4 years. Got my wife pregnant and I feel responsible for it. i got the work from another country . where i feel very lonely. until one day when i meet my other woman. she is everything to me....
A. 2 January 2010: Do you really comprehend what you are asking? First off, you should NOT be cheating on your PREGNANT WIFE! Second, even if you weren't married... would you really chose someone that you hardly know, opposed someone that has been with you for four ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 2 January 2010: Okay that makes more sense, I understand, but the whole thing is still way damn confusing ( and if it confuses me, I can only imagine how it confused you) and not something either of you need in your life. Especially since he IS married. But I'm ... (read in full...)
I told him I would call his home!
Q. I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I ...
A. 2 January 2010: 40? You are almost 40 and you haven't learned to stay off people's husbands?? Don't you realize all you are to him is a lay? He has a lot of nerve to brake up with you too after you told him you could potentially be pregnant with his baby. It just ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm pregnant..am I?
Q. i got my period on october 22 and wasn't due again until november 18. i had sex on november 2 and then what i thought at the time was my period although i was spotting on november 6-this lasted a day. i didn't think anything at the time but missed ...
A. 2 January 2010: Why don't you wait and see if you are even pregnant first, that way it would save him a lot of worrying. Once you know for sure then tell him. He can't get too mad considering it takes two to tango. ... (read in full...)
Sexual tension between me and my cousin's husband!
Q. I was at my cousin is house for a party and i got really wasted with her husband we had like shot after shot after shot long story short is we ended up making out touching and he fingered me, i didnt stop him tho, i felt horrible in the morning ...
A. 2 January 2010: If I were in your shoes I would tell her what happened. Its a horribly hard thing to do when you know you've wronged someone, especially a close family memeber. You don;t have to tell her, but I really would. Chances are that if he has done this ... (read in full...)
A mini period?
Q. I am due on in a few days but i've been having little period like cramps. At first i just thought that meant i wasn't pregnant but then i read about women who do have cramps during the first couple of weeks of pregnancy. I had sex right in the ...
A. 2 January 2010: Its possible, but its too early to tell. I know most pregnancy tests say that it can detect pregnancy early, but most of the time they don't. Wait until a day or two after your expected period to take a test. It is possible that when you get to ... (read in full...)
Do you have pains at the start of pregnancy?
Q. hey im a 16 year old girl and im always feeling sick all through out the day an through the night to and really tired all the time just always feel like sleeping i had my last period in november havent had 1 in december at all but i still had like ...
A. 2 January 2010: First of all you need to take a pregnancy test. Take it with the "first pee of the morning" its more accurate that way. I am currently 36 weeks pregnant. At the startof my pregnancy I had a pinching feeling in my ovaries and at about 5-8 weeks I had ... (read in full...)
Small sharp pain in my left ovary, is this a sign of pregnancy?
Q. I have this sharp small pain in my left ovary similar to what I used to get at the beginning of my last pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage last June.. is this one of the early signs of pregnancy? Has anyone experienced a similar pain b4 finding ...
A. 1 January 2010: Both posters are right, if its ectopic it could potentially kill you. Although I'm currently 36 weeks pregnant and I had the same feeling before I found out. I wouldn't say its a completely 100% sign of pregnancy though. Just get it checked out, ... (read in full...)
We had sex, he pulled out, but could I be pregnant?!
Q. i had unprotected sex last night and he pulled out onto my backside... i was wearing a thong tho (he jus pulled it aside when we were having sex) and he got his cum on it. i didnt take my underwear off until about 30 mins later. i jus had my period ...
A. 1 January 2010: You can still be pregnant. Pulling out isn't contraception. If you don't want to get preg u need use condoms, or birth control, spermicide... something to prevent pregnancy. Besides if you do have sex with multiple partners, you really should use ... (read in full...)
Advice on sex and pregnancy?
Q. Hello all, I had a quick question concerning sex and pregnancy. I'm 36 weeks pregnant with our first baby and my boyfriend and I still have sex, its not as often as it once was, maybe only 3-5 times a week. My doctor never told us that we should ...
A. 30 December 2009: Thank you! My doctor never mentioned anything to me about not having sex. Sex has never given me false contractions or any pain of the sort. I asked my doctor back in November if it was okay to continue having sex and she said it was fine, but now ... (read in full...)
Could these be early symptoms of pregnancy?
Q. Last Wednesday night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was the first time for both of us and it was something we were shy about but we wanted to do. We have been together for a year and we take things slow but, the night wasn't perfect of course ...
A. 30 December 2009: Well, why don't you go to a doctor, they will do a pelvic exam and see if its in you. I doubt that it is, because I really think you would have noticed if it was, but aain stranger things have happened. Go to your doctor and see.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to view porn?
Q. my boyfriend looks at porn and he dose not know i know he dose but it realy bothers me bc it makes me feel like he dont want me anymore. is this normal for him to look at it or am i just over reacting about it...
A. 30 December 2009: If you don't like it you really should tell him how you feel. Its not really a question of wheather or not its normal, its matter of making you feel inadaquate so ask him to stop. If he loves you and realizes that it hurts you, he'll stop. I hope ... (read in full...)
Could these be early symptoms of pregnancy?
Q. Last Wednesday night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was the first time for both of us and it was something we were shy about but we wanted to do. We have been together for a year and we take things slow but, the night wasn't perfect of course ...
A. 30 December 2009: Wow! Certainly an interesting way to lose your virginity! Are you certain that your boyfrined didnt take the condom off when he came with you on top? If not I guess it could have slipped off when he was in you, or it could have slipped off when you ... (read in full...)
What are some of the early signs of pregnancy?
Q. my question is about before a missed period and pregnancy ... what were some mild symptoms before finding out ur preggo... not the throwing up stuff but more like ain in ovaries and stuff like that?...
A. 30 December 2009: Yeah, like I said or maybe I didn't I don't remember, but the preg tests that say you can test early don't really tell you early. You do have to wait until like the day of your missed period or even one day after. I know it sucks, but they just ... (read in full...)
I need to know all the risks of having sex!
Q. I know I'm too young. Thats what everybody says. But recently I've met a boy I really love, he loves me too. Trust me you haven't heard him. He wants to have sex with me. Please answer me. With all risks and everything, thank you. :)....
A. 30 December 2009: Well I agree that you are too young, and sometimes guys love you one day and then they don't the next just beware. When having sex you risk your health and pregnancy. STD's range from Chlamydia, Siphillus, Genital warts, Herpes, Gonorrhea, HIV, AIDs ... (read in full...)
At what age do the majority of people settle down?
Q. At what age do the majority of people settle down at? In a sense of have a relationship that will work and last....
A. 30 December 2009: Well everyones different, I know some men and women that settle down at 18 and others that have just started to settel down at the age of 50. But I would say that a majority of people settle down from the ages of 25 - 30.... (read in full...)
What are some of the early signs of pregnancy?
Q. my question is about before a missed period and pregnancy ... what were some mild symptoms before finding out ur preggo... not the throwing up stuff but more like ain in ovaries and stuff like that?...
A. 30 December 2009: Crampies!!! But that doesn't always occur and usually occurs later if it occurs at all. Sometimes you have cramps, and sometimes a pinching sensation in your ovaries? is that what you are feeling? You are right to wait to take a pregnancy test until ... (read in full...)
His ex had a baby and now everything is all messed up
Q. i met my bf 3 mnths ago,and we were so in love and talked about a future together,everythin was fine ,then he found out his ex has had a baby 3 mnths ago and ius saying it is his,he says he needs time to sort his head out till after the dna test,but ...
A. 30 December 2009: Caring Guy is right. This may not mean that he doesn't want to be with you, but having been told you have had a baby when he didnt even know that his ex was pregnant in the first place is a huuuge shock, babies really change your life. Has he taken ... (read in full...)
I just started birth control and haven't had my period yet
Q. so i started birth control the end of last month/ the begining if this month. and this sunday i should have started my period, but its tuesday and still nothing. i havent fully had sex yet. like my boyfriends when half way in. but he never ised a ...
A. 30 December 2009: Doctor's usually reccomend abstaining from sex for 2 weeks when you first start the pill and practicing safe sex (condoms) for about a month to a month and a half from starting it. While your boyfriend may not have cummed in side you, there is a ... (read in full...)
Did he get his ideas from a porn movie?
Q. when me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, he got on top of me, then started rubbing his penis in between my boobs then stopping to put it in my mouth he kept on doing it, then he cummed all in my mouth and on my boobs, i enjoyed ...
A. 30 December 2009: Lol waht you did was perfectly normal, and if you liked it then thats all the better! Its okay to be slutty with your bf behind closed doors lol embrace it. Weather he got those ideas from porn or heard about it elsewhere, I couldn't tell you. Who ... (read in full...)
Flirting but has girlfriend?
Q. there is a guy i like who has i girl friend but keeps flirting with me does he like me i like him. help !!!!!!!...
A. 30 December 2009: Lol sorry, I know you didn't quite get the advice you wanted, but its probably for the best. Good luck... (read in full...)
Flirting but has girlfriend?
Q. there is a guy i like who has i girl friend but keeps flirting with me does he like me i like him. help !!!!!!!...
A. 27 December 2009: You could hate me for what I'm about to say lol, but have you considered that he's just flirting with you because he wants to get some behind his gf's back? Like I tell everyone if he has a gf or wife stay out of it! You'll only create problems for ... (read in full...)
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