Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?
Q. Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?...
A. 16 June 2009: Okay so I looked up information, and sadly I have found out that they do not allow Minors to be tested or treated without parental consent in Four states. Utah and Texas are two of them. I can give you the link if you want but I think you are going ... (read in full...)
Afraid I might be pregnant -- where to get help?
Q. ok, here it goes... i had sex a week a..on june 8...and today is june 15..but anywz it was prtoected but im still scared im might be pregnant..i ve been gettin nasuaes and frequent urination, and cramps..and withdrawl...and i did nt get my period i...
A. 16 June 2009: Well I doubt that you are pregnant and heres my reasoning. When you concieve a baby its concieved in your phillopean tubes. The egg does not drop until two weeks after conception and its only been one week if even that. Sometimes your body can play ... (read in full...)
I don't want to disappoint my parents. Do I have to abort my baby?
Q. i am a 2 weeks delayed from now im really afraid that im pregnant since we had sex wd my bf always without protection..my bf said that he will support me whatever happens..the problem is im on my way to my graduation and im on my ojt ryt now,i dnt ...
A. 16 June 2009: No you dont have to abort your baby. You can have the baby and give it up for adoption if your not ready or you can always keep it if you can. You can keep going to school until about 4-5 months as you start getting bigger, the school may want you ... (read in full...)
Help with getting an abortion?
Q. please help me to abort dz baby im not yet ready for this ...
A. 16 June 2009: I can help you, but you need to know the facts. Ive had an abortion once in my life and its an expirience I wasnt ready for and will never ever repeat again in my life. I had a " pill abortion" I was almost 9 weeks pregnant, just a day short of 9 ... (read in full...)
Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: Oh no!!! Like just today??? omg I'm sooo Sorry... if theres anything I cando please let me know.... (read in full...)
Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?
Q. Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?...
A. 16 June 2009: Okay so idk what state you live in, but if its new york then there is law stating all minors can get free STD testing without parental consent. It would really help me to know what state u live in so I can help find organizations for you, because ... (read in full...)
Did I really turn him gay or was he gay all along?
Q. I know it's long, but I plan on responding to anyone who responds/offers advice. So I met this guy about 5 months ago and we hit it off great. We became pretty close friends. He was straight, I am gay but not a lot of people know about me. I don't ...
A. 16 June 2009: You know if his family is THAT conservative then its possible that he could have just assumed he would have to be with a girl. I think that you opened up his mind a little but in no way did you "turn" him gay. I suspect he has always been bi sexual ... (read in full...)
Always left wanting...
Q. My wife and I have been married for seven years and have been together for 13. In the beginning, like all young couples, there was plenty of sex. Even leading up to our marriage we still had what I would call a healthy sex life. However it has ...
A. 16 June 2009: First off, do have other rooms where you live? Would you be able to move the children out of your room and into their own? I think you are going to need maybe go to counseling wiht your wife, for sperations axieties with the kids. Thats kinda what ... (read in full...)
Ideas on pleasurable masterbation without a toy?
Q. ive been masturbating for a while. Ive been using my hands... but Ive gotten bored of my hands and my mom found my dildo so I cant have any sex toys a around the house. what else can i use to masturbate and gain pleasure?...
A. 16 June 2009: The shower heads the ones that you put on your shower with the cords so you can hold them. Put that on massage its sooo amazing it feels soooo good I always masterbate using that. You can also try cucumbers and bananas lol. ... (read in full...)
Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?
Q. Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?...
A. 16 June 2009: Planned parenthood!!! Is completly confidential and Ill give you the website link so you can find out where one is near you. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/ There you go!!! Good luck honey!... (read in full...)
I've been having unprotected sex, can I be pregnant?
Q. I've been having protected sex, he rarely penetrates without a condom but never cums inside of me. I have irregular menstrual cycles and havent gotten my period this month Im approximately 7 days late. Should I worry? Can his pre-cum have gotten me ...
A. 16 June 2009: Yes you should worry, yes you could be pregnant and now you need to take a pregnancy test. You can buy one at the stores, first response is good. If it comes up neg, but you still havent had your period, get a blood test from your doctor. Remember ... (read in full...)
I have strong discharge and a smell, what could be causing these "down there" issues?
Q. Hi, erm, well im 17 years old and ive been sexually active for just over 6 months. ive always used a condom, im on the pill and ive only had one sexual partner, who told me i was his only sexual partner too. recently ive started getting a lot of ...
A. 16 June 2009: You need to go to the doctor. It could just be a yeast infection, or it could be an STD like Clamydia. I'm not a doctor but it sounds like that could be what you are explaining. Now dont freak out because that is treatable. Ive had it once before, ... (read in full...)
Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!
Q. ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I ...
A. 16 June 2009: If you planned on getting pregnant then what do you mean you dont know what to do? Do you live together or with your parents? Are you going to school or working? How are you financially? I just dont understand what you mean if you said you planned ... (read in full...)
Attracted to older men!
Q. So I am 17 and my issue is that I am not into high school boys, I have never been with an older man but I am more attracted to the idea of being with someone older! Most men that i am attracted to are between the age of 25 and 27. Does that make me ...
A. 15 June 2009: Well you wouldnt get in trouble but they would!!! That is statuatory rape. And you are only 17. I would say wait until you are 18 then you wont get anyone into trouble. This doesnt make you slutty its just a prefferance. I mean look at Celine Dion ... (read in full...)
16 and pregnant! He says he's not the father!
Q. hi,ive been with my boyfriend since we were twelve years old. we are childhood friends. our parents always use to joke about us getting married when we were older. who know he would actually be the guy to make me fall inlove? he's generally ...
A. 15 June 2009: He is scared, but he needs to face the facts. He is the father and this is a hard/scary time for both of you. He needs to be here for you. Have you talked to him about it at all?... (read in full...)
Rainwater, sperm and pregnancy!
Q. REVISED: I got a question from my friend here. my friend with his girl was messing around. Using his left hand, he fingers his girlfriend and he while masturbaiting on the right, using his right hand. then my friend came and put his semen and sp...
A. 15 June 2009: Wow okay... I dont know where on earth you got those ideas but I do think I can help you. First off Sperm and semen are basically the same thing and because of this they cannot detatch from themselves. Secondly sperm cannot live in water. Rain water ... (read in full...)
Who is the father of my baby?
Q. my 1stday of my last period is february 3,2009.i had sex wd a guy on the 15th of february.then i had sex again with my bf at 17th of february now im pregnant.and im confused who is the father of my baby.can you help me figure it out?...
A. 15 June 2009: Sweetie the only way to really figure it out and know that its not a guess is to get a paternity test after the babys born. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
He says abortion, but it was something that never crossed my mind
Q. so im about 3 months preg, i tell my boyfriend and the first thing out of his mouth is ABORTION, didnt really give me much option... what should i do.. i mean i have two kids already i really dont need another one (financially) and i obviously cant ...
A. 14 June 2009: You know there is another option. You can always give it up for adoption. There are so many people that cant have children that would love to have your baby. If you do decide on abortion, have one because you decide its the right thing to do not ... (read in full...)
What should I do with my pregnancy?
Q. I just turned 17 and I'm pregnant. I'm not ready to be a mother. My boyfriend is 17 also and wants to keep the baby. I told him that I would either put it up for adoption or get an abortion if it's not too late. He told me that if I have it he ...
A. 14 June 2009: Im sorry, its early for me, I dont think I went into detail about what I advised. What I meant was, you shouldn't just get an abortion without his knowledge, especially if he wants this child. Maybe you arent ready to be a mom, but there is always ... (read in full...)
Parents forcing me to live in a Smokey enviroment while I'm pregnant
Q. my mum and dad have always smoked, they smoked when my mum was pregnant with me, took me in smoky environments when i was a baby and chain smoked around me. my mum tried to quit smoking but my dad would smoke in her face so she started again. iv ...
A. 14 June 2009: Well you should be worried about your baby. You have every right as a mother to worried about your baby. I dont know how far along you are but if there is any way you would be able to afford rent elsewhere then you should try to maybe stay somewhere ... (read in full...)
What is this spotting?
Q. About a month ago I experienced 'spotting' (bleeding between periods). im on the pill so i went to the doctors and got checked for any possible infections and had none. i am definately not pregnant. it went away when i stopped taking the pill and ...
A. 14 June 2009: It is not uncommon for women to "spot" between periods. While birth control can contribute to spotting, often times it is regular for women to spot regardless of weather they are or are not on birth control. I have had my period since I was ten, Im ... (read in full...)
When should I take another pregnancy test?
Q. Hello all. I recently asked the same question, however I was wondering when I should test again. I took a pregnancy test a day before my missed period, it was negative. I've since missed my period. I usually have period symptoms a few days before my ...
A. 18 May 2009: Thank you all very much I waited 5days until I took another test. It was positive! It was a bit of a surprise but we are very very happy and excited. Thanks again everyonec and wish us luck. I go in on the first of June for an ultrasound! I hope ... (read in full...)
Is she pregnant?
Q. Hey everyone my friend and I are a bit confused and need a little help she had sexual intercourse without protection in February but had what seemed like a period took a pregnancy test and it was negative then bled again in March but in April had no ...
A. 11 May 2009: Hi honey! If I were you, I would honestly have your friend take another pregnancy test. If it comes up negative definitly go to a doctor. If its positive make a prenatal appointment, and go from there. All te best wishes and good luck!
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Will I ever be able to swallow?
Q. Hi, I am 19, and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for a long time (almost 4 years) and we have recently started experimenting orally. He says that the sexiest thing would be if he could watch me swallow afterwards. I do enjoy perform...
A. 11 May 2009: The only thing I can really tell you is just dont think about it when he cums in your mouth, just know that hes coming and swallow before you taste as much. It has quite a bitter aftertaste, but cum is an aquired taste. I hope that helps some! good ... (read in full...)
She keeps kissing me, but she has a boyfriend.I can't say no to her.help
Q. My friend and I have admitted to liking eachother a lot. But she has a boyfriend. I had noticed one time a little bit ago that while we were cuddling (we cuddle and rub noses all the time it's just our thing) we had come very close to kissing. Then ...
A. 11 May 2009: I think you re doing the right thing while she is well not "with" but "seeing/dating" her boyfriend (or exboyfriend?) anyways what I'm getting at is although it is very hard for you, you need to keep insisting that she break up with him. Its only a ... (read in full...)
Who's the Daddy
Q. Okay, this is embarrassing and long, so please bear with me. My last period started on March 29. On April 11, I had sex with my ex. We did it for about ten minutes without a condom, but then I came to my senses and made him put on one. However, he ...
A. 11 May 2009: I'm almost 110% that it is infact your exes baby. Good luck honey.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid the result will be exactly what I don't want it to be
Q. The first and last time I had unprotected sex was in December 2008. Actually, that's the last time I had sex, period. Since then, I've had all my periods (though each is seems to come one week earlier than the last) and they've been getting slightly ...
A. 10 May 2009: Well you could be pregnant and you could not be. Though it is a bit rare, there are women that happen to menstrate all through there pregnancy. I had a friend who had her period the whole time and found out she was pregnant at five or six months, ... (read in full...)
What do guys want in a girl who is a 'potential hookup'?
Q. Just out of curiousity, what do guys want in a girl who is a 'potential hookup'? Most of the time when i have been out, all the guys have always seemed to go for a friend of mine, who is quite pretty but rather slutty. I'm not saying this to be ...
A. 10 May 2009: Well a potential hookup basically means and please forgive me for being blunt, but it means all they want from her is sex. They just want to have sex with her and then split. " I would sleep with her but I wouldnt go out with her" basically means ... (read in full...)
Could it be pregnancy? Please help!
Q. Well me and by boyfriend are trying to conceive before he goes to the air force. we used to have sex a lot but now its only a once a week thing. I have a regular period. but I vomit, tender breast, and I also have a wetness that I think may be an ...
A. 10 May 2009: Hmm I think you better go to a doctor and get a blood test done. Buying a preg test at the dollar tree... I would be skeptical that it would be complelty accurate. It would be a good idea to visit a doctor anyways esp if u thik u have a yeast ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if its an STD
Q. Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...
A. 30 March 2009: Bleeding brown blood can be normal because thats just old blood that maybe wasnt bled out from your last period, the vinegar smell bothers me though. Very VERY good idea to get tested ^_^ good luck!... (read in full...)
Me. my husband, my affair, my affair's ex-mistress, and my husband's affair
Q. Hello, I'm married for almost 10 years. I am having an affair with a married man since 2 years. First of all we are great friends, I frequently go to his place and I know his wife and children. He says I'm like his second wife. The problem is w...
A. 30 March 2009: While I'm sorry for what your husband told her, karma does tend to bite people in the ass. If you all had stopped cheating on each other maybe this wouldnt have happened. ... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility that I may be pregnant after only 4 days?
Q. Well me and my bf had (unprotected) sex last Wednesday. We've been toqether for 2 years. I'm just very paranoid because even though he said he didn't cum I'm nervous. We didn't go all crazy and I didn't do anything to make him cum cause it was our ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well, yes and no. Sperm lasts up to 48 sometimes 36 hours inside the vagina. The egg and sperm, dont fertilize in the uterus but instead the sperm travels into your phillopean tubes. Your body will not recognize that you are pregnant until the egg ... (read in full...)
I want to wait for a couple days to see if I have my period before I take a test. What do you think?...
Q. My husband ALWAYS uses a condom when we have sex. I am not on birth control. Now, I am 7 1/2 weeks late on my period. My boobs are about the most sore they have ever been. But I am NOT sick at all and have had little mini-cramps as if I am going to ...
A. 30 March 2009: Take a test dear, when I was pregnant I was only a week late and took the test for the hell of it thinking I could never be pregnant, well happy birthday to me, I found out on my birthday! lol. Take a test. ... (read in full...)
Guys hate me. Am I not suitable for any one?
Q. s there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well with that attitude its no wonder you have never had a boyfriend!Sweetie, look its not about how you look, I mean looks do play a small part but every man is attracted to a different type of woman. I know men that like heavy set women, tall wome... (read in full...)
Why do I go back to him? Do I just get lonely and go back to the ex because I can?
Q. Hmm, okay here goes. So I'm 17 and have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. I'm the one who has done the breaking up in the past. We broke up at the end of august last year after being together 6 months, because by the end I ju...
A. 23 March 2009: Well honey The only real advice I can give you, is that you need to do what makes you happy. You need to sit your boyfriend down and tell him that you just arent really happy with him, and that you just arent in love with him. Make sure you stress ... (read in full...)
How long until we have sex?
Q. Hey, I just started seeing this guy. He seems very nice, and cool ... little bit of a party animal, but I don't mind. We went for 2 dates .. kissed .. and at the second one he did ask me, if he can come upstairs, but I said no ... he didn't push. ...
A. 23 March 2009: I agree with every post! Its true, it does just depend on the guy but really you should do it when you want to. Think about what you want out of this relationship. Figure out when you want to have sex, do things on your time. Of course its okay to ... (read in full...)
How long after you had unprotected sex do you know if your pregnant?
Q. How long after you had unprotected sex do you know if pregnant.If I got my period this month? I really don't want to be pregnant:/ because hopefully I'm going to graduate from high school this year:)...
A. 23 March 2009: Give it two to three weeks after the unprotected sex, then take a test. Sometimes when pregnant you can have spotting, which is bleeding but not an actual period, although most of the time spotting is mistaken for a period. Get two pregnacy tests, ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, haven't told my b/f yet and very confused
Q. I've just recently turned 18 andfound out today that im pregnant, my parents and cdlose friends know but i haven't yet told my boyfriend. I've always said that if i ever got caught i could never abort because i'm totally against it, however there's ...
A. 22 March 2009: Well, depending on how far along u are, you can take an abortion pill. It hurts, but its better than surgery, I just had the same thing happen. I would only give it up for adoption if you already have a family for it because you really dont want ... (read in full...)
I thought these people were my friends but why would they do that ?
Q. My wife and I got married over christmas. A few weeks ago I went out of state to celebrate my best friends birthday I messed around with another girl. I told my fiend and she was vey upset but choose to forgive me. Friday night my wife and I we...
A. 22 March 2009: Well then they arent youre friends. They are right though, even if they shouldnt have said that and joked about it the way they did. Yu should never have cheated on your wife. And now she's pregnant?! She can't trust you at all. If you wanted to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend looks at porn all the time- he even asks me to leave so he can look! Any advice?
Q. Hello. My boyfriend is a porn fanatic. He looks at it whenever he gets the chance, even with me around. He asks me to leave. We have sex regularly, at the very least once a day if not (usually) a lot more. I dont have a problem with him looking at ...
A. 23 February 2009: Thank you all soooo much! I really appreciate it. Im am very happy because about a week after I posted this he really decided to man up and stop looking at it so often. He even deleted ALL of it off of his comp which I never implied or asked him to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend looks at porn all the time- he even asks me to leave so he can look! Any advice?
Q. Hello. My boyfriend is a porn fanatic. He looks at it whenever he gets the chance, even with me around. He asks me to leave. We have sex regularly, at the very least once a day if not (usually) a lot more. I dont have a problem with him looking at ...
A. 12 February 2009: I agree with you. But Ive told him how it makes me feel. It doesnt really change I am not against him looking at porn but so often? ... (read in full...)
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