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Flirting but has girlfriend?

Q.   there is a guy i like who has i girl friend but keeps flirting with me does he like me i like him. help !!!!!!!...

A.   30 December 2009: Lol sorry, I know you didn't quite get the advice you wanted, but its probably for the best. Good luck... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant?

Q.   hi i'm 18 an my bf an i had been dating for over a yr,i am suppose to be ovalation on 27th of dec on tht day a drop of sprem hit my vagina, could i prego, i dont want to but if it is i'm ready for the responsiblity plz help me in answerin the ...

A.   30 December 2009: Well stranger things have happened, yeah you could be pregnant, personally I highly doubt it, but its always good to make sure. Why don't you go to the doctor and see if its not to late to get the "plan B" pill (which people often call the morning ... (read in full...)

Morning after pill will it affect me if I'm already pregnant?

Q.   i had unprotected sex a a week ago wid my ex and i think i might be pregnant n then i had unprotected sex again monday morning with this guy i was seeing n am thinking of taking the morning after pill tomorrow will it effect me if i am already ...

A.   30 December 2009: It does make you start your period, but it has a 25% chance of not working anyway. Considering you had unprotected sex 2 times but a week apart from eachother I don't think it would help you. I'm not for sure what it would do to the baby if wasnt ... (read in full...)

5 months later we find out she's pregnant after cheating

Q.   My girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant.......she didn't know she was pregnant until five months later..........if u were in my shoes would u forgive her or leave. We tryn to work it out going to counseling and all. Am I'm a bigger man by tryn ...

A.   30 December 2009: lol I was reading one of the answers, if you ever got divorced ( even though you havent gotten married) you can't get stuck with child support unless you go through the legal proccess of adopting the child, you don't have to be put on the birth ... (read in full...)

2 periods in October and none since, am I pregnant?

Q.   hey im a 16 year old girl and i am always feeling sick all through out the day an through the night to and really tired all the time just always feel like sleeping i had 2 periods in october but since then i havent had one am i pregnant?? please ...

A.   29 December 2009: There is definite possibilty. Get your self a pregnancy test and see. Remember to take it with the first " pee of the morning" its more accurate that way. If its negative, then its possible you could have come down with something like mononucleosis ... (read in full...)

5 months later we find out she's pregnant after cheating

Q.   My girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant.......she didn't know she was pregnant until five months later..........if u were in my shoes would u forgive her or leave. We tryn to work it out going to counseling and all. Am I'm a bigger man by tryn ...

A.   29 December 2009: Well, I can tell you are being the "bigger man" in the situation, but at the same time you don't want to be taken advantage of. Right now I would treat each one as a different situation, because they are. She cheated. You need to figure out if you ... (read in full...)

I took sperm off his condom and inserted it into my vagina. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   i'm 18 and i want to get pregnant so bad, my boyfriend came in me but it wasnt my ovalating date, a week after he knew it was my ovalating day an he didnt come in me, but a drop of sprem hit my vagina, after that he put on a condom when he was done ...

A.   29 December 2009: I'm sorry I know I was rude, but I think you need the truth and I'm sorry to say but that is the truth, you can't sugar coat it in anyway. Its straight forward. Maybe you just made a mistake and it will never happen again. I'm typically the last ... (read in full...)

I'm too obsessed with the desire to have sex!

Q.   I'm 16 and I have a pretty big problem. The thing is, I've been way too obsessed with the desire to have sex that it's really frustrating me lately. I come from a very conservative family but I've been hooked on pornography for about half a year ...

A.   29 December 2009: I was in the same boat at your age. I'm 20 now soon to be 21, but I lost it when I was 17 instead of waiting. (The guy was nice, but I didnt really like him. He was good in bed, but I kept thinking I got more pleasure from masturbating anyway and ... (read in full...)

I took sperm off his condom and inserted it into my vagina. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   i'm 18 and i want to get pregnant so bad, my boyfriend came in me but it wasnt my ovalating date, a week after he knew it was my ovalating day an he didnt come in me, but a drop of sprem hit my vagina, after that he put on a condom when he was done ...

A.   28 December 2009: Omfg!!! Where the hell are your morales, that is horrible!!! He uses condoms because he doesn't want you to get pregnant, don't you realize that?!!! Of course you could be pregnant! I hope you aren't because that is not the right way to have a baby, ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and scared to death that I may be pregnant. Help!

Q.   Hi. I am 14 and I think I am pregnant. My boyfriend knows, he says hes with me all the wall. He told me even befor we had sex that he wanted to marry me so I beleive him. He doesnt think I should get an abortion and neither do I. But my mom is a ...

A.   28 December 2009: Well have you missed your period? If you have, then go buy a pregnancy test, if you havent wait for your period, if doesnt come after 2 days, then get a preg test. Test in the morning. If you do end up pregnant, then I think you may need a plan ... (read in full...)

Can opposites attract and last?

Q.   hey me and my bf are best friends very much in love but we are very very different. our hobbis are different we like different music, wear different clothes and come from different cultures. however deep down we have the same core beliefs. we are b...

A.   27 December 2009: There are always going to be differences in a relationship, however opposites can and do last. My grandpa and grandma were like that, they had completely different opinions about everything! From politics, to different fashion styles, to very ... (read in full...)

What does everything but sex actually mean?

Q.   My best friend (a girl, but that's not alll thatrelevent) was telling me about her new boyfriend. We're very close. Anyway she told me tht her bf had said he'd do everything but sex with her. Not wanting to look stupid cos I like that this girl fee...

A.   27 December 2009: Lol, I think it means the same thing everywhere! It literally means that kissing, making out, and oral sex are acceptable, but actual penis in vagina (or anal) intercourse is not. Thats what I'm getting from it, and thats what I've meant by it ... (read in full...)

I want to have his baby but he doesn't love me!

Q.   im 24 and pregnant. Ive been in love wit the same man since i was 18 and he def isnt in love wit me. He has another gf who ive seen he loves yet we still sleep together ive not told him yet. We have a bad past ive previously told his current gf we ...

A.   27 December 2009: First of all you probably shouldn't have had sex with him during the time he had a girlfriend, I'm sure you know that now, but it was a good thing you told her. I can honestly say that he most likely wouldn't stay with you whether you had this baby ... (read in full...)

Do I tell him I enjoyed it?

Q.   A few nights ago when my mate slept over, him on the floor and me in my bed, he made a move on me while he thought l was asleep, l felt him play with me only for a couple of minutes l got an errection but pretened to stay asleep. I am not saying l ...

A.   27 December 2009: Well... despite the fact he pretty much violated you... I guess you could tell him, I doubt you'll lose his friendship because he intiated it. I think you more liked it because he touched and played with you and no offense but boys your age are ... (read in full...)

Flirting but has girlfriend?

Q.   there is a guy i like who has i girl friend but keeps flirting with me does he like me i like him. help !!!!!!!...

A.   27 December 2009: You could hate me for what I'm about to say lol, but have you considered that he's just flirting with you because he wants to get some behind his gf's back? Like I tell everyone if he has a gf or wife stay out of it! You'll only create problems for ... (read in full...)

Bored?

Q.   Have been married 3 times. Its always me that is intaga ted the split. I have dated married guys for longer than any of my marriages have lasted. Been alone for 6 months. Someone stayed over last night and I couldn't wait for him to go. This is ...

A.   27 December 2009: First of all, I know you won't want to hear this, but really your between 40 and 50 something years of age and you havent learned not to date or sleep with peoples husbands??? Get real and knock that shit off. Second you have to figure out what it ... (read in full...)

Do women like intelligent men?

Q.   Hello, i was wondering, does women like intelligent men? I really love to become a mathematician or a physicist, i mean not the wrong social stereotype of the geek who cant socialize, i mean a guy that is fit + personality + mathematician or physi...

A.   27 December 2009: To your comment I would say absolutly! Infact its what most girls want. I know I do, and I know many other people that do as well.... (read in full...)

I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant

Q.   pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other ...

A.   27 December 2009: Talk to your parents and buy a pregnancy test. Don't listen to guys that tell you they never gotten a girl pregnant because they pull out. Pulling out isn't for sure because there is always precum. While it may only be a few drops a few drops ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend (Ex at this point?) likes another man.

Q.   To make a long story short, me and my girlfriend basically got into a really stupid argument. The argument consisted of her yelling at me, calling me names (stupid, retard, etc) and she basically said my view on the world was stupid. So in my ...

A.   26 December 2009: Tell her everything you just wrote here. I don't mean that you posted it on the website to get advice lol, I mean tell her that this is how you feel... Relationships are not just love, they can be work, but if you love that person then you need to ... (read in full...)

Want to have a real relationship and need tips on how to go about it.

Q.   Helloo Well from since i can remember ive been the same but in the last few months ive realised how much of a loner i am. I have not many friends and NO REAL friends. Ive never had a girlfriend and dont think im anywhere close. I fuelled ...

A.   26 December 2009: Awww don't let yourself get too down in the dumps! Instead of focusing on how alone you are, set out and find hobbies and activities you enjoy or try something new. That is often a great way to meet people. Sometimes its all about the attitude you ... (read in full...)

How do I go about meeting the right girl?

Q.   Hi, I've been single for a while (about 6 months), and now I'd like to get back out there and get a girlfriend. I'm a nice fella, about average looks, and what i'd really like is a woman who's funny smart and can take things easy. how do i...

A.   26 December 2009: Well what are some things you are personally interested in? For instance sports, hobbies, activities. I would start from there. Think of things that you enjoy doing and join a group that does a certain thing that you enjoy too, you could meet people ... (read in full...)

How do I go about meeting the right girl?

Q.   Hi, I've been single for a while (about 6 months), and now I'd like to get back out there and get a girlfriend. I'm a nice fella, about average looks, and what i'd really like is a woman who's funny smart and can take things easy. how do i...

A.   26 December 2009: Well what are some things you are personally interested in? For instance sports, hobbies, activities. I would start from there. Think of things that you enjoy doing and join a group that does a certain thing that you enjoy too, you could meet people ... (read in full...)

He's ignoring me and breaking my heart! Help!

Q.   I've known this guy for three weeks we were together for two weeks solid and then I left to go home. he said he would call me. he didn't and just left for his sister in min but he didn't say he was leaving but since he's been gone I've text him alot ...

A.   26 December 2009: Shania is completely 100% right. But keep in mind that its not your fault. If he was still interested he'd contact you by now. He pretty much led you on, thank god it was only for two weeks. You're worth more than that, you'll find a good man that ... (read in full...)

Sleeping with a friend who has a girlfriend

Q.   One of my best friends in the world and I have been sleeping together for a few years now and i am in love with him. He says i am his dream girl and wants to be with me but because of other circumstances (neither one of us drive, he has no job ...

A.   26 December 2009: Okay this is going to come out very rude, and I do apologize, but are you crazy??? Is it not obvious he is playing you for sex, while practically living off his girlfriend that he's been with for TWO years. Do you not think its wrong to be sleeping ... (read in full...)

Is this situation with Andy, hopeless?

Q.   hey guys and girls. my name is amanda. im new to this site, im 14 and hopelessly in love with a guy who has a girlfriend. this guy, we'll call him andy, has a girlfriend but hes in love with both of us. he chooses her over me but hes so adorable and ...

A.   26 December 2009: I hate to say it, more so because you won't want to hear it, but boys will come and go. He has a girlfriend and you are ultimately hurting their relationship together. If you cannot maintain a "strictly friends" relationship then I would honestly ... (read in full...)

Is there a probability that she is sleeping with others?

Q.   I am still in a sexual relationship with a former partner. I suppose I get to see her once a fortnight or once a month. So far she has not been keen on us getting back together formally. My question is do you believe she have other sexual par...

A.   26 December 2009: Well I would say it is a possibility, but unless you have more reason to suspect it, you probably won't be able to find out. I know it seems silly to ask, but ask her anyways. Also think of why she may not be so keen about the both of you getting ... (read in full...)

No period but yet..no sex! What could be wrong?

Q.   I haven't had sex for months and I have had my period since apart from this month I am also experiencing nausea at night, lack of appetite and I'm not tired until early hours of the morning what could it be? ...

A.   26 December 2009: Well if you are on birth control or recently started taking it, it could be that thats making you feel ill. You could be coming down with a cold or flu or what have you. You could be having irregular periods. The worst case scenario would be that ... (read in full...)

Foreskin problems

Q.   when i masterbute my foreskin doesn't go back what should i do.....i don't want to go to a doctor....

A.   26 December 2009: I hate to say it but you may need to see a doctor about that. Does it not go back at all? Not even to expose your head? If not that could be a big prob, not just with masturbation, but eventually with sex as well. I know you don't want to see a doc, ... (read in full...)

Yaz and full protection?

Q.   Hello, I have been on the birth control Yaz since July of 2009. I was wondering how long it takes to have full protection, is it one month after you begin taking the pills. I had a little mishap on Saturday night and had unprotected sex, I ...

A.   26 December 2009: Hey honey, okay this doesn;t really relate to your question, and you probably already know this, but about Yaz... I've heard from my own doctor that they don't reccomend taking Yaz because it has been related to many many cases where people have ... (read in full...)

Do women like intelligent men?

Q.   Hello, i was wondering, does women like intelligent men? I really love to become a mathematician or a physicist, i mean not the wrong social stereotype of the geek who cant socialize, i mean a guy that is fit + personality + mathematician or physi...

A.   26 December 2009: If its what you enjoy doing, then do it. Any woman that really wants to be with you for you as a person would accept it 100%. Personality is what attracts women, but for the most part I would say that women do like intelligent men. Then again that, ... (read in full...)

Since she fell pregnant, my girlfriend has lost her allure

Q.   Hi My girlfiend is 6 months pregnant and i dont feel attracted to her anymore. Before she got pregnant, we hardly ever had sex and on the one occasion we did she got pregnant (she said she was on the pill) When we first started dating sh...

A.   18 December 2009: Well, it sounds like you've already made up your mind. Why don't you talk to her about it first? Find out how she's feling about it. Don't start talking like your giving her an ultimatum though, just genuinly tell her how you feel. Don't give her, ... (read in full...)

I took the second morning after pill late, am I at high risk of pregnancy?

Q.   I took a morning after pill that has two tablets. I was supposed to take the second pill 12 hrs later but I lost track of time and took it 48 minutes late. Am I still okay? Can I take another morning after pill? ...

A.   18 December 2009: You should be fine, the only difference can be that it will only be about 90 or 85 percent effective instead of like 99 percent ... (read in full...)

I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?

Q.   my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...

A.   23 July 2009: Are you breast feeding? If you are still breast feeding that could be the cause. Most women do not have their period while breast feeding nor do they get their period until they stop breast feeding. I hope that helps! ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and so excited but worried too

Q.   I'm seven weeks pregnant after ttc for two months! I'm so excited and i feel so lucky! I've been suffering from nausea and my breasts are killing! Just one thing on my mind thats worrying me and thats miscarriage. I dont drink, and ive quit smoking ...

A.   23 July 2009: I dont know if you do already, but try eating what u can b4 taking the prenatals. It could just be morning sickness too though. Oh and make sure you are well hydrated because that can cause nausea too. ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant...but who is the father??

Q.   i am 10wks and 6days pregnant, i broke up with my boyfriend on the 15th may 2009 but we continued sleeping together unprotected, however, on the 21st may 2009 i slept with another guy, i used a condom and no splits or tears were noticable but i am ...

A.   21 July 2009: I did the math, and even counted back on my cell phone. You were ten weeks counting from May 11th, I didn't count six days back, but as the last poster suggested, it sounds like you conceived somewhere around May 5th. The chances of your your bf ... (read in full...)

My 15 year old is pregnant!

Q.   DearCupid, I am a forty year old mother to two teenage girls. One who is thirteen, and the another one who is fifteen. My husband and I have always taught our daughters right from wrong, or at least we thought. We told them what we did and did...

A.   20 July 2009: You cant blame yourself. All you can do is teach your daughter right from wrong, love her, and be there for her when she needs you. Then eventually you have to let her make decisions for herself. While she may not have made the right decision, you ... (read in full...)

I masturbate to lesbian porn but only date men. Am I gay?

Q.   I'm a woman who likes to watch lesbian porn for hours and masturbate to it...do you think i'm gay. The reason i ask is i only go out and have relationships with men....

A.   19 July 2009: Well, if youve never been with a women sexually or dated a women, then I doubt you would have any way of knowing. Have you ever had a desire to date or be with a woman? Do you ever look at woman when youre out on the town? Have you ever been curious ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and so excited but worried too

Q.   I'm seven weeks pregnant after ttc for two months! I'm so excited and i feel so lucky! I've been suffering from nausea and my breasts are killing! Just one thing on my mind thats worrying me and thats miscarriage. I dont drink, and ive quit smoking ...

A.   19 July 2009: Ohhh! Yes you really should be taking prenatals. I dont know what Boots is, but you can find them at almost any drug store like Longs, or Walmart. Im not sure if they have Longs or Walmart in Britain! But I am sure that you can find them at any drug ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and so excited but worried too

Q.   I'm seven weeks pregnant after ttc for two months! I'm so excited and i feel so lucky! I've been suffering from nausea and my breasts are killing! Just one thing on my mind thats worrying me and thats miscarriage. I dont drink, and ive quit smoking ...

A.   15 July 2009: I know exactly what you mean. I'm thirteen weeks pregnant and I was worried about miscarrying for a bit too. Just make sure that you put your feet up for at least 15 minutes during the day, try not to stress, take your prenatals and drink lots of ... (read in full...)

Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?

Q.   Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?...

A.   16 June 2009: Okay so I looked up information, and sadly I have found out that they do not allow Minors to be tested or treated without parental consent in Four states. Utah and Texas are two of them. I can give you the link if you want but I think you are going ... (read in full...)

Afraid I might be pregnant -- where to get help?

Q.   ok, here it goes... i had sex a week a..on june 8...and today is june 15..but anywz it was prtoected but im still scared im might be pregnant..i ve been gettin nasuaes and frequent urination, and cramps..and withdrawl...and i did nt get my period i...

A.   16 June 2009: Well I doubt that you are pregnant and heres my reasoning. When you concieve a baby its concieved in your phillopean tubes. The egg does not drop until two weeks after conception and its only been one week if even that. Sometimes your body can play ... (read in full...)

Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?

Q.   Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?...

A.   16 June 2009: Okay so idk what state you live in, but if its new york then there is law stating all minors can get free STD testing without parental consent. It would really help me to know what state u live in so I can help find organizations for you, because ... (read in full...)

Without parental consent...WHERE can one get tested?

Q.   Does anyone know where you can get tested for stds without parental consent?...

A.   16 June 2009: Planned parenthood!!! Is completly confidential and Ill give you the website link so you can find out where one is near you. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/ There you go!!! Good luck honey!... (read in full...)

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