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My girlfriend enjoys oral sex, but her pubic hair is a turnoff for me, I've talked to her about it, but so far it is still the same, what do I do now?
Q. My girl says she really enjoys guys giving her oral sex. I really want to but im put off by her pubes. I don't want her pubes in my mouth. I've talked to her about it and she says she might get it waxed but that was months ago and still the bush ...
A. 9 August 2008: To be honest with you, it's her body and if she doesn't want to trim or get rid of her pubes then that's her business. It's clear that she doesn't want to get rid of them so it's rude and , to be honest with you, a little bit insulting. You might be ... (read in full...)
How can I prevent myself ejaculating early?!
Q. I'm a male virgin, but I want to loose my virginity to someone. I've read numerous books on dating and charisma and conversational skills. I've even read books on sexual techniques. My only concern is lasting a "respectable" time with someone I ...
A. 9 August 2008: Because you're worrying about how to delay you're actually increasing the chances of it happening. It's a vicious circle. The thing is you need to stop worrying and reading the books. Concentrate on pleasing your partner. When you're in a ... (read in full...)
I really need to understand what his fascination to 'let loose' all over me is all about!
Q. What is with the male fascination with porn and cumshots? I guess I don't understand the appeal of it. Maybe some of the guys can explain it. I can always tell when my b/f has been looking at porn because he will pull out during sex and let loos...
A. 1 August 2008: Lots of men find seeing a woman covered in semen a real turn on. It's just sexy to ejaculate on a woman. That's all. I think on this page some people have been over analysing it. It's just a sexy thing to watch and do. Nothing to do with degradation ... (read in full...)
He always has to take over at some point during manual or oral stimulation and finish off the job himself - is this normal?
Q. Is it normal that I can't make my boyfriend cum by hand or oral? I can get him really really aroused but he always ends up finshing off himself by hand or by sex. I am pretty sure I'm doing it right, going fast etc, but I go for so long I just get ...
A. 29 July 2008: You're not on your own. I had a girlfriend who didn't give good handjobs and I had to finish myself off. It wasn't her fault, though and this isn't yours. The only person who knows our body is ourselves. We know what works and what doesn't. Men have ... (read in full...)
Why do my testicles ache?
Q. This is bit embarassing but what might cause my balls to ache? They have ached in the past when I've been seriously turned on but not had sex however they seem to ache at times every day for past few days. I have been masturbating but even so am ...
A. 26 July 2008: When men are turned on their testicles ache. It's something to do with a build of fluid. Masturbation usually sorts it. But it would be wise for you to go and see a doctor so he can out your mind at rest whether there's something wrong or not. You ... (read in full...)
Going on holiday and I'd quite like to get with somebody while I'm away. What can I do to increase my chances?
Q. I'm going on holiday next week. I a 20 year old man and I'm single. I have been single for over a year now, and I am now growing bored of single life. To be honest, I have never really been happy being single since my first girlfriend left me. ...
A. 26 July 2008: I didn't make my point very clear. Sorry about that. I know you said that wouldn't have one night stands when you were at home but I was just trying to explain that it would be better if you could find someone to love or make friends with rather ... (read in full...)
Why does he masturbate, when I am available at any moment?
Q. My boyfriend always masturbates and lies about it (because he knows it upsets me that he does it in the first place, but my question is.. why does he masturbate in the first place!? especially since i am ready and willing at any moment!! is it ...
A. 26 July 2008: I've never understood why women have a problem with the whole wanking thing. Women do it as well but you never hear men asking why? Men wank. End of story. They always have done and they always will. Whether they are in a committed relationship or ... (read in full...)
Should I give up on finding love and opt for casual sex?
Q. I am 25 and still a virgin. It is not something I am proud of anymore, in fact I find it to be frustrating and a total drag. All my life I tried to find someone special but did not succeed. My body is aching for sex, and I feel like I am missing ...
A. 26 July 2008: Look at positive things in your life. You have plenty of male friends which shows that you can form friendships with the opposite sex. It is unfortunate that you haven't clicked with any of them but that doesn't mean it'll always be like that. Use ... (read in full...)
He says he's not in the mood for sex but then goes and jerks off!?
Q. My bf and I just had an argument. and Well I dont quite understand him, I was hoping on advice. I told him last night that I wanted to get a shower to fool around. [ and We have this big shower, so theres room, or even a jacquzzi bath] ...
A. 26 July 2008: For a man wanking is as easy as combing their hair. It's more physical. Whereas for a woman they have to be in the mood. Men can do it out of boredom. If they're really tired a quick release is all they want. Don't forget, a man can come in minutes. ... (read in full...)
Are men programmed to lose interest in a woman after they've had sex?
Q. I,ve been flirting with a friend of mine for months and yesterday we finally had sex. Today I feel that i really could be in love with him, but i have this feelin that now hes finally got his shag i'll hardly see him - and before u say it the sex ...
A. 26 July 2008: No, they're not. I'm really annoyed about being tarred with the same brush. Believe it or not but most men want a loving relationship. Whether you get used for sex or not depends on where you met them or how quickly you slept with them. I won't lie ... (read in full...)
Going on holiday and I'd quite like to get with somebody while I'm away. What can I do to increase my chances?
Q. I'm going on holiday next week. I a 20 year old man and I'm single. I have been single for over a year now, and I am now growing bored of single life. To be honest, I have never really been happy being single since my first girlfriend left me. ...
A. 25 July 2008: Whether you're going on holiday or not is not an excuse to sleep around. Sorry if I sound harsh. If you want to get with someone for the night then you have to hang around bars and the like. You'll find a lot of girls there just after a quick bunk ... (read in full...)
Should I give up on finding love and opt for casual sex?
Q. I am 25 and still a virgin. It is not something I am proud of anymore, in fact I find it to be frustrating and a total drag. All my life I tried to find someone special but did not succeed. My body is aching for sex, and I feel like I am missing ...
A. 25 July 2008: Don't have casual sex. You'll end up feeling worse off than ever before and hate yourself for doing it. I can guarantee that you'll feel dirty, cheap and used. Do you really want to be used as a sex toy? I don't think you do. It's clear that it's ... (read in full...)
Please help, I'm lacking the self-confidence for intimacy!
Q. I have recently fallen in love with the most wonderful man ever, he makes me so happy but I'm so nervous about letting him touch me down there. I don't know why I just am. I don't like my body and I am worried about what he will think, he says he ...
A. 19 July 2008: If your boyfriend says that he loves your body then, believe me, he does. Everybody has something about their body they hate. That's human nature. You boyfriend will have something about his body that he doesn't like. Has it stopped you from wanting ... (read in full...)
Please don't tell me I'm too young to kiss! I need advice!!!
Q. i'm 21, and i'm still a virgin. not only that, but i've never had a girlfriend or a even a date, and have never even kissed a girl on the lips. everyday, i see girls that are very attractive, and i feel more helpless and frustrated each day. can ...
A. 19 July 2008: You're not too young to kiss but it is obvious why you've not met anyone. You are so desperate to lose your virginity that you are seeing girls as sexual objects and not people. Women have fantastic personalities and deserve to be respected. If all ... (read in full...)
From a guy's perspective, is it worth playing hard to get?
Q. From a guys perspective, is it worth playing hard to get? As a girl, I was always taught that men are chasers and hunters and girls should play hard to get b/c this will make men like them, because its very true that people want things that they...
A. 19 July 2008: From a man's point of view, we hate it when women play hard to get. We really don't know if she's interested or not. The last we want to do is to pester her. So if a girl is showing that she's not interested then we'll leave her alone. Men don't ... (read in full...)
All the guys I like are way out of my league. What do I do?
Q. I dont understand life anymore... i often feel so ugly because i dont have a boyfriend...all my friends do,and when they leave me (or shud i say ditch...) for their other half i feel like im a sad waste for a teenager.. its like all the guys ...
A. 18 July 2008: I'm sorry to hear how you're feeling. I totally understand. I've been there. Nobody wanted me either. But I believe that people do want you. You're just not making yourself noticed. You need to have some confidence. This is easier said than done. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to get aroused by pantyhose?
Q. Is it normal to get sexually aroused by the feeling of womans panty hoes. I'm very much addicted to them and like masturbating with them. Is that normal to be sexually addicted to them. what do you think?...
A. 18 July 2008: Who's to say what's normal? Something normal to one person might be freaky to somebody else. All that matters is how much affect it has on yours and everybody else's lives. If it isn't interfering with your quality of life and nobody is getting hurt ... (read in full...)
He says all the right things to make me fall in love with him - Is he just trying to show he can get any woman?
Q. I have met a guy a few months ago, who is really nice,and that I have a lot in common with and is saying all the right things to me to make me fall in love with him.I have one problem tho, when we alone it's just me and him and our chemistry and ...
A. 15 July 2008: I think that you may be reading too much into it. Men have a roaming eye. And so do women. It doesn't sound to me like he's doing it deliberately to hurt you. He's doing it because he's a man. Tell him how you feel. He'd probably be shocked to learn ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend insists on fisting me and having rough sex even though I have had many operations 'down below' and it causes me so much pain
Q. so i think i need some advice cause i am not sure what to do. my fiance and i have been together for a year and a half. we are deeply in love and he does everything under the sun for me. i couldnt ask for a better man. but we have a few sex issues. ...
A. 14 July 2008: I'm going to be blunt,here. You need to get rid of him. He is abusing you. It's as simple as that. Sex should be enjoyable for both of you. His blatant disregard to your feelings show that he is not the best man that you think he is. In short, he is ... (read in full...)
Am I destined to spend the rest of my life alone?
Q. Am I destined to spend the rest of my life alone. I have been burnt far too many times by the flames of love!! I've been used, lied to, cheated on, abused and left to pick up all the pieces by myself! I have absolutely no trust in the op...
A. 13 July 2008: I don't think that you're going to be on for own forever. You've had boyfriends in the past and you have someone who's interested now so it's clear that you don't have a problem in meeting people or getting boyfriends. I know it's old and been said ... (read in full...)
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