I don't enjoy being unfaithful to my boyfriend but I cant stop seeing my cousin!
Q. Hi All, I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for eight years and we have a daughter who is three years old. I am comfortable with my life with my boyfriend and I do care for him, however I am not in love with him. Recently...
A. 11 April 2010: I agree...... Right now the best interests of the child has to Be taken into account. I suggest the OP should give her bf full custody . That poor child will be soooo distraught and who better to take care of her but her dad. The sooner the OP ... (read in full...)
Bunny Boiler trapped my husband in a 5 year affair!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 16 years, we have two children ages 9 and 10, I caught him at this girls house 5 years ago, and he said he was helping her thru issues and they were friends- dumb me right- I believed him. I ask him to not talk ...
A. 11 April 2010: Hello 123trinity, I am curious . What is the lastest? How0 are you coping? Have you had time to digest your hb's excuses and the responses here? Plse send us an update. ... (read in full...)
Single, involved with a married man and know its going nowhere
Q. I am single and seeing a married man who is my colleague (from different department) of 2 years for more than a year now. We are professionals from the same country and working in a foreign country. At the beginning we were just friends. We hung out ...
A. 10 April 2010: Mettah, you need to believe that you will overcome this, you need to start believing in yourself. You say you were a positive person previously so dig in deep and find that person once again. In life it is all about our choices. You are lucky that ... (read in full...)
Am I mid-life crazy or is it truly time to make a break?
Q. I'm a 39 year old guy, married 18 years with 2 kids 15 and 10 boy and girl. My wife has had a lot of health problems over the years. About 6 or 7 years ago our sex life became virtually non-existant. Finally 3 years ago I had an affair for about 4 ...
A. 10 April 2010: Don't you think these CHORES you have done for your wife is normal stuff done bet hb and wife. Dammit you are not a martyr, anything but! I humbly suggest that you quit wasting either the wifes time or the kids after all they have burdened you for ... (read in full...)
Single, involved with a married man and know its going nowhere
Q. I am single and seeing a married man who is my colleague (from different department) of 2 years for more than a year now. We are professionals from the same country and working in a foreign country. At the beginning we were just friends. We hung out ...
A. 9 April 2010: I did not see your updated response - the depression and the counselling to help counter this will work only if you get rid of the MM. And I think you have decided to end it with him. It's a start, it won't be easy But you will get through it. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I am taken aback by my wife admitting how many people she has slept with?
Q. me and my wife are both 30 and been together for 12 months. we recently did the "how many people have you slept with" conversation and she confessed to sleeping with 36 people, mine is 12. am i wrong to feel slightly taken aback by her sleeping with ...
A. 9 April 2010: It is not wrong but I know you are kicking yourself for not finding out sooner. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my husband, but I don't want to hurt the 'online guy' by telling him I am actually married either.
Q. i'm 23 years old and married for 2 years now, recently me and my husband has been addicted to this online game, we haven't really have time for each other anymore, we don't go out like we used to. Well, I met this guy from an online game, he was ...
A. 9 April 2010: I am looking into my crystal ball and I see you losing both your hb and your online bf... (read in full...)
Why do men turn to protitutes?
Q. this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do ...
A. 9 April 2010: Have you noticed how many men expect their wives/gfs to be pure and decent yet either turn to thie mistress to f*ck them good or pay for it witht he ladies of the night. These men are hypocrites! They cannot even satisfy their own partners fully or ... (read in full...)
Am I mid-life crazy or is it truly time to make a break?
Q. I'm a 39 year old guy, married 18 years with 2 kids 15 and 10 boy and girl. My wife has had a lot of health problems over the years. About 6 or 7 years ago our sex life became virtually non-existant. Finally 3 years ago I had an affair for about 4 ...
A. 9 April 2010: What I read is of a man who seeks sexual pleasures outside his marriage and who has total disrespect for his wife and kids. Whether the 20 year old babe will tire of an old fuddy duddy like you soon is not the issue. I think you are wasting your ... (read in full...)
Do we all find happiness and true love?
Q. do we all find happiness and true love?xxx...
A. 9 April 2010: True love
True happiness
What is this? Sometimes it is the state of the mind. It all boils down to the decisions we make, what we believe in and whether we make peace with our lot in life. I can honesly say that we call we go though some sort... (read in full...)
Single, involved with a married man and know its going nowhere
Q. I am single and seeing a married man who is my colleague (from different department) of 2 years for more than a year now. We are professionals from the same country and working in a foreign country. At the beginning we were just friends. We hung out ...
A. 9 April 2010: You are having an affair with a married man where did you expect this to lead to? You don't talk about guit. You knew he was married. You met his wife. You knew exactly what you were doing*nd now you are feeling sorry for yourself. So give yourself ... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy being unfaithful to my boyfriend but I cant stop seeing my cousin!
Q. Hi All, I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for eight years and we have a daughter who is three years old. I am comfortable with my life with my boyfriend and I do care for him, however I am not in love with him. Recently...
A. 9 April 2010: Oops I only saw now that you kissing cousins are both females. Ignore the offsprings story but the incest thing remains. Still sordid, still wrong and still messed up.... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy being unfaithful to my boyfriend but I cant stop seeing my cousin!
Q. Hi All, I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for eight years and we have a daughter who is three years old. I am comfortable with my life with my boyfriend and I do care for him, however I am not in love with him. Recently...
A. 9 April 2010: You have an audacity to be judgemental yourself. Of course this is incest and of course you and your cousin lover will deny it. Time for both you lustful COUSINS to have a morality check. The best is for her bf to kick her out of his life and for ... (read in full...)
Bunny Boiler trapped my husband in a 5 year affair!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 16 years, we have two children ages 9 and 10, I caught him at this girls house 5 years ago, and he said he was helping her thru issues and they were friends- dumb me right- I believed him. I ask him to not talk ...
A. 8 April 2010: Lies, lies and more lies. If you believe him then sadly you are a bigger fool and he would get away with his cheating. Your HB is an adulterer and to add insukt to you he thinks that by concocting this shitty story you will be foolish enough to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him of my affair?
Q. Dear All In high school, i was blessed with a remarkable guy. But in year 2000 he past away in an accident. I went thru a hard time. I even contemplated suicide but since my family was depending me for income, that made me strong to work and star...
A. 8 April 2010: You had sex with your friends husband? Well somone is going to tell 'A' and it better be you. Or else he will think you are nothing but a cheap slut by sleeping with his friend. You owe it to him to tell him the truth. How can you build a life ... (read in full...)
Will my husband know if I'm not a virgin?
Q. i am in relationship with a man last two years, now im going to marry other person, if leave my first relationship before 6 months of my marriage, will my husband know my virginity?...
A. 8 April 2010: You are planning a deceitful life even before your marraige begins. Not good, not good at all. Please do not lie. You will just become a pitiful liar in the end. Do not put your future hb through hell. If you do not love him do not marry him.... (read in full...)
Are there any faithful men out there?
Q. Hey everyone! I was wondering ....Is there such a thing as a faithful man? Even after so many years? No offence guys just got myself out of a bad and long relationship and I am worried/scared : / What are your experiences? Thank you ...
A. 8 April 2010: Yes my hubby is one of the faithful ones. He's a good man. Decent. And I love him! I know that there are many like him but you have to look very heard. The faithful ones may just also be dead or gay! But they do exist... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 8 April 2010: To the last male 'domo' spot on. Too many loose ends her, perhaps some half truths, some deliberate ommissions. If the OP wants proper advice and guidance then time to come clean and start speaking some solid facts. Details darling, details.this ... (read in full...)
My husband gave oral sex to a female friend who had passed out at the party we were throwing!
Q. we had a party in our home and my husband decided to give oral sex to an old female friend that was passed out in the room down stairs while i was upstairs sleeping. he never said anything to me until the girl called me the next morning and told ...
A. 7 April 2010: So he raped her.
Why was he not reported to the cops -sexual misdemeanor?
Any confrontation?
What happens now?
Please if you have kids DO NOT trust him with them.
He should be brought to book. NOW
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Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 7 April 2010: I cannot remain silent anymore.
This woman is violating her marriage and you all in the name of some sick love. When does it end? The 23rd? I don't know. What I hate more - you accepting her violation or her getting away with it. Seeking sexual g... (read in full...)
I want a baby with my older Husband
Q. I am 24 and recently married my best friend and the most perfect man. He is 65 and we dated for 4 years before we married. I have a 6 year old from my first marriage and he has 3 grown children and we all get along great. I recently have ...
A. 7 April 2010: You may crave his baby but please try to be realistic. He is 65 already. He is not in a position to start changing nappies. How about just enjoying your blessings. You both have kids from prior marriages so why complicate things. Enjoy your love and ... (read in full...)
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