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... Send *ouLee a private message | | | *ouLee's profile:Well i'm LouLee, i've had quite a few ups and downs in my life and can usually very easily emphasise with people.
I currently live in England and am hoping to be acheive all my ambitions and dreams before im 35 at least!
The slightest thing can make me tick, i'm just a typical teen who suffers from extreme mood swings.
At first i came on here to get advice but also like to give advice as it makes me happy to feel as if i may helped someone in desperate need. |
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I'm scared of my ex...
Q. I split up with my boyfriend in December, we had been together 13 months and he is being a absolute idiot, he has taken pictures of my house and put them on bebo, he is almost 14, I'm almost 13. What should I do? I don't want to get back with him ...
A. 20 February 2008: Okay it sounds like this boy is a complete Pr**k. Have you told Bebo that he's taken pictures of your house as if you do tell Bebo i know for a fact they can take the pictures off. Apart from telling a teacher, i don't really know what else you... (read in full...)
I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal?
Q. I'm almost 13 he is almost 16, is that legal? He isn't forcing me into having sex but he is tryng to make me do things that I'm scared about and when I say no to something he says I can never try something new, should I tell him I'm scared because ...
A. 20 February 2008: Don't be scared that he's going to tell you're mum because chances are he isn't as your dad will knock 10 bells of crap out of him. You say 'what happened that Saturday night'? What did actually happen? Sex? Played around? Depending on what it... (read in full...)
I feel like I have to compete for my bf with his friend...how should I handle this??
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a few months now and what bothers me is that he has a long time friend (female) that lives with him because of her family issues. Whenever i go over to his house i feel like i'm the 3rd wheel and me and him can'...
A. 20 February 2008: i think you should start to try and have more alone time with him. (not at home) maybe you could go out for the day to a park or anywhere thats just you 2. when you're with him AND her... i know you'll probably find it hard but try to be nice to ... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: In my opinion i think you should let your daughter know exactly what has happened then try to forget about him, which i know is easier said than done. he is a sleeze for cheating and im sure you and you're daughter can do better. ... (read in full...)
Should I secretly text her and give her hints about her "Secret admirer". I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm 14 years old and at my school there's a new English teacher who's going to leave at the end of February. Over the past couple of months I have grown sexually attracted to her because I perform well in class she kind of... shields me! Once of my ...
A. 19 February 2008: hmm.. how did you get her number in the first place? in my opinion lots of boys have crushes on their teachers but i strongly recommend you do nothing about it. Especially as she has a boyfriend and quite frankly you can do nothing about it. x... (read in full...)
Should I date other guys before I decide to marry my 1st boyfriend?
Q. I just need some advice. Is it crazy to marry youre first boyfriend? I am so in love with my boyfriend of one year. I never wanted to get married or have kids, and now that I see how powerful love is, i can't wait to have kids. I honestly think he ...
A. 6 February 2008: Well, i would've said you should experiment, different partners etc before you decide to marry your first boyfriend but life never really works out how you expect it so if you honestly believe he is the one.. go for it.. i'm not sure if you've seen ... (read in full...)
Do I say something to her about her fling or simply let it go?
Q. hey people just wanted to know what to do...i've been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but there's a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I ke...
A. 6 February 2008: I understand how you feel but you shouldn't pressure her about it, she probably regrets it and past IS past. If she's trying to avoid it, then just let it be. ... (read in full...)
I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?
Q. Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...
A. 28 January 2008: Like you said, you're not too eager to lose your virginity; if you want to save it, save it. F**k the 'respect' that these guys will give you.. seriously is that all you care about? You can always fib? You're only a virgin once, remember that. Once ... (read in full...)
My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!
Q. My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...
A. 28 January 2008: Okay so i understand why you're angry and disgusted. What i would like to know is why she wanted them 'done'. If she done it for pure fun then i probably would totally agree with you, however if she had them 'done' because she was really unhappy ... (read in full...)
Am I jealous of my friend?
Q. well i was wondering if im jealous of my friend? you see me and her have the same classes together last year and this year.shes a alright looking i think.anyways this year a lot of boys like her.i dont know why? but she have big boobs.i mean lar...
A. 28 January 2008: Yeah, it sounds like jelousy but i can totally understand why you're jealous...big boobs, all the attention, why wouldnt you be jealous?!
Despite the fact boys ask her out, she doesn't like this mainly because they're most probably asking her out ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left hickeys on my body, that cannot be camouflaged!
Q. Ok heres the thing my bf left 14 hickeys on diffrent parts of my body and all can not be covered and i don't know what to do please help ...
A. 12 January 2008: Foundation would be best i think...you've just got to give your skin time to heal as a hickey is a bruise...sorry!! x ... (read in full...)
How do I tell people I'm gay?
Q. hi, im 17 yrs old and become a bisexual at the age of 15 but never told anyone! except people on msn and stuff....how can i deal with this? and tell people im gay? please help!...
A. 6 January 2008: Well that's not much you can say to let out the fact you're gay but to actually say "i'm gay", if you're nervous about telling people, take a deep breath and blurt it out, but don't run off/ hide away or anything as they'll then think you're ... (read in full...)
I'm shy - how do I get her number?
Q. im 20 and i like the 17year old cashier that works at the same store as me, its a little "corner store" type place. My problem is im too shy to actually ask her on a date or for her number, i can talk to her and make jokes with her but i just cant ...
A. 6 January 2008: Well if you're scared about rejection make sure she hasnt got a boyfriend first, ask her " so you got a boyfriend then" and if she says "no" ask her if she fancies going out sometime. You're not exactly gonna expect a harsh "no" to a question like ... (read in full...)
Will he react the same as before?
Q. I'm pregnant. He is not my boyfriend, we used to date, he is 29 yrs older than me. He got me pregnant before and he convinced me to have an abortion, he said we could have probably babies in the future but not at that time. I haven't told him yet ...
A. 6 January 2008: Well you need to talk to him, tell him you're pregnant and see what he says, he may react totally different to before. You don't have to abort the child on his say-so, It's your baby and depending on what he says, you can bring it up with him, alone ... (read in full...)
She's broken my heart. What can I do?
Q. I have a problem. I really, really, -REALLY- like this girl. I've known her for over a year, and we both admit we'd be great for each other. I've never felt any kind of close connection to anyone like I do with her. The only person who comes...
A. 6 January 2008: She cannot tell if someone's her soulmate just because she thinks he's perfect and feels theres a 'spark' there when he looks at her, you start to think someone's your soulmate when you've been with eachother for a very long time (usually)..I know ... (read in full...)
His urine has blood in it. What is wrong?
Q. my and my bf just have sex for about 5 minutues and he says he penis herts and he is pissing bloody do you know whats wrong with him?...
A. 6 January 2008: You definitely need to get him to hospital, the only reasons i can think of is that his foreskin may be too tight or a tear in the foreskin but it could be anything.... (read in full...)
His urine has blood in it. What is wrong?
Q. my and my bf just have sex for about 5 minutues and he says he penis herts and he is pissing bloody do you know whats wrong with him?...
A. 6 January 2008: You definitely need to get him to hospital, the only reason i can think of is that his foreskin may be too tight but it could be anything.... (read in full...)
Underside of "member" is red. Is it a rash or what?
Q. hi I am a 15 year old male and I noticed for a while that the underside of my penis is red, its not red raw or a rash as it doesn't itch etc. I have had it for a while ... Does any one know what it is?...
A. 6 January 2008: Yeh i agree with Friend Tom, if it's been there for a while however it might just be a birth mark but you never noticed it. ... (read in full...)
I'm getting mixed signals from him. What should I do?
Q. I need guy help, big time. Okay, there is this guy at my school, he is really cute and in the same grade, but he a part of the football. I am not one of the 'popular' girls. Anyway, he is in some of my classes and I get really mixed signals from ...
A. 5 January 2008: Well i was in a similar situation to you a couple of months back so i can totally relate to you. It sounds like he's just flirtatious, All popular boys are like that and tend to only go out with the 'popular' girls but sometimes there are ... (read in full...)
How do you keep a secret that is burning you inside?
Q. How do you keep a secret from anyone, one secret which is mine (i kept for 6 years but can't cope anymore, it's killing me inside and making me mad) the other which is my families...
A. 5 January 2008: Thats a bit of a tricky question to be honest. Do you want to keep your secret or do you want to tell someone and trust they don't tell anyone? If you have a secret but it's killing you inside the best bet would be is to tell someone you don't know. ... (read in full...)
Will she carry our little 'in-jokes' to her new relationship?
Q. Me and my ex girlfriend like most couples had little jokes, and things that nobody else would understand. I have missed her today, and I have found it hard not to dwell on the fact that she has a new boyfriend. But I've had a thought: What do...
A. 5 January 2008: It really depends on what kind of person she is, if they worked for your relationship chances are she's probably gonna want to try them out on new relationships. However she may not as she might think it was special to only you and herself. With her ... (read in full...)
Anyone got any experiences to share?
Q. hiya! im just kinda interested and i was wondering if people could share their experiences with me. their experiences with their first bfs. how did you meet? what age? how long did it last? were your parents ok with it? and finally.......what...
A. 5 January 2008: Ok well my first real boyfriend was when i was 13, probably quite young in most people's eyes. When i moved schools i had to start taking this bus into school and as soon as i saw him i thought wow he's fit and he said hi straight away...then he ... (read in full...)
He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?
Q. i have this great boyfriend.. and well one day i found out from friends that he was ready to have sex.. and i asked him about.. and he said it was true..and just to be funny with him i asked him for a condum..then next thing i know he comes up to ...
A. 5 January 2008: i basically think you should just leave it as it is and see where things go, he might be telling his friends this but may not want to be telling you the same thing which may be why he's 'lost interest'....another reason why he sounds like he doesn't ... (read in full...)
We really want to have sex, but she's afraid of the pain and her body won't let her. What can we do?
Q. This question is more for sexual advice than dating advice: My girlfriend and I, of about a year, are madly in love. We seem to be in a healthy relationship, except when it comes to sex. I have had sex, about 5 years ago. But I lost my virginit...
A. 5 January 2008: You need to sit down and talk to her, promise her you will be very gentle and slow and if it hurts, all she has to do it shout and you'll stop straight away. keep working at it and hopefully she'll be able to a)feel more relaxed and b) slowly let ... (read in full...)
How do I get over a 3 year relationship? I'd drop everything to be with her.
Q. This may be a little long, but please take the time to read I could really do with some advice. I met my ex at school when we were 16. She was absolutely GORGEOUS, everyone at school knew of her and stared at her. I had a couple of classes with ...
A. 5 January 2008: Wow that was a slow depressing read, i havent head the whole story here but it sounded like she still had feelings for you when she wasn't with this new guy, but maybe thought you didnt love her anymore so now she's just trying to forget about you ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with his friend?
Q. a 12 year old girl my boyfriend wants me to come over his hous tomorrow and have sex with ohis other friend who seems nice. what do I do, if I go I dont know wat will happen buut if I dont hell break up with me. I eed help please!...
A. 5 January 2008: Oh my, i'm shocked by the amount of people talking about having sex at such a young age, you're 12! Ok, what i advise you is that you need to dump your boyfriend, there is no decent guy on planet earth that would tell you to have sex with his mate ... (read in full...)
Is it me - or does he fancy me?
Q. hi i really need some advise. i work in a holiday park at weekends, and there is this dj, he is 37 and im 16. last summer we sent each other flurty texts but it all got out and he relised that i was just 16, other people that worked there were ...
A. 5 January 2008: Yeh it sounds like he does like you, or thinks you're attractive but may also think that it can't be....due to your ages, you have to remember he's twice your age, nearly 40 so for him to develop stronger feelings for you would be 'wrong' as most ... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to see him in a different light - is 4 years too much of an age gap?
Q. I have this friend who is 15, he will be 16 in a few months but recently, after not noticing him for so long i have started to see him in a different way. I really do believe i have such strong feelings for him. Like i could just talk to him all day ...
A. 5 January 2008: I hate questions like this, i have mixed views about it, 4 years is too much of an age gap but if he likes you the way you like him then i dont see any reason not to take things further, he's 15, ok he's still at school but he's not stupid, he knows ... (read in full...)
Would it be alright if we used a condom?
Q. i have just recently started going out with this 17 year old...hes in the army!! that doesnt bother me in anyway. in told my dad and his fiancee and they were fine considering my stepsister is going out with his little brother, so they know the ...
A. 5 January 2008: Despite the fact that you're underage, and the other aunts would probably totally disagree with me i would say yes it is okay to use a condom as you've already tossed him off and let him play with you. If you really like eachother then i see theres ... (read in full...)
Is there an age restriction for buying pregnancy test kits in Colorado?
Q. i need to know what the age restriction is for buying pregnancy tests in colorado is. my girlfried has been having stomach cramps which she says are normal a few weeks before her period as well as her breasts have been very tender for the l...
A. 4 January 2008: ask someone to go in and buy one for you, just try to find a happy teen/20's, give them the money and they should do it for you...good luck.... (read in full...)
Do you think the boy I like is with someone else or have I got a chance?
Q. Dear cupid, I’m a 13 year old girl; I like a boy the same age as me for 6 years. Ok, when people say that boys like a girl but they don't show it, they always start of being mean. Well that's what happened to me, at first when I was in year 3 the ...
A. 4 January 2008: I totally agree with electronica, ideas to try and get hm out of your head? hmm...first of all, i would try to chat to more people at school, boys and girls, including flirting, it may not make a difference on how you feel towards him but it will ... (read in full...)
I like this guy...Should I play it cool or not?
Q. i like this guy in my grade...i started noticing him more around me...i dont know if hes around me or another girl but certainly i started noticing him more...i added him on facebook both of us have our emails written, but he hasn't added me, do u ...
A. 4 January 2008: Yeah he generally sounds like he's interested, i think you should play it cool, if you added him on facebook then he should add you on msn if he likes you. Or maybe he just hasn't got round to doing it. Erm, basically just make general conversation ... (read in full...)
Is there too much of an age gap? Should I ask her out or not?
Q. there is this girl that i work with, she is very beautiful and very nice as well, me and her have lately been talking about some things flirting a little bit and i really would like to see if there is anything there between us, and ask her out on a ...
A. 31 December 2007: I dont think theres a problem with the age gap at all 17 and 20 sounds okay to me. You should ask her out, her parents shouldn't mind x... (read in full...)
What is adequate wear for a wedding, please?
Q. I've been invited to a wedding, please excuse the fact that this isn't entirely a "dear cupid" question, but I would really asppreciate some advice as to what I should wear! I haven't been to a wedding since I was 10...I'm just really stuck as ...
A. 31 December 2007: Wear a dress, for weddings i always recommend a dark colour but not black, usually purple is perfect, not too bold....if you dont want to wear a dress then i'd have to say wear a pretty top and a skirt--whites/creams & pinks x p.s you might get away ... (read in full...)
How long do I wait after my recent break up before accepting a date? I've received an invitation but I'm worried about my... public image.
Q. i have just broken up with my bf of 3 years, i knew it was coming long before it did - but this really nice guy now is asking me to go on a date with him, i'm not sure: is it to soon, will i make myself out to be bitch, i really need help plz, i ...
A. 31 December 2007: personally i would take it, remember it's only a date, if you're worried about your ex getting hurt, then yes he may get hurt but even if you waited longer your ex still may be hurt so it really is up to you.... (read in full...)
Are these extreme yoyo moods normal or is there something wrong with me?
Q. hi. this is quite an odd question i suppose and i dont know how many people will be able to answer it but her goes: im 13 years old and this really weird thing happens. one second im feeling so happy, like im on top of the world and nothing can ...
A. 30 December 2007: Do your moods change because of what you think about or what people say to you??
If so then it sounds like this behaviour is normal....all teenagers get mood swings, i know i do! although mine are like, very hyper---calm----screaming the roofs down ... (read in full...)
Three girls...which one is the one I should go for?
Q. Hey im between a rock and a hard place and two feet of steel if you catch my drift. so any way i like 3 girls and am torn between them also im not with any of them currently so thats the basics. Girl #1 has been my friend for a long time since ...
A. 30 December 2007: Right well, from what ive read girl #3 sounds like the best, it sounds like a romance could easily be blossomed from the awkward moments and parties...I chose girl #3 because:---
girl #1 didnt give you a straight answer, although you had that ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I 'love her' and am worried I am rushing into things too fast here. Any help?
Q. Hi there I'm going out with this girl in my year at school and things so far are going good. We've gotten close really quick but, e.g. i've not even been going out with her a month and we've alredy went further than getting off (snogging) an the f...
A. 30 December 2007: Right, if you want to take things more slow but without her thinking theres something wrong, tell her some of the things you've said in this question, the fact that you dont want her to think you're like every other guy and tell her you care about ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and we're going on our first date. I need help with dating tips...advice?
Q. okay, well im a 15 atm was asked out by this guy, also 15, a couple of days ago, and sayed yes as iv liked him for ages. so now i guess we go out, the problem is i never really had a proper boyfried before, and im not sure how to react around h...
A. 30 December 2007: Oooh first dates are always nervewracking, i would say that if you get on really well and that he should hold your hand---possibly?
And by the end of the date, if you and him had a great romantic time together and he wants to kiss you, he'll ... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid thinking he had another girl over??
Q. I don't know if i am being paranoid or not. My b/f of three years bought a new toliet seat cover and it was laying there for awhile. Meanwhile--in the three years that i have been with him--he has never really straighted up anything(like placing ...
A. 30 December 2007: Well it generally sounds like cos he had the day off he wanted to tidy up. Keep him from being bored...i'm not really sure what to think, maybe he did have a girl over, maybe he didn't....but until you find more reason to think he did have a girl ... (read in full...)
He is really nice and good looking and I am not...so I really doubt he is interested in me...but is it possible??
Q. I am a 17 year old girl, and I have worked in a small cafe for the last 4 months. One of the guys there is 32, and I always thought he disliked me. But over the last couple of weeks we have been a lot more comfortable around each other... he is ...
A. 30 December 2007: Well i'm not a 32-year-old bloke but from what you've said it sounds like he really likes you, if you weren't good looking then he wouldnt have said you looked nice that day would he!! Keep it up girly. Got something good going on there! x... (read in full...)
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