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... Send *ouLee a private message | | | *ouLee's profile:Well i'm LouLee, i've had quite a few ups and downs in my life and can usually very easily emphasise with people.
I currently live in England and am hoping to be acheive all my ambitions and dreams before im 35 at least!
The slightest thing can make me tick, i'm just a typical teen who suffers from extreme mood swings.
At first i came on here to get advice but also like to give advice as it makes me happy to feel as if i may helped someone in desperate need. |
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He is really nice and good looking and I am not...so I really doubt he is interested in me...but is it possible??
Q. I am a 17 year old girl, and I have worked in a small cafe for the last 4 months. One of the guys there is 32, and I always thought he disliked me. But over the last couple of weeks we have been a lot more comfortable around each other... he is ...
A. 30 December 2007: Well i'm not a 32-year-old bloke but from what you've said it sounds like he really likes you, if you weren't good looking then he wouldnt have said you looked nice that day would he!! Keep it up girly. Got something good going on there! x... (read in full...)
Should I move on or follow my heart and wait??
Q. Hey:) Heres whats up. I'm 15 and im in love with a guy 29, he's not a teacher or nothin either. I met him when I was 12 yrs old but I didnt think much of him I was just starting to get into boys my own age. When I turned 13 I started getting ...
A. 30 December 2007: I think you should move on, he's twice your age and probably knows that you are too young. Even if you did wait til the age of consent he still has a girlfriend. I think him whispering in your ear and saying 'ill see you later' and talking like you ... (read in full...)
Who thinks I am being played for a fool??
Q. Hello all. Here goes: I'm a 37 year-old woman who's been dating a "separated" man (he's 41) for 8 months now. He has 2 minor children (ages 5 and 7) and has been married for 8 years. He lives alone. She lives w/another man. I know it sounds i...
A. 30 December 2007: I think that he may still have feelings for her but does love you at the same time.....hence him looking through her cd's, probably brings back memories. Although listening to her moan bout her life and that could just be him feeling sorry for her ... (read in full...)
I am so scared to ask boys out because I feel they will reject me.
Q. I am scared to ask boys out as i am afraid they will say no. because i am fat and ugly. I don't know what to do. I always have this same dream about going out with this boy i really fancy and we end up kissing in the end. but to make matters worse. ...
A. 30 December 2007: This boy that you want to ask out......has he shown that he likes you?? Cause i wouldn't ask a boy out if i didnt think he was gonna say yes, if i knew there was a chance because he flirts with me or whatever i would....If you know he likes you then ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 21. I have been cheating on him with another guy who is 19. I love both but they are very different and now I'm confused, what shall I do?
Q. ok, im 14 and ive been with my boyfriend for 13 months. i wil call him A. i love him alot, hes 21 btw. i know him well, b4 u ask. i know his bestfrend, and the people who live in his flat. anyways, im kinda cheating on him with this boy who is 19. i ...
A. 29 December 2007: Ditto to loops! I'm sorry but i'm gonna have to be blunt, thats crazy, you're so so young and you shouldnt be with guys that age aswell as cheating....get rid of both and find someone your own age, lifes not about sleeping around with older men ... (read in full...)
What would you say, how young is too young?
Q. Right then, I'd just like to ask your opinions on "how young is too young"? I'm 22, and have feelings for a younger girl, she's 15. I don't care about sex, I just have loads of feelings at the moment for her, I feel like she's too young, she ...
A. 29 December 2007: Yeah i do think you're a tad too old...wait til shes older and it wouldnt be so wrong. ... (read in full...)
What does "cute" mean, coming from a guy?
Q. I was wondering if there are any guys on here (chicks are welcome to reply too!) who could put a little perspective on something for me. At work, there is this maintenance guy who is around 19 or 20. His mother told my colleauge that he thinks I...
A. 29 December 2007: Well i always thought that cute could be cute as in geeky funny cute. cute as in pretty but too young for me or cute as in totally perfect..hope this makes sense lol ... (read in full...)
All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?
Q. I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad ...
A. 29 December 2007: Yes you're mad! lol If i was you i'd break up with him, tell him to get out of my life that way i wouldnt be cheating.....actually i have just scrolled up and and reread the word fiance...?? well this is a whole different story....he's your fiance ... (read in full...)
Why if he says he likes me, he does not ask me out?
Q. Hi I have a great boy mate who I also have a big crush on. We get along really great and tease and flirt constantly. One of his friends told me he fancied me and my boy mate has even hinted and confessed he does. I would love for him to ask me out ...
A. 29 December 2007: Woah im kinda in the same boat as you....he's probably planning on asking you out just give it time and he'll pluck enough courage to finally do it....best wishes ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had their hymen broken riding a horse (and did it hurt)?
Q. Hi my 16 year old sister is going horse back riding for the first time . one day she was looking up things about sex , virginity and other stuff. mostly on dr. drew's web site and gurl.com about the hymen that we women have she found out that the ...
A. 28 December 2007: I go horse back riding and have been riding for years and years now, i felt my hymen break when i was about 14, it did not hurt and i didnt feel any different so please tell your friend not to worry...some people dont even notice! Theres just a bit ... (read in full...)
I have a lump bigger than a grape in my vagina and I'm really scared, what could it be?
Q. im so scared and i have tried to research this but don't know what is wrong with me, can somebody please help!! My vagina has been swolen and sore for the past week or so, and i got green thick discharge the other day too. I thought i had a ...
A. 28 December 2007: Sounds like nothing to worry about, could be a cyst/polyp...my mother had one removed like a month ago....i'd advise you to go to your doctor and you'll get admitted to the hospital to get it removed, as it could be cancerous. thats if it is a ... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend dumped me and blame it on her hormones, is this normal?
Q. my girlfriend is 20 weeks pregnant and she has dumped me , she says its her hormones and that she has done it so that she can sort her head out but she has wanted to see more of me ever since she dumped me is this normal....
A. 28 December 2007: Yes perfectly normal, she does love you and it sounds like everything she says is true. As i would've probably been exactly the same so just be kind and forgive her hun...... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I'm in love with a 19 year old...what should I do?
Q. ok i'm 13 and i'm in love with this 19 year old guy and he really loves me for me. but he is scared to ask me out because of the age different. but he wants no sex or anything. he doesn't even mind people seeing us together. should we go out or not? ...
A. 28 December 2007: I dont think you should go out with him, when i was 13 i was in love with a 17 year old and i thought we were gonna last forever then my dad found out and told me a few home truths. Most boys at the age of 19 would not go out with a 13 year ... (read in full...)
Is it all in my head? Are there signs that he likes me? What do these dreams mean?
Q. This is really two questions in one. I'll start with part one. Ok ive been at this college for about 3 months and made loads of new friends. There this guy there in my class who is dead nice but i'm not sure if i like him or not one minute i don't ...
A. 28 December 2007: Right...these dreams are all in your head of course but it's good, if you dream about him it sometimes means that you were thinking about him before you drifted off but it might not have even been an interesting thought it couldve just been a ... (read in full...)
Humans before pets no matter what?
Q. My guy hates my cat, and told me that I can't take him with us when we buy a house. He's not allergic to the cat, and the cat hasn't done anything bad or been mean at all. He just thinks my cat is annoying. I had the cat before I meet him. Should...
A. 28 December 2007: So what if your pet is annoying...tell him to get over it. seriously...? he is expecting you to get rid of it? i advise you not to get rid of your pet as you'll most likely end up regretting it.... (read in full...)
My bf stays until late at his best friend's house and he ignores me when she is around. I heard her saying she loves him. Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend stays at his best friends house until like 3 a.m. and hes always ignoring me when hes around her. Its like when she around i dont exist. I cant stand him hanging around her 24-7. She one time said i love you baby to him and boy i filled ...
A. 28 December 2007: Until 3am in the morning? Ignores you? Ok this is not good! Clearly there is something going on, You need to tell him everything you've said in this question...It may be that this best friend of his is more than a best friend....and it's not right ... (read in full...)
I've found pornographic pics of my 16 yr old sister on the internet! What shall I do?
Q. ive found pictures of my sister on the internet. She is with different lads having sex, anal, bondage etc. she is only 16!! should i tell her or our parents or just ignore it?...
A. 28 December 2007: If i was in your situation i would speak to her, ask her why she's doing this and whether shes aware of all the risks she may hve to battle? After the chat, if she seemed to be unreasonable or naive or just didn't care, i would tell the ... (read in full...)
I want to kiss him, but I want him to make the first move! Any advice?
Q. hi, i am going out with this boy, i have never felt this way about a boy before! i want to kiss him but i want him to make the first move, but i am scared what will happen if we try to kiss and it goes wrong! he is smaller then me so how should we ...
A. 28 December 2007: In all honesty you both have to make the first move as a kiss needs two people to participate...it won't all go wrong if you just relax and go with the flow! if ur taller i suggest you sit down for the first kiss...good luck hun... (read in full...)
I did all the embarrassing/annoying ex things and now I'm a mess. How do you move on from someone that doesn't love you anymore?
Q. The first person that I've ever had real feelings for finished with me just over a month ago and I'm still having a hard time trying to stop thinking about him. We were only together for 5 months and I can understand why it didn't work out. We hit a ...
A. 28 December 2007: I would suggest, delete him from your life altogether...wait til he talks to you.. dont even look at him, hes not worth your attention....after a couple of weeks if you still want him back. fight with him, hit a nerve or two and he'll fight back. ... (read in full...)
Why won't he pleasure me?
Q. dear agony aunt i really hope you can help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and i have noticed at the beginging of the relationship he is so greedy in the bedroom its all about him. i will pleasure him but when its his ...
A. 28 December 2007: Hmm...dont mean to be rude but i think it could be either because.....he's greedy like most guys or.....have you thougt that your hygiene may not be very good? The only way to find out is ask him. ... (read in full...)
Was I being ungrateful?
Q. This is quite strange but I will explain. For christmas this year my gf said that her brother would be purchasing me a leather jacket. She said it would make up for the past christmas's that he has missed out on buying me a present. She said it ...
A. 28 December 2007: Your post made me laugh. How could you NOT be ungrateful by receiving something as disgusting as that. If i was you i'd return the jacket back to him and say thanks but i really couldnt hve something so expensive...and leave it as ... (read in full...)
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