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30-35,
*eartlessprincess
writes: i have this great boyfriend.. and well one day i found out from friends that he was ready to have sex.. and i asked him about.. and he said it was true..and just to be funny with him i asked him for a condum..then next thing i know he comes up to me the next day and gives me one and say he has another just incase..now everytime hes around me he wants me to kiss on him rub him.. and he told his friends that he wanted me to give him a hand job..and if were alone he tries taking control of me..and it seems like everytime i talk to him now on the phone its ike he really don't care like hes lost interest..what should i do?
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reader, bleh222 +, writes (6 January 2008):
 well most guys that young just think about sex. and when you joke around with him about sex he's not joking. you need to tell him you were joking around so he know's you weren't serious. talk to him about this.. tell him you're not ready for that and if he doesn't stop being like this, then drop him.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 if you dont want sex you really need to tell him. dont let him force you into something your not happy about. and dont let him control you either you need to make it clear to him you have your own life outside the relationship.
hope this helps
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (5 January 2008):
 He's a guy.guys are always ready for sex.If you have sex with him, you'll regret it.he's only after one thing. and one thing only. and i'm sorry to say it's not your hand in marriage or for love and all that jazz.break it off let him get his kicks elsewhere and find someone worth a damn.However if you don't realise this and you do have sex with him..Use protection.
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reader, LouLee +, writes (5 January 2008):
 i basically think you should just leave it as it is and see where things go, he might be telling his friends this but may not want to be telling you the same thing which may be why he's 'lost interest'....another reason why he sounds like he doesn't care on the phone could be that cos he can't see you or kiss you or anything when you're apart means that he's not interested in having a serious relationship. Thats what i think anyway. Hope this helped x
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