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Should I secretly text her and give her hints about her "Secret admirer". I don't know what to do!

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Question - (19 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *incentMancini writes:

I'm 14 years old and at my school there's a new English teacher who's going to leave at the end of February. Over the past couple of months I have grown sexually attracted to her because I perform well in class she kind of... shields me! Once of my friends said "She's got a crush on you". She's 25 and has a boyfriend. I got her number but I don't know what to do!

Should I secretly text her and give her hints about her "Secret admirer". I don't know what to do!

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntDont. Shes 25, a teacher, and has a boyfriend. No matter how you feel she wont recipricate your feelings enjoy the crush and leave it there

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A female reader, LouLee United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2008):

LouLee agony aunthmm.. how did you get her number in the first place? in my opinion lots of boys have crushes on their teachers but i strongly recommend you do nothing about it. Especially as she has a boyfriend and quite frankly you can do nothing about it. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008):

i once went on a school trip, the teacher that i admired was there, i used to think he was gorgeous, i always drooled over him lol, but then when we went on this school trip we had to climb this mountain, he had to stay at the bottem 'cause there were some kids that didn't wanna, so he gave us his phone number and said if theres any problems ring me, it was purely health and safety reasons that he gave me it, but no matter how much i fancied the pants off of him i would't of dreamt of texting him, its wrong and out of order, you should delete her phone number just as i deleted his once the trip was over.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (19 February 2008):

O Connor agony aunthow do you have her number? the answer is no, she is 25, has a boyf, and is well aware of the fact that you are 14, and underage. just because one of you friends says she has a crush on you doesnt mean anything - how would he/she know, im taking it that you friend is of the same age and is none the wiser than yourself. its not a good idea, you may sometimes think that maybe this could happen but the chances are it wont. wat if she found out it was you and got you in trouble, getting her number is a huge invasion of privacy and you should delete it. try and focus on meeting girls that are your own age, it is completely normal to have sexual feelings for a teacher, but acting on them is a different thing.

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