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I broke it off because she wouldn't tell her parents about us...

Q.   I broke up with my girlfriend because she didn't tell her parents about us. I gave her almost 3 months to tell them she said she didn't know what they may say and that she is stupid. Did I do right? ...

A.   24 August 2006: i think you did do right because if shes not willing to tell anyone about you she shows that she embarresed of you and also shows that the relationship is not serious. ... (read in full...)

Is it my personality they're interested in, or is it just sex?

Q.   Every time that I start talking to a boy, it seems as if they always seem to bring up sex, but they also talk about other important things as well. I was wondering should I take it into consideration that all these boys want to do is have sex with ...

A.   24 August 2006: i think boys are only interested in sex but there are some that do like you for your personality all i can say is dont let them fall you. play hard to get and they wont give you up.... (read in full...)

I think I might be in love with my friend! He's in my thoughts all day, until he texts or calls me at night!

Q.   I've been battling with this confusion for quite some time now. I'm starting to get strong feelings for this boy that I have been knowing for about a year and half or so. It's obvious that we like each other, but we opted to keep things on a friend ...

A.   24 August 2006: well i think that you should confront him. Invite him over or somthing. it sounds like your realy head over hills with him i would go for it. its your perfect oppurtunity. good luck ... (read in full...)

It's a love hate thing...

Q.   Please help me out. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I hate his feet which feet arent supposed to be attractive anyways. Sometimes the way he moves his hand up and holds it up i hate it. It reminds me of someone gay. Just little ...

A.   24 August 2006: tell him the things that irritate you and say that you want some space. I can see that you dont realy want him around. ... (read in full...)

Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?

Q.   There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...

A.   24 August 2006: I think that you should ask her to take her out for the day and say if shes had a good time or not. Have a long talk together to see wether she feels the same about you. Tell her how you feel but dont say it all at once tell her you like her slowly.... (read in full...)

I love him - I'm hurt/confused by his nonchalant, non caring behaviours.

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up almost 6 months ago over a silly argument. Prior to the breakup we had been seeing each other for a year. Part of the breakup was my fault and I've apologised and stated my desire to continue our relationship since I ...

A.   24 August 2006: If he doesnt fell happy to show you off hes not pleased to be with you or show his friends that hes got a caring and loving girlfriend then i think you may have to try to find a way to end it. Or you can have a long talk with him and tell him how ... (read in full...)

He says he won't get a divorce for 2 years and wants no strings sex. Should I go for it?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for about four months, however he still lives with his ex, I wanted to wait till he moved out before we became serious, but he said he didnt want me to throw away what we had. I thought i loved him and things progress...

A.   24 August 2006: As far as i have heard you will never forget the first time you sleep with some one this will always leave a special feeling inside. But here i think you two should stay freinds and further more not get involved with him. You should be angry at him ... (read in full...)

He needs time to get his head together so is there a chance for us to be together again?

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago and I just saw him this past weekend for the first time. It was awkward at first but then as the day went on we were acting like a couple again. At one point we were telling each other that we still loved ...

A.   24 August 2006: I think that theres definatly a chance for you two to be together as long as you can find a way to keep in contact with him. You have also told each other how you feel and this is good and i think he wont forget this so the chance raises even ... (read in full...)

How can you tell if your bf is cheating on you?

Q.   hey ppl i need ur help how can u tell if ur bf is cheating on u? i know its stupid and there aint really any really questions but anything will do i need to know weather he is cheatin or not...

A.   24 August 2006: i think the best way to acheive this is by asking hes freinds without making out that your paranoid that hes chaeting on you. I hope that this could help you gather information without him knowing good luck.... (read in full...)

Found out he has a lot of girls who like him...Is he taking me for a fool

Q.   i need ur help quick, i keep seein this lad hu is really fit he is my best m8s brother and my best m8 is goin out with his m8, but anyways his mum is on hol so have been spendin alot at his!! but with his mates, i have slept at his loads of times ...

A.   24 August 2006: well i think you shouldnt call him and wait for him to talk to you if he does then you know that hes interested in you. Also if he doesnt call you then you are going to have to move on sorry.... (read in full...)

How can I get things back to just friends...?

Q.   me and my boyfriend broke up which im perfectly happy about , although i wish i could still be his friend ,and i dont understand why he doesnt like me , although going out didnt work we used to get along so well , and i wish things could still be ...

A.   24 August 2006: this happened to me and i got one of my freinds to ask him does he like me and he turned round and sed that he likes me as a freind which was all good and we are still friends. all we do is tell jokes to each other and you could use this good luck... (read in full...)

Sunbed question:- Are you supposed to turn over when using one ?

Q.   Stupid question on a sunbed are you supposed to turn around or not? I was on the sunbed this morning and my back got more red than my top side? Are you meant to turn on your stomach?...

A.   24 August 2006: No i dont think so, i find it easier to get a spray tan myself.... (read in full...)

Tips for eating before the Gym!!

Q.   Hello, need some health and gyming advice. Is it recommended to have a meal before gyming? If you have a heavy meal or dinner then go to gym thereafter, does it do more harm then good?? Thanks...

A.   24 August 2006: well i have been going to the gym and asked the same question you have and they said that its often preffered that you eat a light meal after the gym. I found this quite hard to be honest but good luck it works too... (read in full...)

Is he cheating or really concentrating on his school work?

Q.   Me (14) and my ex (16) were dating for 2 months. Alot of people have said he cheated, and likes my cousin. He said he loves me alot but he said he brokeup with me because he needs to concentrate on school and he is worried about me cause i live in a ...

A.   24 August 2006: I wouldnt say that he is cheating i would say hes concentating on his school work because wen your 16 you do your G.C.S.Es and does he call you if he does then he hasnt forgotten about you just relax and trust him. im sure if people are saying this ... (read in full...)

She hooked up with me then went back to her bf...but she still flirts with me What's up with this girl?

Q.   ok, i'm completely lost as to what to do or think. i met one of my current best friends back about 7 months ago. i introduced myself to her because i could tell she liked me, and i was very interested in her, too. but it initially took me a while ...

A.   24 August 2006: well that must be realy confusing for you. I think shes fancies you and she seems to want attention but rather it come from you. she also likes her boyfriend and has chose him over you. if you do choose to proceed with her then on her side some ... (read in full...)

I asked why he won't talk to me on msn and he wrote "F**k ya!"

Q.   He says he doesnt want to speak to me. but i dont understand why.i asked him on msn and he said cz, i drew ... and he wrote f*** ya and went offline. shud i ask him agen? or leave him to it and see what he does? its really confusing me....

A.   22 August 2006: well he does not want to talk to you let him think and realise how special you are then hopefully will get in contact with you if he doesnt then get over him. Dont contact him because he will think that you cant get no one but him and think that ... (read in full...)

I get tongue tied when around him, how can I learn to relax and let the real me out ?

Q.   ok well ive been friends with this boy for 3 years and ive fancied him for maybe the past 2 years. We've been getting on quite well but sometimes i find it really hard to get my words out around him. Because of this he doesnt really know the real ...

A.   22 August 2006: If you want him to notice the real you then laugh around him and make him laugh. Also tell him something that made you embaressed but just to make him laugh then hopefully you would feel it easier to talk to him. good luck xx its worth a try.... (read in full...)

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