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I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!
Q. I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...
A. 25 May 2008: Hee hee, that's great! Gotta love moms :-) ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!
Q. I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...
A. 24 May 2008: Diovan!? Drinking pee for hiccups!? Seriously!? Wow, I'm so happy that my mom never heard that one! That is so interesting...Next time my boyfriend complains of having hiccups all day and gets grumpy, I'm going to offer up this cure :-)... (read in full...)
She is amazing but her past puts me off...
Q. Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...
A. 24 May 2008: Hi, I read your response from 23 May...You should NEVER bury your questions and you absolutely have a right to feel whatever it is that you feel. I know that I came across pretty harsh, I didn't mean to. It's just that you both seem like pretty ... (read in full...)
He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...
A. 23 May 2008: Yes, get rid of this cheap millionaire. You're not a Chinese mistress, even if you came here to visit- You're all American baby
Many cultures respect and revere their mistresses! Shrines are built, Pyramids, military forts! But, you live some... (read in full...)
He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...
A. 23 May 2008: I apologize for my salty language...I am sincerely perturbed by this post. I hope I didn't offend anyone, including the original poster. I just wish that Madison83 would respect the dynamics of life. Nothing comes for free and revenge is never ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: Wow, the other side has spoken....You were right Diovan, it's a totally different pic when you hear both sides! They need counseling or something along those lines so that they can really HEAR what the other's saying.
Thank You for posting ... (read in full...)
He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...
A. 23 May 2008: OK, I read this again for pure entertainment....
"I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, money was never the isssue with us. I dont ask or expect m... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: Right! Hopefully they can resolve it in the bedroom... I know that I personally connect with my man in a tantric way when we make love. It doesn't matter what he said or I said, it's all about the loving energy that we share. I honestly feel that ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: YUP, You're right, it's silliness, but still kind of scary! My point was that she shouldn't apologize for something stupid like moving flip flops...I didn't see the bigger picture. They wouldn't be having this convo if things were cool to begin ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: Yes, IMS, it's funny I know! I thought it was a joke at first, but when I saw all of the studies and the serious effort put into them I let it become my 'excuse' for his bad behavior! Don't knock it dammit! Let me think my man has a hormonal ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: DiovanLestat? I agree with most of your post, but what should she apologize for? I've said "I'm sorry" so many times just to keep the peace and I'm telling you, most of the time I cringe when I say it. WHY? Why do we have to be the peacemakers? ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: It's weird, Lotusmamma has a point...when I was all jacked up about my man being moody to me, I did some research and found that men also have hormonal cycles and swings... It's not as prolific as us females, but it is a condition that has gained a ... (read in full...)
He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...
A. 23 May 2008: Wow, a piece of ass on the side has the nerve to think she's entitled to his assets!? HA! That's why you're the piece! Why try to get even? You're the one who put yourself in that position. I am laughing because what kind of fucked up individual ... (read in full...)
She is amazing but her past puts me off...
Q. Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...
A. 23 May 2008: Grrrrr! Love your stuff DiovanLestat! (looksie, I got your name right finally!) Make this boy come to reality dammit!... (read in full...)
I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!
Q. I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...
A. 23 May 2008: Serioulsy?! He shouldn't feel rejected...Like I said before, you agreed to perform all his fantasies with the expectation that he wouldn't want you to do something you're uncomfy with. It's human nature, we ALL do it. Tell him that. Please, I am ... (read in full...)
My new husband says I'm mental, am I ?
Q. Hi, I am recently married and I need some advice as to how to stor the rows that are happening in it. It's not so much the rows but the escallation of them. For example today my husband asked my opinion on a carton of milk that had been left in his ...
A. 23 May 2008: I am from the US and don't really know what a "row" is, but from what you've said, I've assumed it's an argument. I don't know you, but if what you've put on here is true (It more than likely is-you wouldn't have come to this site to blast ... (read in full...)
She is amazing but her past puts me off...
Q. Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...
A. 23 May 2008: YES! I love Oldfool's advice! Dude, I'm soooo hoping you read this and haven't thrown away something that you'll most likely be pining for later in life! ... (read in full...)
Are women not attracted to shorter men?
Q. i have heard a lot of times that women naturally are not attracted to shorter men than them or they tend to look down on them maybe with disrespect. how true is this, ladies?...
A. 23 May 2008: Ok, I have to post on this one...I am 5'11", so I encounter a lot of men shorter than me. My first boyfriend was like 5'4" or something and I was 5'10". I think it's usually the men that have the problem with taller girls. From my experience, and ... (read in full...)
Is it normal being turned on by incest?
Q. i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?...
A. 23 May 2008: Again, who watches incest take place? If you're watching it at your age, then you're pretty much a victim. I mean, it's not something that is just out in the open everywhere you look. It is concerning. When does one encounter "incest" in a ... (read in full...)
Why am I so attracted to men in authority?
Q. This may sound strange but i just want to know if anyone else out there feels the same. I am always attracted to people in management positions that i find it hard to settle for a guy with a normal position in a job. I'm 25 and i develope crushes ...
A. 22 May 2008: Hi, I also am attracted to men in authority...Not so much management, but I have a thing for cops like you wouldn't believe. My fiance now was a cop for 12 years when I met him. I've also had a thing for older men. I too have often felt drawn to ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it extremely hard fullfilling his pissing fetishes!!
Q. I told my b/f I'd do every single one of his fantasies at least once, but it's hard. He has a urine fetish, and I'm finding it really hard to go through with! He wanted me to drink it, to pee myself, to let him pee inside me...basically lots of stuf...
A. 22 May 2008: You set yourself up for that one! Geez. Nothing against fetishes, I'm very openminded and I know that we all have out freaky little secrets...But, if you're not comfortable now that you know what he wants- you have to let him know it. Even though ... (read in full...)
I need advice about weight lifting. Can you help?
Q. I'm15 years old, 155 lbs, about 5,6 ft and i was wondering about looking better. See i still have some weight to lose about 10-15 lbs, and then i thought it would be good to start lifting weights. I was wondering how long in between do i have to ...
A. 22 May 2008: There are tons of websites out there to help you body build in a safe way. I agree with Divon, this may not be the best forum for your question. Especially with your age, you really need to be careful to not injure yourself. I work out every day ... (read in full...)
Do I have a small penis for my age?
Q. I am 17 and have a 4 -5 inch penis when erect is this small for my age? and how could i make my penis bigger. thanks...
A. 22 May 2008: Men come in all shapes and sizes and wow do they worry about the size of their penis :-) Honey, it really doesn't matter too much about your size and you're not done growing! The only that's going to make it larger is your genes- give yourself a ... (read in full...)
I am trying to help her fix the problem but she is not cooperative...
Q. My girlfriend of a little less than 2 months had cheated on me with a number of different people. It has happened 3 times, and only once was she sober. I am trying to help her fix the problem and get through this myself, but she won't talk to me ...
A. 22 May 2008: Recovery mode sucks, but the only thing I can say is to please, PLEASE don't use this girl's actions to influence your views on women. Use the experience to learn about human behavior. She's young, you're young and you're both learning about who you ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he may propose? Or is this his way of fantasising?
Q. Okay, so I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are both madly in love with eachother, and we are expecting our first child! We have lived together since the day we started dating practically! We have just been inseperable! He h...
A. 22 May 2008: YAY! Thanks! You're awesome, glad it meant something :-)... (read in full...)
She is amazing but her past puts me off...
Q. Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...
A. 22 May 2008: You know, I read this a couple of times and really had to think hard about what I wanted to answer...At first I got kind of angry, you know? I mean you talk about "pounding her in the ass" as hard as you want and that she's so "amazing" and a freak ... (read in full...)
My first breakup... how can I get over him?
Q. How can I get over - fast - my first ex boyfriend, who was also my first love, and I thought I was going to be with him forever? I made mistakes. Well, that's why he broke up with me. He blames me for having ruined a perfect relationship, be...
A. 22 May 2008: Unfortunately, you really can't do it "fast". It took time for you to develop that relationship to the point of talking about marriage- that's pretty deep. It could take a long time to heal and nothing that anyone here could say is guaranteed to ... (read in full...)
What happens to your vagina if you don't have sex for years. Does it tighten back up??
Q. I need to know what happens to your vagina if you dont have sex for years. Does it tighten back up?? Does it hurt when you finally do do it again?...
A. 22 May 2008: Man, I wish! But, unfortunately, it seems as though every one here is correct...I saw some chick getting surgery on a documentary to tighten her vagina. The doctor asked her husband "So, do you want 18-years old, 16, or mid-20's?" I was kind of ... (read in full...)
I feel lost in this relationship... any help?
Q. It's me again! I must say you will find many questions of mine on here! hehe...anyways...I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and blah blah. Point is someday we will be married I'm sure...but my boyfriend has had a very hard life (but ...
A. 22 May 2008: SERIOUSLY!!?? Are we dating the same guy? :-) No, I'm just kidding- we're not. If you read my answer to your other question, you'll see what I mean :-) I get the moody thing from my man too and it drives me crazy! I can tell you for a FACT that ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he may propose? Or is this his way of fantasising?
Q. Okay, so I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are both madly in love with eachother, and we are expecting our first child! We have lived together since the day we started dating practically! We have just been inseperable! He h...
A. 22 May 2008: I agree, enjoy the love you share... you have much more joy to celebrate than lots of people out there with wedding rings on :-) I know how you feel. I've been called the "fiance" for a few years now, but no ring, no date, no proposal. Just ... (read in full...)
He says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Could you please translate this?!
Q. Guys, can you help me out here....... He broke up with me - suddenly - after 3 years, hasn't given a reason (I'm sure he's seeing someone else) but he says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Translation ple...
A. 22 May 2008: It could mean a million different things...I'd like to think that he's gay, that works. Then that way it has nothing to do with you :-) Or, maybe a secret agent, or international spy who's going on a huge mission, looking for WMD's and it would put ... (read in full...)
My girl told me she was raped. What do I do?
Q. What should you do if your girlfriend tells you she was raped by her x boyfriend but neva said or done anything about it and I'm the first person she told,to make it worse this guy is a good friend of mine but I don't like him anymore for what he ...
A. 22 May 2008: I agree that you should consider reporting him...the only problem is that depending on how long ago it happened, it will be very hard to prove. That's what sucks about abuse. Another thing to consider is that we women are twisted, devious beings at ... (read in full...)
Is my penis a problem?
Q. Hi, I'm 22 years old and still a virgin. One of the reasons for this is that I have a complex about my penis. It's slightly twisted and has a small curve in it. I was wondering if this would be something that would put girls off or that they wou...
A. 22 May 2008: Honestly, it sounds like it might even add to the sensation that a woman would normally feel during intercourse. I can't imagine someone complaining about it, and like mentioned before if she does, than she's not worth sharing your body with ;-) ... (read in full...)
I've just given birth, how long do we wait to resume having sex?
Q. We've just had our 1st baby.I'd like to resume intercourse and know the advice is "when you feel you're ready".What experience on this have you all had? Did your partner take it easy when thrusting etc? Thanks....
A. 30 March 2008: UGHHH! I just read this last post and it took me back to the delivery room... Sorry, it was a 6 week period as Mandy7 said. I guess it just seemed like three months :-) ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of "Love Handles"? I'm so embarrassed!
Q. this isn't a relationship question but i need advice. ok so i wanna know how to get rid of "love handles" and the extra leg fat on the upper legs. I am very skinny but i have fat on me and i want to get rid of it. so any tips would be greatly ...
A. 30 March 2008: Honey, who are these "friends"? If they bring you down by making comments, then they are probably just being jealous teens who want to feel superior. That's the game we play and it's even worse now than when I was your age. Please just be happy ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend move in with me?
Q. my boyfriend and i fight all the time but i am so in love with him. we plan on getting married and moving in together. he wants to move in in january but i want to move in at the end of summer how do i get him to change his mind to move in with me ...
A. 24 March 2008: What was the purpose of saying that you fight all the time? Is it because you're anticipating a fight about this, or is the reason that you want to wait for him to move in? ... (read in full...)
Why can't he ejaculate from oral sex?
Q. My bf says I'm great at giving oral, and he responds really well, so why can't he ejaculate? We were each others firsts, so its not like his ex's 'trained' him into different techniques. I usually give him oral for about 10minutes, but just can't s...
A. 23 March 2008: It sounds like you two are putting too much thought and effort into the whole thing and and that could be the problem. If he's laying there thinking about how bad he wants to come and you're down there counting down the minutes and thinking that ... (read in full...)
My teacher and I get lost in each other's eyes! I don't know what to do!
Q. well im in 11th grade,17 years old and im love with my goverment teacher,i have know him since 9th grade,hes always there for me,and no lie i love to flirt with him,he does the same but at times he keeps it on the low.alot of girls in my school have ...
A. 23 March 2008: Hi Angel, Just be careful honey, it's smart for you to try to avoid the situation. You're also smart to try to enjoy things your age and live a normal teenage life. This is your time to find yourself and just enjoy. I'm a firm believer in fate and... (read in full...)
He's told me that oral sex is something that he looks at as degrading and I've never had someone that loves me as he does - other guys feel this way?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a very wonderful guy. We compliment each other very well and have a very healthy relationship and can talk freely about any issues we have or feelings that need to be resolved. But there's one problem -- I can't understand ...
A. 23 March 2008: I dated a guy like this once, he wouldn't let me because he said that it made me a "whore" and that I was so much better than that and that he cared about me too much. I thought this was really weird because giving head was the least of the things ... (read in full...)
My new GF is making me choose between her and my son from a previous relation because she views my ex as a threat. Is there a middle ground?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been going out for over a year now...we have had a fairly rocky relationship (mainly due to the fact i have a 2 year old son by another woman). It was fine to start with but as time has passed i have tried to keep my...
A. 23 March 2008: Of course there's no middle ground. You should not be compromising your relationship with your child because of her- she's the one who has to get over her silly, childish crap, can she do it? Probably not. Sorry. Your child should always come ... (read in full...)
Is my alcoholic husband cheating?
Q. My husband has his own cleaning business and he's an alcoholic. We have a girl that works for us and she is also an alcoholic/drug person. She will miss like 14 days of work at a time but my husband won't get rid of her. Is he cheating?...
A. 23 March 2008: I agree with ShouldKnowBetter...I'm a recovering alcoholic(9 months sober in 5 days!) and we do tend to try to help each other out. If these are the only things that make you suspicious, I think that you should relax a little. I don't know if your ... (read in full...)
I'm married but found my "Soulmate"! Should I leave my wife?
Q. I am married for 15 years with 2 children. I reconnected with the woman I have loved my entire life by accident and we began an affair. It has lasted for over a year and we are soulmates and madly in love. We want to be together forever. She is ...
A. 23 March 2008: Wow, what a tough situation. I know what true, soulmate love is and I can't imagine what it would be like to live with a person who you dedicated your life to but feel that connection with another. Your wife deserves to be treated with respect and ... (read in full...)
My teacher and I get lost in each other's eyes! I don't know what to do!
Q. well im in 11th grade,17 years old and im love with my goverment teacher,i have know him since 9th grade,hes always there for me,and no lie i love to flirt with him,he does the same but at times he keeps it on the low.alot of girls in my school have ...
A. 23 March 2008: Stay away! Run! You may think you feel a connection, but he's already crossed the line. A teacher should not be talking about his personal situation with students or gazing into their eyes. It's creepy, inappropriate and scary. You're 17, he's ... (read in full...)
Can doing it "Doggie Style" be dangerous?
Q. my boyfriend and I love having sex doggy style. but afterwards it feels like there is air in my abdominal area. is that dangerous?...
A. 23 March 2008: I'm pretty sure it's not dangerous as HMBbabyface says, it's been done forever. I'm really curious though as to how you feel like there's air in your abdominal area? Seriously, just curious. It's probably just the pressure that you feel. When a ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of "Love Handles"? I'm so embarrassed!
Q. this isn't a relationship question but i need advice. ok so i wanna know how to get rid of "love handles" and the extra leg fat on the upper legs. I am very skinny but i have fat on me and i want to get rid of it. so any tips would be greatly ...
A. 23 March 2008: It's baby fat! You're still young and every one's body develops differently. You should eat several small healthy meals a day, stay active and just embrace what you have. Think of your body as a flower seed- you get it out of the packet, not really ... (read in full...)
My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!
Q. i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help....
A. 23 March 2008: First you said that you THINK you might be pregnant, you should find out first before you make yourself crazy about what to do. Amazingly, a simple test can immediately put your mind to rest....for now. So many times people get into relationships ... (read in full...)
My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!
Q. i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help....
A. 23 March 2008: First you said that you THINK you might be pregnant, you should find out first before you make yourself crazy about what to do. Amazingly, a simple test can immediately put your mind to rest....for now. So many times people get into relationships ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend gets really pissed about my ex!! What can I do?
Q. Hello all. My girlfriend of about 6 months has some amazing notions and has me a little upset. She gets pissed at the min I'm at my ex's, i.e. picking up my kids, driving by if I didn't get a chance to see them for a while,etc. She basically says ...
A. 23 March 2008: Wow, it sounds like she has issues at first...but then I read about the whole double standard thing and YIKES! She doesn't seem to have much respect for you, your children or herself. Normally I would say to talk to her about it and try to get her ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 23 March 2008: Ok, so just in case this is a real question...obviously from the all the comments posted, you can't, but you can get several STD's (herpes, gonorrhea, and other bacterial infections) from performing oral sex, look at it before you lick it.... (read in full...)
I've just given birth, how long do we wait to resume having sex?
Q. We've just had our 1st baby.I'd like to resume intercourse and know the advice is "when you feel you're ready".What experience on this have you all had? Did your partner take it easy when thrusting etc? Thanks....
A. 22 March 2008: Congratulations!!!! When I had my daughter 9 years ago, I was told to wait about 3 months, but I know that medical advice changes all the time and we also live in different parts of the world. I guess it would depend on the circumstances of your ... (read in full...)
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