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writes:my boyfriend and i fight all the time but i am so in love with him. we plan on getting married and moving in together. he wants to move in in january but i want to move in at the end of summer how do i get him to change his mind to move in with me at the end of summer or how do i get him to compromise with me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): maybe you should talk with with him and tell him you want to move after summer if he says no then just try to get it together cuz he just can't do everything without you agreeing with him so you both have to agree on it o.k
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reader, Sir Chaos +, writes (24 March 2008):
You go over to his house with a gun, put to his head and say.."move in with me now or I'll shoot you"?...thats the only way you are going to "make" him do anything. The more you push the more he's going to pull away. Let him decide he wants to on his own, dont push it. If he doesnt want to committ it may be time to move on.
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reader, kittikat +, writes (24 March 2008):
 What was the purpose of saying that you fight all the time? Is it because you're anticipating a fight about this, or is the reason that you want to wait for him to move in?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Maybe your rushing this a little bit. I know your in love and I understand . Yea sure I wud love to be will my bpyfriend all the time and live with him. but that doesn't mean I'm going to live with him right away. If you guys are getting married there will be plenty of time to live with him. He may want to do some stuff on his own before he commits to you . Tryign to rush him may push him away and I know you don't want that. Let him wait a while .
I hope this helped
Good luck !!!
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter  +, writes (24 March 2008):
Why does he want to wait 12 months and why do you want to wait 6 months?Given you want to spend the next 60 years together what is the difference of 6 months?What sort of relationship is based on each other making the otherside doing something against their will?
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