I'm almost 40 and want another baby..when does menopause start?
Q. problem. im 39 and soon will be 40. im dying to have a baby again. my youngest child is 13. im capable and got enough income to provide for a new baby. the problem is im scared. does anybody here can give me advice. i dont know if im still capable ...
A. 22 February 2010: Adopt if you can't have a baby. There are many ophans out there. You will be glad you did. Good luck!... (read in full...)
When ever there is a private moment my stepdaughter flaunts herself
Q. I am a man in his early 50's,,very fit and keep in good shape.I am also married with 2 teenage daughters,and another step daughter from my wife's previous marriage.We all had a lovely pleasant family unity until my step daughter started maturing and ...
A. 22 February 2010: You will be labelled as pedophile if you ever..ever mess with her. Look the other way now and tell your wife before she accuses you of seducing her. If you don't, you are risking going to jail for molestation. BE VERY VERY CAREFUL HERE PAL!... (read in full...)
He isn't giving me enough attention and now he wants space! What now?
Q. I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with hi...
A. 30 December 2009: He is not into you. Move on and find another boy friend. There are better ones out here. Dump him before he dumps you.... (read in full...)
Is it okay to think of her when I masturbate?
Q. hey, im 14 and has been in a relationship for a week, and i just wanted to know that is it ok for me to not master bate thinking of her,...
A. 30 December 2009: You are way too young to be in a serious. Go out to the movies, games,plays,music fest, parks. Have other forms of fun instead of thinking about sex. There is lot of time for that. You are only 14? Wow!... (read in full...)
Why does he lose his erection during sex?
Q. im 24 years old and my boyfriend is 42 when we have sex he loses his erection why is this? he stays hard when we have foreplay...
A. 30 December 2009: Squeeze his balls gently & softly.....this will keep him stay hard longer.... (read in full...)
What do I do in the meantime while my boyfriend is in jail?
Q. My boyfriend is going to jail. I'm very confused about what to do. Here is the thing: we had dated previously and had had a very rocky relationship which ultimately ended badly. It had been a relationship full of lies and cheating and both ...
A. 30 December 2009: Long story. This relationship doesn't seem to be working. MOVE ON!... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to be so afraid of his penis?
Q. So I've been seeing this boy for while now, and thing are starting to get intense, sexually. He rub me and makes me orgasm, but I'm too scared to do anything to him. I don't know what's wrong with me but every time I touch his penis I get jumpy and ...
A. 29 December 2009: There is nothing to fear. As long as you are well lubricated/wet before he penetrates you. Avoid rough sex as much as possible. As a man, I don't know how it feels in a woman, but I am sure it feels good. Sex can be a lot of fun with the right ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like 'oh my god I did it' or anything like that... is something wrong with me?
Q. I’m 27 and the other week had sex for the first time. I’m not religious so I wasn’t waiting for marriage, I just didn’t find the right guy to sleep with while I was dating…and in the past guys left me because I wouldn’t give in to sex early on in ...
A. 7 December 2009: Go for it girl and build on the other parts of the relationship. Have fun!... (read in full...)
He wants to wait but I want him now!
Q. Im 15 and a 26 year old likes me and i like him he say he'll wait till im 18 i want him now tho what should i do?...
A. 5 December 2009: This man is a pedophile - preying on minors. He has no business even talking to you as a girlfriend or in a romantic or sexual manner. You are also too young to be having sex. Look for boys your age that will take you to the movies, plays, ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that my husband is gay?
Q. I have been married for a year. My husband hasn't slept with me most of that time. We have sex then he gets out of bed and sleeps on the coach. He never comes to bed till it's almost time for me to get up. This just isn't a normal marriage. A ...
A. 30 November 2009: He is probably bored with sex for his age. Watch some porn together. That may help!... (read in full...)
Am I just a booty call?
Q. Ok, here goes I am recently divorced after 14 years of marriage. The last 2 years of my marriage were really hard and I clocked marriage then. I have a crush on my next door neighbor and it has been going on for about 1 year. Recently he has been ...
A. 29 November 2009: It is just booty call in my opinion. He is probably on a rebound from some of his on & off again escapades. I think you were horny and you had sex. Look elsewhre for a good relationship. Your affairs with him won't last. It is too easy & too ... (read in full...)
How can I help my boyfriend maintain an erection?
Q. Whenever my fiance and I have sex, I notice that, on the rare occasion he "misses" and when I reach to put it back in, that he's a bit soft. I asked him why, and he has no clue. It's been like that and he says he does notice it. Is this norm...
A. 24 November 2009: He is not focusing on the action. He is probably thinking about someone or something else. Talk to him about it.... (read in full...)
Will sex the second time be as bad as the first time?
Q. I have posted below post before and now going to have my 2nd time sex. Is it high chance for him to stretch my vagina wall as painful as my first time? Most of my friend said that very high chance to hurt like that again since he is so big and he ...
A. 24 November 2009: Second time around is always better.No penis is ever too big for a woman's vagina as long as you are well lubricated. Relax and enjoy the ride!... (read in full...)
My bf is abusive but I love him... what do I do?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and we even live together. He treats me great, takes care of me and tells me everyday that he loves me. Problem is that when he gets upset he calls me names,gets very loud with me and has even ...
A. 22 November 2009: Run girl Run!!! This is what every abused woman says. Get away from this animal. You don,t need him. Someone better is waitng in the wings who will love and treat you with RESPECT. RUN,RUN,RUN.... (read in full...)
Will he 'fit' when we have sex tomorrow?
Q. I really need help . I am 18 and i going to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 years tomorrow and i am worried that my vagina is to small for his penis.like stretching wise and i was wondering how can i make it fit if it doesnt? and some advice f...
A. 22 November 2009: Don,t worry be happy. Once you are excited (lubricated), any size penis will fit. I promise you. just relax and have fun.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't achieve orgasm through penetration
Q. From the 1st time my partner met we hit it off and from the 1st time we had sex we just knew we were made for each other but the 1st few times I spotted that he can't come from penetration and I'd have to wank him off or give him a blow job for him ...
A. 22 November 2009: The solution to this is very simple. GO DOGGY STYLE i.e. rear end penetration.this way, he has 3 parts to play with...your behind, breasts and your clit.
He can start with other positions and end up doggystyle. I guarantee you, he will explode insi... (read in full...)
My cousin wants to have sex again! What should I do?
Q. I whent to see my cousain yesterday me and her realy like each other and we've had sex before safe sex ofcouse but she won'ts us to have it again and I don't no what to say should I or should I not plzz help me ...
A. 19 October 2009: Cousins sleeping with each other is dead wrong. You both have no business having sex (13 &15)? You are too young. There is plenty of time. Focus on other things...education,sports, making friend,attending socials, movies etc....... (read in full...)
Could I have lost my virginity whilst dry humping?
Q. ok so i'm a virgin but i'm just wondering... me n my ex were dry humping and i was wearing really thin pj pants and his pants were undone so it was just his boxers.... well it felt really good but i could kinda feel this pressure/ pain like he had ...
A. 14 October 2009: You are still a virgin my dear. I don't think humping can disvirgin you. Keep humping till you are ready, but be careful of bruises from rubbing skin. Also, when you arwe ready to have sex, insist on him using condom. Protect yourself. Goodluck!... (read in full...)
Why am I attracted ONLY to older MEN?
Q. Hi there, The thing is I'm not coming here for professional advise, but for some educated opinions, and maybe a parallel to one's own experience (if there are any). I did seek some help on this issue when I was an undergrad and my school therapist...
A. 9 October 2009: Nothing wrong with dating older men, but make sure the difference is no more than 10 years and he is not married or in a relationship. Goodluck!... (read in full...)
Dating my stepbrother and keeping it a secret from our parents
Q. Is it ok for me to date my stepbrother? My mom and step dad have known each other for a while now and got married last year. I have known my step brother for almost ten years now but I have never considered him as a brother. We have lived together ...
A. 26 September 2009: I would advise you both look elswhere for love, sex etc. You both know this is inappropriate and that is why you are keeping it a secret. Goodluck!... (read in full...)
Married People: How often do you have sex and how often would you like to have sex if possible?
Q. A few friends and I were chatting the other day about our sex lives. For the most part, we feel they are ok....maybe a little more time for sex would be nice and a little more foreplay, but overall, not bad. Our husbands, however, feel th...
A. 12 August 2009: Sex gets so boring after a while. I prefer love, romance, and once a week sex.... (read in full...)
My husband is too shy in the bedroom!
Q. My husband is a little shy in some ways in the bedroom. I know what i want and i have talked to him about having a desire to fulfill his fantasies as well as he fulfill mine, but he seems to intimidated, and doesn't. Sex is really good, but its ...
A. 31 July 2009: Slow down a little bit woman. You are probably too aggressive for him.May be then he will come around. Goodluck... (read in full...)
She doesn't want sex!
Q. I am a 30yo male with a 30yo girlfriend. We have been together for 3 years lived together for 2 one of which was overseas, we have returned recently. My problem is she has been saying she doesn’t want sex, she has had this stance for 18months...
A. 30 July 2009: You constant demand for SEX turned her off. Focus more on the other parts of the relationship. She may come around then. Are that incomplete without sex? Wake up man. There is more to life or in a relationship than Sex. Good luck... (read in full...)
Am I just not attracted to him anymore?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two years, and I love him. I have a lot of fun with him and he's my best friend. But I think I'm no longer attracted to him. He is good looking, but I have no drive to do anything with him, even kissing. He has always ...
A. 30 July 2009: I an experiencing same with my gf at the moment. My feeling is you are no longer interested in him romantically. However, you can continue to be just friends if he so wishes.If not, move on!... (read in full...)
Do men think about their female friends when they masterbate?
Q. I have this male friend who used to be a lover. Now we just hang out and occasionally kiss or touch each other. I pretty sure he used to masturbate thinking about me but it makes me curious if he still does. And I'm just curious in general if guys ...
A. 29 July 2009: Yes guys do this always. Sorry!... (read in full...)
He is a lot 'bigger' than anyone I've slept with before and it really hurts! What do we do?
Q. Hey guys. Here is my problem. I am in a wonderful relationship with a great guy. We have been together a few months and we are both madly in love with each other. We have decided to move our relationship on and sleep together. We have both had ...
A. 24 July 2009: You both need lots of lubrication. Apply it on his penis and your vagina at the same time time. Enjoy it! A lot of women are looking for big ones like your bf.... (read in full...)
His performance in bed is so disappointing I'm not sure I want to see him again! Should I tell him?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a very short time, He invited me to his place for a meal the other night. After a few glasses of wine, we ended up in bed. I was very dissapointed in his performance, to say the least. He was too rough, and didnt bother...
A. 23 July 2009: Communication! Communication!! Communication!!! That is the secret. Tell the oldman to wake up and get busy by communicating what you like and want him to do to you. If not, kick him to the curb!... (read in full...)
When does it become just sex?
Q. Hi Just want to know what you people out there think of Love, do you think you can make love with someone yet not be in love with them,if not does it only then become just sex?? And if you have broken up with someone countless times and they s...
A. 15 July 2009: Men can have sex with women without being attached. On the other hand, Women are more emotional especiaaly when it comes to sex.Men see sex AS JUST GETTING OFF OR JUST HAVING FUN. iF A MAN TRULY CARES YOU'LL KNOW. ... (read in full...)
He's with another girl, how can I beat her and win his heart?
Q. He is with another girl and I'm in love with him. How can I beat her and get his heart?...
A. 15 July 2009: Dump him and move on! If he loves you and want to be with you, he will not be with another girl.You do not need him.Find your own man that will love you for you and be there for you.Good luck!... (read in full...)
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