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He's with another girl, how can I beat her and win his heart?

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Question - (12 July 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2009)
A female Jordan age 30-35, anonymous writes:

He is with another girl and I'm in love with him. How can I beat her and get his heart?

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A male reader, Kenneth United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

Dump him and move on! If he loves you and want to be with you, he will not be with another girl.You do not need him.Find your own man that will love you for you and be there for you.Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009):

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thanks all 4 ur answers I'll try to do some of these thing ... I don't know but I was in love with another guy but I 4get about him when I meet this guy he is amazing ... I think he is not in love with his girl coz he is cheating on her but he always tell me that he is going to leave her after 2 months coz she is going to another country ... and another thing she is a liar and he is younger than her ... I don't know but they have some problem with her family, he is talking 2 her now because of that ... but he talk 2 me every day more than 3 or 4 hours and he go out with me a lot and he is not going out with her at this time ... she called me 1 time and said that he wanna leave her coz he likes me ... I don't know :'(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

I too know how you feel... get your hair cut, buy or beg some new clothes and renew your attitude. Take control back. If you look needy he will not be interested. Try following a dream that you always wanted to do, something you want to achieve for you, not him. He will notice the new you... but maybe as your confidence grows you will move on. Good luck and keep smiling!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

Come on,

Please think for others, life is not all about getting what you want. If a guy is with someone then obviously he wants to be with them. You can't make a person like you. All I can say is don't get too involved with him at the moment, if he stays with this girl then,move on. But, if he ends up breaking up with her then offer some comfort but don't move on to him. These things take time and patience.

In the meantime there's plenty more fish in the sea.

Good Luck, Don't ruin your chances by getting involved!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

Most people will say "no dont!" etc

But here honey :)

-Get yourself looking your absoulute best

-Act flirty but casual

-Make HER look bad

-Make him SLIGHTLY jealous (too much is NOT good)

-My fave Spread a rumour shes cheating on him

Good Luck! Get ur Man! Let me no hw it goes

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A female reader, lolo89 United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2009):

lolo89 agony auntsadly you can't, tell him how you feel privatley, back off and give him space and hope he feels the same and comes to you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009):

i am in the same position i think the best thing to do is try and show him what he is missing out, try and make him jealous by flirting with his friends, try getting close with his girlfriend and find out the things he likes and try doing them (eg. talking about footall) xx

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