How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 5 April 2014: Yep, It's a tough one. The toughest. We're doing pretty well now, better, still together . . .... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 28 June 2010: Yos, thank you. I know you are correct about the choice, and your terms make sense. I won't analyze them, but I do have a question regarding what is not contained in them, what is outside of them, and the question, at least to my mind, is a question ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 24 June 2010: So, I considered starting a new post because my views and questions have changed so much since this original one, but so not to litter up DC with too much of my queries, I'll just stick to this one and see if anyone has any additional thoughts. I ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 23 June 2010: This has nothing to do with how we choose to conduct our present sex lives. It has everything to do with me feeling like there is a gap of understanding between my wife and I; that part of her is to me, completely other, unknown, undesirable. Your ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 22 June 2010: I don't feel that I'm sacrificing my ideals, but I do feel like she has sacrificed hers. What I feel I am sacrificing is the peace of mind during sex (as well as not during it) that I used to feel with my partners when I knew that what we were doing ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 21 June 2010: Dear anon (the last one), Yes, I know it is only up to me to decide, and like you would I feel very let down and disappointed for two reasons - that she did it and then that she lied about it to protect her interest. During the last few months,... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 10 June 2010: Thank you Miamine, thank you Tisha.... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Tisha,
I am reading Yos' postings now. Thank you for your help.... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 9 June 2010: She does not have a personality disorder, and she is working through this with me. I still take the majority of the blame for this. Some of what R&B has speculated does not fit at all, but a lot of it does. Gottman's four Horsemen is also hugely ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: It means to listen. To not get mad. To pay attention to. To care. To be involved with. To understand. Taking a moment to recognize that my feelings matter. Taking several moments to do that. Maybe even going out of the way to show that she doesn't ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: R&B,
Thanks for the tips about psychologists. We had gone to see a graduate student about this, but she ended up dealing more with our larger patterns of misunderstanding one another in social situations (which was on my wife's mind more than min... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: Just to clarify my position R&B, I don't appeal to God or Country in order to feel very relieved by your words, but I do to Family. I just wanted you to know that. :)... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: Rhythm, You also said:
"You married your wife because of your strong sexual attraction to her, you discounted the less desirable aspects of her character and decided she ticked all the boxes and you married her. As long as she has been able to grow... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 8 June 2010: Miamine,
Don't feel like you have to do me any favors. It's alright to just say what you mean.
Ryhtemandblues2,
I don't know how to thank you enough; your words are especially valuable to me because you are a woman. In a lot of ways you are ... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 7 June 2010: Nope, then in my book, you are not an abuser. The label doesn't work.... (read in full...)
I'm referred to as the "place holder" until the ex wants my bf back! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. My best friend is my ex, and his best friend is his ex. Things between me and my ex are completely over, and there is nothing but friendship there. I thought the same thing for my boyfriend and his ...
A. 6 June 2010: Keep your eye on that boy. Well done!!... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 6 June 2010: Anon said:
"Silly man. You think you have the right to know who you are marrying! This is 2010. You don't have the right to protect yourself from the emotional or physical damage her sexual past may bring your marriage. Not when it might cause a ... (read in full...)
What was a condom doing in my boyfriend's wallet?
Q. I was snooping through my boyfriend of 2 years wallet (yes I know that's wrong but I was looking gore a business card he has) and I saw a condom in there. this kind of bothers me because its the kind of ...
A. 6 June 2010: Since he's still going out without you, I would be suspicious for sure. It could be innocent, but it may not be. I'd confront him directly.... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: Celia and Miamine,
It is very true that there are a lot of people who don't quite understand gender on this site, those who can't see that if the gender roles were reversed, they would behave and judge differently. If you ask me, they should b... (read in full...)
Prostitute girlfriend!
Q. Hi, I first met my west african 'girlfriend' in a lap dancing club last year (2009). Chatted a lot before anything and have to say I respected her honesty. That was that and 2010 I returned to the same club and guess what! she was there... I had a...
A. 6 June 2010: It sounds like you are having trouble with the way she was when you got with her, and now still is (sex work). But that doesn't sounds like what you are asking about here. Who knows why she is testing you constantly. Maybe if you try and really get ... (read in full...)
Depressed in case I lose my friends...
Q. I feel as if all my friends are moving on and getting there own lives. I'm 19 and still at college and all my friends have jobs. they all have found a boyfriend and are settled down. im single and feel im losing everything, i feel depressed about ...
A. 6 June 2010: A lot of those people who marry so young will be unhappy. Don't rush into things. Get out there and date, but don't feel like you have to join the married club too soon - this is a destructive myth. Go live life for awhile. ... (read in full...)
My wife's sexual past has made me lose respect for her.
Q. cant seem to stop thinking about my wifes past past sexual history.In1972I met my wife New Years Eve in an Old Boys Rugby Club we kissed the new year in although she told she had kissed 80 others that night.To cut a long story short that evening I ...
A. 6 June 2010: 5 total? You realize that's really not many at all to most people right? Is it the number that bothers you or a particular circumstance? ... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 6 June 2010: He was scaring you and didn't back off. That's not good. He may be abusive, but it's hard to tell from this. Slapping him was a bit of abuse from you, but you were also being provoked, and we scared. If he or you repeats this behavior a lot, get ... (read in full...)
How would you react if you were in this girl's position?
Q. To cut a long story short, I fell in love with my best friend, I'm male, she's female, we're both 26. She has suffered from low self esteem and depression for some time now and has major problems with her appearance (all in her head as she's re...
A. 6 June 2010: I don't know what I'd do in her position. I think your question is geared toward discovering what she really feels for you, but nobody on here can do that for you. Talk to her, and ask her where she wants to take things. If you want to be with her, ... (read in full...)
I saw pictures of my girlfriend giving her ex a blowjob!!!
Q. Okay I just need to get this off my chest as im cracking up with it! To anyone who'll listen I need to get some advice about this. I'm 25 by the way. Around a month ago I found my girlfriends old mobile phone, I asked her if I could use it as ...
A. 6 June 2010: Just look at it like this: she did those things regardless of whether you saw them or not. You "saw" them. It's not like you uncovered pictures of her screwing a stranger, or a bunch of guys, or something like that, that would be worse, right? All ... (read in full...)
Am I just afraid... and is my fear justified?
Q. Guys, I really need some independent advice. I broke up with my only long-term boyfriend two years ago. Since then, we had a lot of back together - breaking up (with me doing the breaking), then a year ago I went to travel the world. While ...
A. 6 June 2010: There is always the potential that you're giving up your shot. But there are a lot of shots to be had. Based on your wanderlust, and your ability to get attention (as has been seen on this post itself) I'd say to leave this guy in the past the best ... (read in full...)
Why do most men like big boobs so much?
Q. Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis ...
A. 6 June 2010: Big boobs have never done it for me. Not all guys care about them.... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 6 June 2010: Gabrielle,
You may, if you still feel you would like to.
Miamine,
My wife was rejected by a couple of men in her life, one in particular, that she claims sort of set off this behavior, so you are again insightful. She says that she was so... (read in full...)
I'm referred to as the "place holder" until the ex wants my bf back! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. My best friend is my ex, and his best friend is his ex. Things between me and my ex are completely over, and there is nothing but friendship there. I thought the same thing for my boyfriend and his ...
A. 6 June 2010: Good for you! You have the right to know if he is being honest!... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 4 June 2010: And Anon is brilliant, allow me to quote:
"Silly man. You think you have the right to know who you are marrying!
This is 2010. You don't have the right to protect yourself from the emotional or physical damage her sexual past may bring your m... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 4 June 2010: No. It is not asking too much. What they're saying is all sarcasm and presumption. If you want to know, know. Two people should be able to look each other in the eyes and tell the truth. ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 4 June 2010: Star888
appreciated. peace. (!)... (read in full...)
My past is affecting my thoughts about my future... please help!
Q. Hello, I am a shy person. I rarely go outside because I get nervous around other people. I have been diagnosed with avoidant personality, and borderline as well as an eating disorder. I am a virgin sort of. When I was a child my older fost...
A. 4 June 2010: All of your sexual energy is being mixed and confused with your past. It's hard to tell for you (maybe) if you can tell the difference between whether you want a strong man to make love to you for reasons that are OK, or if you want a strong man to ... (read in full...)
I'm referred to as the "place holder" until the ex wants my bf back! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. My best friend is my ex, and his best friend is his ex. Things between me and my ex are completely over, and there is nothing but friendship there. I thought the same thing for my boyfriend and his ...
A. 4 June 2010: Use every trick you can think of to get him to admit to you that you are a place holder. If he doesn't get real with you, leave him, but before you go, tell him you don't want to be a placeholder. Personally, I find that to be more than offensive. ... (read in full...)
He wants to be a swinger, I don't. Will he respect that?
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and there is talk about marriage. He plans to propose by the end of the year. But there is one concern I have... often ... every time he drinks he brings up to me how much he would love to swing, have sex with a ...
A. 4 June 2010: Hard to say what that means, but one thing is clear to me - when someone is telling you that they want to *** other people and simultaneously asking you to marry them - this should throw up every red flag in your brain. Every. One. Be careful. ... (read in full...)
Is it true that if a woman confides in you as a friend for a long time, your chances with her romantically are shot?
Q. Is it true that if a woman confides in you as a friend for a long time, your chances with her romantically are shot? That's what some guys told me. I've never really believed in silly rules like that though. A friend and I were interested in each ...
A. 4 June 2010: I think the guys who told you that are imbeciles. The reason being intimate with a friend probably doesn't work for them is more than likely because they can't deal with strong emotional attachment coupled with sex. I've done what you describe, it ... (read in full...)
I know what we did was wrong, but I cannot control who I love.
Q. I'm hurting so bad, i dont know what to do!!!! I'm married with twins, but my marriage is a disaster and have wanted to get out but just dont know how to go about it. We've been married for 15 years but he has let me down big time. He has bo...
A. 4 June 2010: You can control who you love. You can.... (read in full...)
Should I tell or keep my mouth shut???
Q. I'm stuck and i just dont know what to do... i have two options and both seem to be the right thing to do... Basically i had my final uni exams last week, well in the last exam (which was the hardest) on friday some girls from my class decided to...
A. 4 June 2010: Tell. Proving it is not the only reason to tell. People go through school like this; you need to tell the teacher so they can tell their colleagues, and watch these folks closer.... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 4 June 2010: Microphone check. Just testing to see if anyone has anything else to add. I appreciated your responses so much - If not, thank you. ... (read in full...)
How do I open his mind and heart so I can be more confident in our relationship?
Q. hello, I have a problem with my boyfriend, he is not clear with me, if I ask him about something he never answers with a clear and obvious way, so everything is confusing to me, even when he says that he loves me, I can't help but thinking that he ...
A. 3 June 2010: You need to be much more specific. No one can help you if you aren't more specific about what you are asking, and how he answers. You are very unclear. Try again. ... (read in full...)
I'm almost ready to end my marriage, what should I do?
Q. 3 years ago i cought my wife cheating. i forgave her and took her back. however she continues to lie to me about everyday things. and the biggest thing of all is she wont open up and behonest and share her thoughts and feelings with me. and i feel ...
A. 2 June 2010: I second both of the other poster's. An ultimatum is the way. You have done something with forgiveness that I find amazing, and for it, if it is as you say, I think you are amazing. It's your wife's turn to be amazing with you, emotionally. If she ... (read in full...)
Which of the two do men remember more - their first love or their first sexual encounter?
Q. Which one of the two do men remember more? Their first love or the person they had sex for the first time? ...
A. 2 June 2010: First love, though, as has been said, we remember both. But for me, the first love is far more important in reflection and memory. The first sexual encounter was great, but it is flat in comparison to my first loves. The first loves I had were so ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 2 June 2010: I realized after reading my last post that it would help people to understand what I mean by "trashy," which seems more and more to me what this is all about in some Fed up way.
Trashy = being with men (and women) whose sole interest in you is to h... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 2 June 2010: I'm still completely bogged down with work responsibilities, but really want to get back to this, if even in a short way. This evening, I am free to actually respond in full, and I am looking forward to it. These are going to be quick responses - ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 1 June 2010: I've got work day from hell right now, but I'm really honored that people are responding - it makes me feel quite honored to have your ears, even if just for a moment. I will respond back to each of you asap. Thank you so much, all of you.... (read in full...)
Is he keen or just luke warm...?
Q. I have two children with a guy i was with for 8 years we broke up in january. 3 months later a friend of mine hooked me and his friend up we started dating and have been together for about 2 months. he doesnt lie to me or hide anything but he never ...
A. 1 June 2010: Being needy is OK sometimes. Can you talk to him about this? Personally, I'd feel offended if he didn't get back to me repeatedly like that. Do you feel offended?... (read in full...)
I suffer from an anxiety disorder -- how can I help my b/f understand?
Q. I really need some advice....I'll listen to anything at this point. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two months. I suffer from social anxiety disorder, its hard to deal with because I think very negatively and always feel like ...
A. 1 June 2010: Tell him. It's a good test. An anxiety disorder is not an STD. You didn't choose it. You deserve to be respected, that includes your anxiety. In my opinion anxiety has advantages. Believe that you are valuable, and that part of that valuable is ... (read in full...)
Doesn't get into a relationship, doesn't let go.
Q. I like this woman and we have been very good friends for a few years. About six months back I asked her if we could get into a relationship as I was serious about her. She told me that she wanted some time to think about it. We continue to be good ...
A. 1 June 2010: Sharing the power is hard!... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 1 June 2010: YouWish,
I don't believe in unconditional love. All love has conditions. I see through your response that you envision me as a self loving puritan. I don't. I can answer yes to all of your questions and still feel relatively fine while admittin... (read in full...)
Do I deserve this treatment? Am I the bad guy?
Q. Do I deserve this treatment? Am I the bad guy? (be prepared to read)? First off let me give you a jest of what him and I We’ve been together for a year and a half, we’ve known each other for about 4 years or so, we lived together for 4 months at ...
A. 1 June 2010: Based on what you wrote here, no one can tell you if you are a bad person. But when two people fight about stupid stuff like video games and shoes there is usually a underlying reason. I'd start thinking about that, looking for it, trying to ... (read in full...)
My husband is wearing me down soooo much... help!
Q. See I've been married two years and my husband tells me I'm a dog that should be put down, or I should drown in a tub, awful wife. We fight a lot and maybe that's my fault but I wouldn't fight with him if he wouldn't back me in a corner. How so he ...
A. 1 June 2010: Get a counselor for sure. If he doesn't like it, get a restraining order. It doesn't sound like you two communicate well, but if you do, and if you think it's even worth it, talk to him about your feelings. If he doesn't respect and listen to your ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 1 June 2010: Starmonster888, "Your respect and affection for her and her integrity is contributing to your dilemma because you can't understand why she abused it" Do you think I should *want* to understand it? That's some insightful sh**. Outside p... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 1 June 2010: Starmonster888,
I real appreciate the initial response *and the boiled down version a lot. When you say substance, do you mean emotional or sexual, or both? What's your take? Can you have both at the same time? Is monkey face kinky sex possible... (read in full...)
I take a beating from him because I love him, but I cant cope anymore with his accusations
Q. I've been with my bf for a year and half..I saw him working one day and decided to talk to him and we exchanged numbers..in the beginning this were great.. 2 months into it he heard stuff from people that was not true..and started calling me a hoe ...
A. 31 May 2010: There is someone better for you; leave.... (read in full...)
Doesn't get into a relationship, doesn't let go.
Q. I like this woman and we have been very good friends for a few years. About six months back I asked her if we could get into a relationship as I was serious about her. She told me that she wanted some time to think about it. We continue to be good ...
A. 31 May 2010: Heartless indeed! But I see the power play thing here - she wouldn't let him go when he decided to leave - why not? Does she really like you? I'd force her into that position again, and try to remind her often that the power is yours (you WILL ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 31 May 2010: Gabrielle,
Thanks so much. I know she doesn't want to repeat it; I trust that. For a smart man, that might be enough, but I am irrationally compelled to understand it, like (absorb?) it in a mental capacity, and answers like yours (and hers, of c... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 31 May 2010: I would still love to hear other responses too!... (read in full...)
Cheated..and relized how much I loved my boyfreind
Q. I've had this problem for about a year but i almost went all the way by cheating on my boyfreind .we got into this huge fight and end up leaving last nite had a man freind come get me down the street my mind was to cheat on him because i have ...
A. 31 May 2010: Yep, a blow is a cheat in my book as well. I don't believe that sex is not important in a relationship though; rather, I think it is primary. If you're unsatisfied, you'll have to change things; if you really love your husband, you'll also tell him ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 31 May 2010: Thank you anonymous. I think I've just spent so much time feeling like a failure when it comes to this that I have sort of adopted the role. In a world where nearly everyone just resorts to some tired cliche (let sleeping dogs lie, the past is the ... (read in full...)
Doesn't get into a relationship, doesn't let go.
Q. I like this woman and we have been very good friends for a few years. About six months back I asked her if we could get into a relationship as I was serious about her. She told me that she wanted some time to think about it. We continue to be good ...
A. 30 May 2010: I fully agree with Casey. If you want her, use your full hand of cards; that is, tell her you want an answer or you're going to start pursuing others. Don't hang in there too long for her; I've made this mistake before -- infatuation, love etc - ... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 30 May 2010: Dear Truth,
I suspect that you'll be surprised to find that my wife did not cheat on me; she had this experience about 1 year before we were together. I'm a pretty insecure guy, at least in the psycho-sexual way, and I have had a tough time for... (read in full...)
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