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He says that sex with me is rubbish

Q.   ive only slept with one guy my boyfriend and he has always said how good the sex is really good but then he just says its got rubbish and used to be good but ive got big (if u get what i mean) but then he will come back to me still and want to have ...

A.   22 May 2006: you should leave him, how dare he say that to you, your worth more girl and make him see that.... (read in full...)

I'll keep this simple...

Q.   what does it mean when your boyfriend is using dating web pages without telling you?...

A.   22 May 2006: hes looking at other options, hes not a trust worthy person, just ask him straight WHATS GOING ON! gd luck chicken... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to break up with my girl because her hair is falling out!?

Q.   Hi, I'm Tom. I've been going out with my girlfriend Anna for almost two months now. Everything was great until a few weeks ago when Anna decided to dye her hair red. Because she has very dark hair, she needed to bleach it first. She's always had ...

A.   22 May 2006: i dont think you shouldnt end it just cos shes balding its a tad outa order, shes going to get the impression that you were only with her for her looks and not for the person she is. if her self confidence is already low your just going to make it 1... (read in full...)

For the males... Being a dad, a privelage or problem??

Q.   hello i just wanted a mans opinion, if a man decides to have nothing to do with you if they get you pregnant do they ever think about there child at all or do they have no feelings towards it at all...

A.   22 May 2006: i am hiding nothing.i am in this situation and i just wanted a mans view.is it easy to forget about a child you have.... (read in full...)

Back with my ex but he still sees another girl, help!

Q.   i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and 2months,we recently broke up for 2 months and hes with somebody else, were back in touch and its great were sleeping together again and he keeps telling me hes going to break up with his new girlfriend to be ...

A.   22 May 2006: your not over your ex but you cant let him treat you this way and you shouldnt be sleeping with him if hes still with someone else i mean do you wana catch an STD, do u like being used, your worth more than that and make sure he knows it. ask him ... (read in full...)

Do others feel the same pain on the anniversaries of painful events?

Q.   It was year ago today that I broke up with my longtime partner and things are getting better and better. For some reason, though the week leading up to the breakup day and the day itself have been hellish. I feel as raw and upset as I did on the day ...

A.   22 May 2006: it seems like your not complety over this guy, it is hard when you have been with someone for so long, certain songs and even tv programmes reminde you of past partners but there will come a time when you wont feel like this and the thought of your ... (read in full...)

I'm 20 and I don't think my boyfriend knows I'm a virin...

Q.   What do I do? My boyfriend of 2 1/2 months is very keen on me. I do like him a lot but I don't believe that I love him or anything. I have known him for 2 years. He doesn't know that I have never had a boyfriend before and I reckon just assumes I h...

A.   22 May 2006: if he really cares about you it wont matter you havnt had sex before , in fact he might think its a good thing as he will be your 1st and it will be specail for you both. just tell him hun honestly it will be fine... (read in full...)

I find sexual activities disgusting! How do people bare it?

Q.   i have a question that is really confusing me. why would anyone want to finger someone? or have oral sex. it is discusting. tell me why people want to do this. how can they bear fingering someone?!?...

A.   22 May 2006: if you love someone you want to do everything possible to please them and make them happy, and its a close act between to people that show there love for each other. if u find someone u truely love you'll want to be that close to them. x x... (read in full...)

She made his life but still the jealously and fear wont go away!!!

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, he broke up with his ex at the beginning of the year and they have a daughter together. She moved up north with the little girl and he goes up and sees her about twice a week. When we first starting dating ...

A.   22 May 2006: just talk to him and tell him how your feeling and im sure if he loves you as much as you say he wil respect what you say and will do al he can to make you see you can trust him and theres nothing to worry about.if u love him hun stick by him and ... (read in full...)

Guys and makeup...

Q.   i am 15. i dont where make up. why do guys always go for the girls that wear make up?!? it isnt what they really look like, they are painting a different face on themselves basically. why do boys like that, or do they??...

A.   22 May 2006: boys dont like girls that were make up,wearing a little bit to cover a spot or something is ok but painting it on looks stupid and no guy likes to be with one girl and wake up in the morning with someone that looks totally different.go for your ... (read in full...)

My relationship is fading... what can I do?

Q.   i'm 13 and me and my boyfriend have started to become more distant, i haven't seen him for a long time, what could i do to help the relationship. (by the way i'm a bisexual guy)...

A.   22 May 2006: you both need to sit down and have a long talk about where you both are at the moment, you are still very young and lots of feeling are going through you maybe you've just grown apart. i can tell you still really like him but if hes not in that ... (read in full...)

Can you get an STD from fingering?

Q.   my boyfriend fingered me last night. Could i get an STD?...

A.   22 May 2006: no u cant get an STD from fingering his sperm needs to go inside you to get an STD hun! stop worring and have fun and if u do have sex with hin be safe! x x... (read in full...)

Is my ex only interested again because I have someone new in my life?

Q.   I have split from my bf nearly a month and a half ago and things are starting to get a tad better. A few Saturdays ago I went out to party and met this really nice guy. I had a great time and he came back to my mate's. We shared a sleeping bag and ...

A.   22 May 2006: just leave him to get on with it,hes only interested cos uve got sum1 else then NO dont meet up with him again hes a waste of space,he dosnt want u but he dosnt want anyone else to have you thats all it is trust him, get on with your new life with ... (read in full...)

Always ending relationships quickly.. can i stop this?

Q.   I've always been really bad at relationships, never having one for longer than a week because once i've got them i'm no longer attracted to them, and i give them the cold shoulder until they dump me. Then i met this guy and we fell in love and ...

A.   22 May 2006: it sounds as if your scared of commitment and getting hurt so just take things slow with this guy,and see how it turns out, really make the effort with him and you might end up liking what you get back. i used to be like this and when i met a guy ... (read in full...)

is it ok to flirt with other guys?

Q.   I have a bf you see but sometimes i catch myself flirting with guys alot. is it ok to flirt? I mean i know i would be ticked off if he did the same but still its so hard sometimes!...

A.   22 May 2006: to be honest i think it depends how serious your realtionship is with your boyfriend, if u truely loved him you wouldnt catch yourself looking at another guy but everyone flirts and its not really that bad just as long as it dosnt go further than ... (read in full...)

Every problem we have he makes my fault!

Q.   I have been with my bf for quite a while now and every problem that seems to arise he always puts it out on me! for example i asked him to not ever do drugs around me because it hurts me to see him do it and he promised that he would never. well ...

A.   22 May 2006: look if hes your boyfriend he should start acting like it, tell him to respect your wishs and do his drugs else where or better yet hun tel him not to do them at all and if he dont respect what your saying tell him its over, it will break your heart ... (read in full...)

how do i trust him again after he cheated on me?

Q.   how should i go about re learning to trust my boyfriend of 2 years after he cheated on me, he apoligised and we are back together but i still get nervous when ever he goes anywhere and just want to be able to believe him and trust him and not feel ...

A.   22 May 2006: this sounds alot like what happened with me and my boyfriend, i was with him for 1 n a half year and things were going great and i loved him so much and he cheated on me and he didnt do it again but i just let that take over me and ruin the ... (read in full...)

My ex wants me back but i'm with someone new, should i take him back?

Q.   My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me 3 months ago. I was quite upset as we had been through a lot together and the reasons I was given were not things that could be changed in any way. I decided though, that I would not waste too much tim...

A.   22 May 2006: i think if u really love your ex that much give it ago, i mean other wise you will spend the rest of your life wondering what could of happended, but if u go back to him play it abit cool to start off dont jump straight back in to his arms, make ... (read in full...)

Is it ment to be? or am i just setting myself up to get hurt?

Q.   I was in prison for 4 years and had a pen-pal that was also in prison, we lost contact about halfway through my time. We both went to a transitional center (a place you get a job and re-enter society) I got out before he did and kept the job I had ...

A.   22 May 2006: no i think this sounds like love n if hes still got all your pics and letters it shows he loves u as much as u love him as well, u both care about eachova y sit and worry about the future have fun and make it last now! gd luck i wish u both all... (read in full...)

I miss this girl in school, should I ask her out?

Q.   Please help me! im 16 and im desperate to see this girl who is a year younger than me who was my best friend because i haven't seen her in 3 months and i personally don't know why. I want to see her because i really do miss her and i deeply care for ...

A.   21 May 2006: i think you should just go for it if you really feel that much for this girl, your young and really what have you got to lose, if she is really your best friend she will still be their for you either way, as a partner or just friend still. and as ... (read in full...)

We cheated on our partners, then I told him we should stop. Now I want to contact him again!

Q.   I've known this guy for 3 years and we have been having an affair on and off. Our partners found out but we still spoke on the phone and texted each other for a few months after that and then I said I couldn't do it any more. The thing is I miss ...

A.   15 May 2006: if your really in love with this man you should end it with your current partner and give it ago with this other man, your obv are mad about him why stick with 2nd best with your current partner and let the love of your life just walk away easily.go ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend tries to make me jealous, can this be bad for the relationship?

Q.   my girlfriend always try's to make me jealous. is that bad for our relationship? she makes up stuff but i know she's lying is that good or bad what she's doing...

A.   15 May 2006: it isnt good for your relationship if you love your girlfriend there should be a strong sense of trust between you both and you should be really close but if shes making up things to make you jelous maybe shes crying out for a bit of attention from ... (read in full...)

I found a topless picture of my girlfriend in a cache on my pc, is she cheating?

Q.   My girlfriend asked me to change my display picture on msn tonight. I was going through pictures to choose from and was looking in what was a cache of display pictures other friends have used and I know she doesn't know computers can do that. I ...

A.   15 May 2006: i think you should confront her and see what she has to say, if your still not satisfied then do a bit of reserch yourself and go on her msn and talk to the people on their and ask them, it does seem a bit odd but there could be a simple ... (read in full...)

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