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writes: my girlfriend always try's to make me jealous. is that bad for our relationship? she makes up stuff but i know she's lying is that good or bad what she's doing
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (15 May 2006):
 I think you Gf does have some issues that need addressing, whether or not you can help her work thru them is another matter. If they carry on as is, you will end up getting stuck in a rut and walk away from the stress - which it sounds like she is actually trying to force you to do.
You see, if she has trust issues, or low self esteem she may think 'All men are the same' and unconciously push you as far as she can in order to live out the slef fulfilling prophecy. You walked away therefore men cannot be trusted etc. She may be *testing* you and your love to see how far she can go.
Another reason may just be she is bored with her exsistence and thrives on conflict and lies as they *spice up life* a bit for her. Either way you need to know you find her behaviour is unacceptable. You need to confront her about it and tell her how you feel. Honesty is the best policy. If you are not honest with each other it will cause major problems in the long run.
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reader, joanna44 +, writes (15 May 2006):
 it isnt good for your relationship if you love your girlfriend there should be a strong sense of trust between you both and you should be really close but if shes making up things to make you jelous maybe shes crying out for a bit of attention from you, maybe she dosnt feel as loved as she did with you.make a big romatic gesture and make her feel really loved and wanted by you and see how she is then.there will be no making up storys then once shes remined the love you've both got is stil there and still strong.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Its bad but it could also point to her wanting more attention of you and maybe not feeling wanted enough. I would think carefully about how you treat her and try and do things that make her feel more wanted not just emotionally but sexually too.
Talk to her about it if things still dont change and see what the problem, also tell her if it is making you feel bad. I think its something that you definatly need to do something about. Hope that helps and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): my boyfriend does the same thing except i don't know when he's lying, it drives me insane. he says he does it because he wants to see how much i care about him but in turn it makes me care about him less. lying is never good in a relationship, if it's bothering you talk to her.
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