I really like this guy and just wanna know how to do the whole kissing process.
Q. Okay you guys so, me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and we haven't kissed or anything. So tommorrow is the last day of school and i really want to do it but idk like how to you know get him close enough to kiss him. And also I've never ...
A. 21 May 2009: Hey ok so there are a few ways you can get him close enough. First you can trick him. Tell him you want to tell him something secret like a whisper.
Second you simply be a little obvious. make sure there are few or no people near you. Then loo... (read in full...)
Who has it worse: the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating?
Q. Do you think that if you are the cheater and are full of remorse and regret for what you have done and love and adore your spouse dearly, could it possibly feel worse than being the one who has been cheated on? Before you ask, we were going through ...
A. 14 March 2009: What is your idea of cheating if not physically. And to answer your question, Yes i believe so. Dont let it get in your way... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is depressed and won't see anyone about it!
Q. what should i do to help my boyfriend i think he is depressed and he wont see a shrink he says he hates himself in everyway and one time he left a party early and walk home which was miles away because (and this is what he sed) everyone else was so ...
A. 14 March 2009: You need to talk to someone on his behalf. It will help in the long run. Plus he will than you in the long run... (read in full...)
Are people ever just joking about threesome offers like this?
Q. Do people really joke about threesome invitations? I don’t want to over react over nothing. Im sorry for how long the question is. I am 19. I am still a virgin mostly by choice. I have a long time close friend “bob” that has sort of a girlfr...
A. 14 March 2009: seen as the first reply didnt get through im going to try again.
It sound like you gave the right answer for you at the time. IF it comes up again then you can chose to give the same answer again. However i think that you should not worry un... (read in full...)
Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?
Q. hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for ...
A. 14 March 2009: You should not leave it like this. Contact him if it comes up talk about it tell him its not a problem. Believe me its better if he knows that its not a problem for you. I think there might be something between the two of you and its not a bad th... (read in full...)
I love him but he's got a g/f and I wouldn't want to break them up
Q. So theres this guy (lets call him fred) iv known fred for 3 years now, and we've only just got really close, and since december (tis now march) iv been having feelings for him, the strongest feelings iv ever felt, i thought id been in love once but ...
A. 13 March 2009: first you need to talk to him. Tell him how you feel about him and tell him the last thing you want is him to break up with his girl friend. Tell him your content with just being friends as longs as thats all he wants. Tell him unless he want y... (read in full...)
How am I going to know if the guy is gay or not?
Q. thanks everybody who have contributed in answering my questions. again even though i can not change the nature of bein a gay and a mascline guy, how do i know that those mascline guys that are bein attracted to me are gay or not? how do i a...
A. 13 March 2009: have you thought about internet dating... (read in full...)
My ex bf wants to be friends with me
Q. My ex bf wants to be friends with me. I dont know if its a good idea or not. I broke up with him because he was abusive. I still care for him alot, infact I still love him, but I dont know if I can be frineds with him. I dont feel I can trust him,...
A. 13 March 2009: i read the first 3 lines of your story before i made up my mind. You should not be friends as you are still in love with him. You need to clean break from this guy untill you are over him. That means you have stopped loving him. Second he abus... (read in full...)
How to make him feel more secure about sex life
Q. My boyfriend of almost 4 years proposed to me last Christmas and we have been planning the wedding which will be happening this summer. Everything has been great, but we are both Christian and well, I havent really expressed myself sexually. He is a ...
A. 12 March 2009: right first off im not christian so if i upset you then sorry thats why. I would imagine the no sex before married thing can be interpreted differently. Two ways i would think it could be interpreted.
1. No sexual intercourse everything else goe... (read in full...)
How to cope with breakup when living together?
Q. I am going through a very rough time dealing with a break up. I've been with this girl for 3 years. She is the love of my life. I could imagine being with her forever. There is something so special about her that I can't imagine finding in another ...
A. 12 March 2009: pack a bag get your passport and leave. Make sure everything is paid on the house for the next month. Leave the City at least if not the country. Not for good just 4 weeks. Leave her by her self. In that time do not contact her.
Tell her where yo... (read in full...)
Creative ideas for asking him out?
Q. I need some creative date ideas for asking someone out, sounds easy right? One problem, he works 12 hours a day, 7 days a week. I mean yes I admire the dedication and all but it makes stealing a couple hours of his time a little more difficult. I ...
A. 12 March 2009: Hey.
Right this really isn't going to work to well. Your first bet is to plan for the next bank holiday. Do something totally not work related and i would say try and get everything done in one date.
That way you can plan the next date as a s... (read in full...)
Can trust be prepared in a short time?
Q. My fiance has lied to me before. The first time, I went away out of town on business and she secretly met up with her Ex after midnight near her house. I was texting her throughout that night and wondering why she didn't reply. So when I came back ...
A. 12 March 2009: First you want to talk about trust?
Quote: "but when i looked in her inbox"
Whats that about, your going through her phone. Obviously it ain't just her that cant be trusted.
You can trust her as much as she can trust you. Why are you i... (read in full...)
Want her to want me more than just a friend
Q. i met my best friend 7 yrs ago when I was just 16 . The moment I saw her was all over her. Every day since we have hung out. We have went on several dates over the years that amount to nothing. I am totally in love with her and she know its. I don't ...
A. 12 March 2009: oh for f**k sake!
I have been in simmilar situations but this is blaintnly obvoius. Its simply and easy. You dont have partners you both date other people to try and get a reaction from the other.
She finds it a little difficult to get... (read in full...)
Sex is now getting boring
Q. My boyfriend and i do have good sex but its boring after 2 years together. Its like routine sex, most nights before bed, i want something exciting i want to have sex outside but my boyfriend doesn't want to and its really annoying me now because i ...
A. 12 March 2009: oh dear. I have been with my partner for lets see. 4 years and i know what you mean however. I think the problem is not doing new things but just that your stuck in a rut.
Its not exciting because you know its going to happen. From what you say ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I have the patience to show her how relationships work outside of the bedroom. What should I do?
Q. hey i am a bisexual female who currently has a gf . we have been dating on and off for almost a year now. i have cheated on her twice and i felt terrible about it , fortunately for me she took me back. i vowed to change my ways and i have no ...
A. 4 March 2009: reading this i feel that there is an obvious need that you dont get from same sex intercourse. If you were to have sex with a male then you would get something very different compaired to having sex with a female. What you may want to consider... (read in full...)
He was wet rubbing against me..could I get pregnant from this?
Q. Tonight me and my boyfriend were fooling around, he was fingering me and I was giving him a handjob. One thing led to another and both our underwear came off and our genitals were rubbing up against each others. He had ejaculated, and I was wet too. ...
A. 12 February 2009: even though i would say that it is unlikely you could still get pregnant from this. More so because he had already come. However if your lucky you might be ok. If i were you and i was worried i was going to get pregnant i would get the MAP (aka... (read in full...)
Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...
A. 12 February 2009: HA! If he were sick then he would be complaining twice as much. I see that your im USA well over here we have something called MAN FLU its basically when a man get a cold same thing as a girl he just complains more. but the bottom line here ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and do not want children. Do I abort it or put it up for adoption?
Q. My birthday was two days ago, and for my present I found out that I am pregnant. For many people this would be fabulous news! And I really do want children, however due to finances, we really cannot afford to have a baby just yet. We were using ...
A. 12 February 2009: You want to have children. However you prepared to kill this one because you don't think its the right time. Alright well maybe thats thr right choice. Im guessing you havn't done this before i mean had an abortion. What you want to consider is t... (read in full...)
Cheated on for the fourth time- what I am doing wrong?
Q. I'm single again for the first time in a long time and I'm not quite sure of myself. I've been in a grand total of 3 relationships and they've all ended badly. I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong here I mean I could swear that everytime I ...
A. 12 February 2009: hey. First off let me say im sorry for you. I understand how you must be feeling. The problem could be rather simple it could be a number of things but im inclined to think that you are going after the wrong kind of guy. Many times i have se... (read in full...)
My feelings for my best friend are ruining our friendship
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-mistook-loving-her-for-just.html This situation is somewhat similar to mine, except in my situation, I am in fact the girl who has fallen for the other, if that makes sense. When I read the reply, I nea...
A. 8 February 2009: When i read this i feel the pain that i know i will feel for as long as i have a relationship with my best friend. Sometimes there are people in this world that we can not have. We may be totally stupid and fall in love with them. What you d... (read in full...)
He likes me but I don't reciprocate, how can I avoid hurting him?
Q. This may sound a little trivial but i'd really appreciate some advice. okay here goes.... there is this guy on my bus who i've know forever.. recently he's been getting really clingy, i'm not interested in him in a romantic way but i'm pretty sure ...
A. 7 February 2009: To be honest. There is no way i can think of to avoid hurting this guy. You have to tell him your just good friends. The best way of doing this is saying you feel like his your brother. Explaining that your friendship is really good and reminds... (read in full...)
I have not yet experienced an orgasm, although I have tried. What should I do?
Q. Hello there, I am a seventeen year old male, and I have never consciously orgasmed. I've had several relationships (they were physical, though I remain a virgin), and have looked at porn on the internet for many years, but have never been broug...
A. 6 February 2009: to be honest at 17 it's really not that much of a problem. I would use it to your advantage. You say you have tried so im guessing your Hard when you do this. Can you get an erection? if so when you chance comes up have sex with this girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Am I making a fool out of myself and looking stupid?
Q. I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I recently met a friend of a friend who I am very attracted to. I am just out of a long relationship so I am a little out of practise at the dating game! The first time I met this guy was wh...
A. 27 January 2009: I think he does like you. But you have the advantage here, don't go to him flirt across the room if you have to but don't go over.
Leave it for him to make the next move. If he doesn't then act as though your not interested this can work very wel... (read in full...)
How do I get over my fear of losing him?
Q. This may seem like quite an ambiguous question but its been on my mind for a while now so I figured I would ask you guys for some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and a few months ago we almost broke up. Not for ...
A. 27 January 2009: Hey. Ok i understand totally why you feel like this but as it has already been said you should have a bit of faith. If you don't you cant enjoy the totality of your relationship. You may benefit from spending some time learning to be away from ... (read in full...)
My ex is acting strangely towards me and I think we need to talk. What should I say?
Q. After breaking up three weeks ago, I'm already sick of being the "ex". Me and my ex are at university together, and since we broke up things are completely different. I assumed things would change, but I can't understand why it seems to have ch...
A. 27 January 2009: hey. you dont need to talk to her about this. It looks like your the one who is still hung up on this girl. If it was mutual then let her go. You can expect to go from a relationship do friends in a day or even a week it takes weeks even months to ... (read in full...)
I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties.
Q. I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties. Is this ok because I think she suspects something?...
A. 27 January 2009: are you male if so are you cross dressing into cross dressing or do you have a identity crisis going on because there is something slightly wrong with this. It is something i have come across before so dont feel to bad but more details are need... (read in full...)
Jykle and Hyde caused by ADD/ADHD
Q. I need some opinions. I'm dating a man that has severe ADD/ADHD. He's a beautiful man inside and out. Here's the problem, he's going to be diagnosed next week with ADD/ADHD (How do we know he has it already?? we are both familiar with the signs as ...
A. 27 January 2009: I have Bipolar Disorder and i know people with both ADD and ADHD there is know way that i would try and convince you to leave him simply because my partner has not left me. Dealing with conditions like this is very difficult i would try medica... (read in full...)
After sex does he still want the same thing?
Q. so here's the thing... i've known this guy for about a year now, but we just started "talking" about 6 months ago. and ever since then we have only hungout about 5 times. it was nothing big, no intimate contact was involved just hanging out and ...
A. 27 January 2009: ok im not sure how old you are so dont know if your mature enough for this. However from what i can see you calling him and texting him every day your feelings are way deeper he's your first blar blar blar got ya. I understand how you feel don... (read in full...)
Can his problem be fixed or Is it his age?
Q. I am a 34 year old women and my boyfriend is 46.my boyfriend was real sexualy active and big.up til about 2yrs ago he has not been so active his penis has gotten small.when we do have sex his penis gets hard for a few minutes then goes limp.what can ...
A. 27 January 2009: If you hold you arm out in front of you with your parm facing in spread your fingers with you thum pointing up. Age wise the thum is 20 index finger 30 middle finger 40 and so on.
So naturally as guys get older this will happen. There are a fe... (read in full...)
Do I really want to be with her or am I just lonely?
Q. I need some advice. I started dating someone a while back and we had basically both just come out of long-term relationships. After awhile it was because clear she just wanted something casual, although I had wanted more of a relationship at first. ...
A. 27 January 2009: You cant ever be sure that you want a long term relationship untill you have been together long term. i think you need to leave it like you said for about a week maybe two before seeing her again. In this time do not sleep with anyone.
Quote... (read in full...)
Why did my GF stop while tossing me off to reply to her text message?!
Q. I was gettin tossed off by my girlfriend other week and about 10 seconds during, she got a text and stopped... Why? We could have perfectly carried on and got down to more.... Maybe she wants to reply to texts more than you know Haha. Anyway... why ...
A. 27 January 2009: The only time i ever stopped any sexual activity was when my phone whent off was when there was a another girl involved.
This could be the case but second if she didnt really want to toss you off then the text message got her out of it. Men can ... (read in full...)
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