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How am I going to know if the guy is gay or not?

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Question - (13 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2009)
A male Nigeria age 36-40, *acchris writes:

thanks everybody who have contributed in answering my questions.

again even though i can not change the nature of bein a gay and a mascline guy, how do i know that those mascline guys that are bein attracted to me are gay or not?

how do i aproach them?

what do i tell them when i meet them because am afraid of my community and my religion it can be dangerious because they see gay people as evil

as i have seen many gay people bein disgrace in the street and sent to gail

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A male reader, dddddddd Australia +, writes (14 March 2009):

You might be better dropping hints and leaving it to them to make the first move. Is there any where you can go to meet gay guys? Even though it is considered bad in your country there could be somewhere gay guys meet. Maybe search the internet and try and see if there is.

I wouldn't just say to a guy you find attractive that you're gay! If they are and are interested they will probably drop hints, and if you drop hints back, maybe something will happpen.

I really feel for you being gay and in a place where it is so hard.

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A male reader, Jager  United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2009):

have you thought about internet dating

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