Want her to want me more than just a friend
Q. i met my best friend 7 yrs ago when I was just 16 . The moment I saw her was all over her. Every day since we have hung out. We have went on several dates over the years that amount to nothing. I am totally in love with her and she know its. I don't ...
A. 12 March 2009: oh for f**k sake!
I have been in simmilar situations but this is blaintnly obvoius. Its simply and easy. You dont have partners you both date other people to try and get a reaction from the other.
She finds it a little difficult to get... (read in full...)
I don't know if I have the patience to show her how relationships work outside of the bedroom. What should I do?
Q. hey i am a bisexual female who currently has a gf . we have been dating on and off for almost a year now. i have cheated on her twice and i felt terrible about it , fortunately for me she took me back. i vowed to change my ways and i have no ...
A. 4 March 2009: reading this i feel that there is an obvious need that you dont get from same sex intercourse. If you were to have sex with a male then you would get something very different compaired to having sex with a female. What you may want to consider... (read in full...)
He was wet rubbing against me..could I get pregnant from this?
Q. Tonight me and my boyfriend were fooling around, he was fingering me and I was giving him a handjob. One thing led to another and both our underwear came off and our genitals were rubbing up against each others. He had ejaculated, and I was wet too. ...
A. 12 February 2009: even though i would say that it is unlikely you could still get pregnant from this. More so because he had already come. However if your lucky you might be ok. If i were you and i was worried i was going to get pregnant i would get the MAP (aka... (read in full...)
Where's the love when I have the flu? After two years he "hasn't decided" how he feels about me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. We lived together at one time but he asked me to move out because he was too stressed out and claimed he didnt love me anymore. Well a few months later, like a sucker, I went back to him beca...
A. 12 February 2009: HA! If he were sick then he would be complaining twice as much. I see that your im USA well over here we have something called MAN FLU its basically when a man get a cold same thing as a girl he just complains more. but the bottom line here ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and do not want children. Do I abort it or put it up for adoption?
Q. My birthday was two days ago, and for my present I found out that I am pregnant. For many people this would be fabulous news! And I really do want children, however due to finances, we really cannot afford to have a baby just yet. We were using ...
A. 12 February 2009: You want to have children. However you prepared to kill this one because you don't think its the right time. Alright well maybe thats thr right choice. Im guessing you havn't done this before i mean had an abortion. What you want to consider is t... (read in full...)
Cheated on for the fourth time- what I am doing wrong?
Q. I'm single again for the first time in a long time and I'm not quite sure of myself. I've been in a grand total of 3 relationships and they've all ended badly. I'm not sure what it is that I'm doing wrong here I mean I could swear that everytime I ...
A. 12 February 2009: hey. First off let me say im sorry for you. I understand how you must be feeling. The problem could be rather simple it could be a number of things but im inclined to think that you are going after the wrong kind of guy. Many times i have se... (read in full...)
My feelings for my best friend are ruining our friendship
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-mistook-loving-her-for-just.html This situation is somewhat similar to mine, except in my situation, I am in fact the girl who has fallen for the other, if that makes sense. When I read the reply, I nea...
A. 8 February 2009: When i read this i feel the pain that i know i will feel for as long as i have a relationship with my best friend. Sometimes there are people in this world that we can not have. We may be totally stupid and fall in love with them. What you d... (read in full...)
He likes me but I don't reciprocate, how can I avoid hurting him?
Q. This may sound a little trivial but i'd really appreciate some advice. okay here goes.... there is this guy on my bus who i've know forever.. recently he's been getting really clingy, i'm not interested in him in a romantic way but i'm pretty sure ...
A. 7 February 2009: To be honest. There is no way i can think of to avoid hurting this guy. You have to tell him your just good friends. The best way of doing this is saying you feel like his your brother. Explaining that your friendship is really good and reminds... (read in full...)
I have not yet experienced an orgasm, although I have tried. What should I do?
Q. Hello there, I am a seventeen year old male, and I have never consciously orgasmed. I've had several relationships (they were physical, though I remain a virgin), and have looked at porn on the internet for many years, but have never been broug...
A. 6 February 2009: to be honest at 17 it's really not that much of a problem. I would use it to your advantage. You say you have tried so im guessing your Hard when you do this. Can you get an erection? if so when you chance comes up have sex with this girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Am I making a fool out of myself and looking stupid?
Q. I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I recently met a friend of a friend who I am very attracted to. I am just out of a long relationship so I am a little out of practise at the dating game! The first time I met this guy was wh...
A. 27 January 2009: I think he does like you. But you have the advantage here, don't go to him flirt across the room if you have to but don't go over.
Leave it for him to make the next move. If he doesn't then act as though your not interested this can work very wel... (read in full...)
My ex is acting strangely towards me and I think we need to talk. What should I say?
Q. After breaking up three weeks ago, I'm already sick of being the "ex". Me and my ex are at university together, and since we broke up things are completely different. I assumed things would change, but I can't understand why it seems to have ch...
A. 27 January 2009: hey. you dont need to talk to her about this. It looks like your the one who is still hung up on this girl. If it was mutual then let her go. You can expect to go from a relationship do friends in a day or even a week it takes weeks even months to ... (read in full...)
I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties.
Q. I love to steal my sister in laws bras and panties. Is this ok because I think she suspects something?...
A. 27 January 2009: are you male if so are you cross dressing into cross dressing or do you have a identity crisis going on because there is something slightly wrong with this. It is something i have come across before so dont feel to bad but more details are need... (read in full...)
Jykle and Hyde caused by ADD/ADHD
Q. I need some opinions. I'm dating a man that has severe ADD/ADHD. He's a beautiful man inside and out. Here's the problem, he's going to be diagnosed next week with ADD/ADHD (How do we know he has it already?? we are both familiar with the signs as ...
A. 27 January 2009: I have Bipolar Disorder and i know people with both ADD and ADHD there is know way that i would try and convince you to leave him simply because my partner has not left me. Dealing with conditions like this is very difficult i would try medica... (read in full...)
After sex does he still want the same thing?
Q. so here's the thing... i've known this guy for about a year now, but we just started "talking" about 6 months ago. and ever since then we have only hungout about 5 times. it was nothing big, no intimate contact was involved just hanging out and ...
A. 27 January 2009: ok im not sure how old you are so dont know if your mature enough for this. However from what i can see you calling him and texting him every day your feelings are way deeper he's your first blar blar blar got ya. I understand how you feel don... (read in full...)
Can his problem be fixed or Is it his age?
Q. I am a 34 year old women and my boyfriend is 46.my boyfriend was real sexualy active and big.up til about 2yrs ago he has not been so active his penis has gotten small.when we do have sex his penis gets hard for a few minutes then goes limp.what can ...
A. 27 January 2009: If you hold you arm out in front of you with your parm facing in spread your fingers with you thum pointing up. Age wise the thum is 20 index finger 30 middle finger 40 and so on.
So naturally as guys get older this will happen. There are a fe... (read in full...)
Do I really want to be with her or am I just lonely?
Q. I need some advice. I started dating someone a while back and we had basically both just come out of long-term relationships. After awhile it was because clear she just wanted something casual, although I had wanted more of a relationship at first. ...
A. 27 January 2009: You cant ever be sure that you want a long term relationship untill you have been together long term. i think you need to leave it like you said for about a week maybe two before seeing her again. In this time do not sleep with anyone.
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Why did my GF stop while tossing me off to reply to her text message?!
Q. I was gettin tossed off by my girlfriend other week and about 10 seconds during, she got a text and stopped... Why? We could have perfectly carried on and got down to more.... Maybe she wants to reply to texts more than you know Haha. Anyway... why ...
A. 27 January 2009: The only time i ever stopped any sexual activity was when my phone whent off was when there was a another girl involved.
This could be the case but second if she didnt really want to toss you off then the text message got her out of it. Men can ... (read in full...)
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