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Her parents beat her to stop her seeing me. How do I get her back?
Q. hey all, first of all m very impressed abt dis awsome site , in which we can share our feelings to others, that a hope of mine that u may help me , come 2 the point i had a gf and al things going well wid both of us , one day she said me tht "her...
A. 17 April 2008: I agree with the anon answer, why dont you try and talk with her parents and show them how sincere you are and how much you love her if she wont take any action from her parents. Good luck... (read in full...)
I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!
Q. I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...
A. 17 April 2008: HI ALL, just received a private message from proud mummy, she says the age is a mistake and she is actually 20 year of age, but do not know how to change this on her original message. As i am new to the site, i dont know myself. I have told her to ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm the one that makes more effort in this but I like him a lot! What can I do to turn things around?
Q. Hey guys i posted this question here a few days ago but only got one answer so im posting it again in the hope for more suggestions. Ive been seeing a guy for two months. Things are going well and i think we both like each other. One thing bothers ...
A. 17 April 2008: Hi sweety, dont do anything, you have tried everything you can. If this guy really wants to be with you, he will contact you and arrange to meet up properly. He seems to be very laid back about the relationship, one thing would bother me however, ... (read in full...)
Her parents beat her to stop her seeing me. How do I get her back?
Q. hey all, first of all m very impressed abt dis awsome site , in which we can share our feelings to others, that a hope of mine that u may help me , come 2 the point i had a gf and al things going well wid both of us , one day she said me tht "her...
A. 17 April 2008: Sweety there is not alot you can do unfortunatly, but she should not be forced into a marriage. Her parents must have a very strong influence over her. Is there any chance she can get away? If not, then i am afraid there are not many options open ... (read in full...)
I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!
Q. I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...
A. 17 April 2008: I do wonder is this a practical joke, although i do know a girl who was 12 when she got pregnant, but a second time....sweety...please say this is not true!! You can ge the morning after pill and this will stop you having another baby. You can ... (read in full...)
I have met someone I want to spend my life with, but am not sure I should give my marriage another try first
Q. I'm asking for a male friend who's 45-50. I've been married for 21 years and the have three young children. The magic has been out of our relationship for many years and we are more like friends who take each other for granted. I've met someon...
A. 17 April 2008: hi there, the man sounds like he is going through some mid life crisis (it happens unfortunately), he needs to focus on his marriage. Marriages have their ups and downs and if both people are willing to work hard at it and dicuss any problems that ... (read in full...)
My partner of 4 years has been cheating on me. Can we overcome this betrayal together?
Q. I need some advice, I have just recently found out that my partner of 4 years had been cheating on me, it wasn't an complete shock as I had suspected he was up to no good for a while now. The truth was a lot worse than I had ever expected, and now ...
A. 17 April 2008: Hi there, a lot of people would say kick him out, but sometimes i know things are not that black and white, I know you want to give him a second chance, but sweety make him work for it, if he sees that there is no consequences for what he has done, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lives with his ex, I feel like an outsider but am afraid to discuss it with him!
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and love him very much. However, I am finding things difficult as he still lives with his ex and I feel a bit like an outsider in his life. He recently said that he is happy living with his ex. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Hi there, i know when you love someone alot it can be scary sometimes to push a question when you are unsure of the outcome and you think you might loose the person. However, you should not be scared to ask him, you deserve this at the very least, ... (read in full...)
The thought of sleeping with someone else when I've only ever slept with my ex really scares me... besides I don't want to be used just for sex!
Q. Ok I really need some help please guys...I recently came out of a 3 1/2 year relationship, which ended 6 months ago. Since then, I've been feeling really down and found it hard to go out and talk to guys. I've been slowly feeling better, keeping ...
A. 17 April 2008: Hello, its always hard when you break up from a long term relationship, but at least you are keeping yourself busy and going out with friends.
Darling just do want you feel is right for you to do, you will know what to do when the time comes, i... (read in full...)
His ex-wife keeps contacting him, am I out of line to be upset by this? And what should I do?
Q. Hello. I have been in a relationship with a man for a little over a year now. His ex-wife (they were married three years) is still contacting him constantly. They do not have children together and she has no reason to be contacting him. ...
A. 15 April 2008: No darling you are not out of line, she is. There relationship is over, she needs to move on. It is understandable you are upset,has you husband made it clear that he does not want her contacting him any longer. Can you partner change his number. ... (read in full...)
We are both Christians, and she is serious about no sex before marriage, do I confess my past mistakes?
Q. Ok, background on me and my girlfriend, I'm 20, she's 23, we are both down to earth Christians and have been dating for 6 months now, which isn't long but its going brilliantly! She is big on the whole sex before marriage, and am to, BUT...About 3 ...
A. 15 April 2008: Hi sweety, you have not blown anything. Your past is your past so there was nothing wrong with what you have done in the past, you did not hurt anyone. Ofcourse the one thing i would say is that you should have been upfront with her and told her ... (read in full...)
I've lost all confidence after my girlfriend laughed at my penis size!
Q. ok, i have a very big problem, im not going to lie, im a overweight, but my girl friend did not really care, she liked me for who i am(yay!!) we were going out for 6 weeks and we hadn't had sex yet because i have a 4.5 in penis, i would pleasure h...
A. 15 April 2008: I am really sorry to hear that darling, what a very nasty girl she is. Dont listen to anything your ex has to say. You will meet a girl one day who will appreciate you for who you are, anyhow size is not everything, just because someones penis is ... (read in full...)
In relationship with a married man - wrong?
Q. Hi my name is daniel and I'm 29 years old and I'm new in this site. Well my question are: I've been in a relationship with my partner for four months an half now but the thing is, he is maried man and Im in the process of looking for a girlfriend. ...
A. 15 April 2008: Hi Daniel, yes it is wrong, he is married and suppose to be committed to his marriage. This will all end in heartache, particularly for his poor wife, do they have children? if so, this will affect the whole family and nothing will come of it. He ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill and worried that some amount of women still get pregnant on it!
Q. I'm new to birth control and have been taking them for 2 months now. i take mine all the time without missing any. me and boyfriend always wear condoms but, this time we tried without condoms. I had unprotected sex on the (April) 9th, 11th. On the 1...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi, its true conception is 100% safe, however, the pill is about the most effective method and if girls have gotten pregnant while on the pill it is a very small number indeed particularly if they have taken the pill on time every day. If you miss ... (read in full...)
Hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together I don't know if I'm ready for this
Q. Dear cupid.. i been with my boyfriend dan for about 2 years now, we are engaged. but lately hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together i dont know if im ready for this quite yet what shall i do ? ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hello sweetheart, having a baby is a big, big step and comes with a lot of responsibility. Bringing a baby into the world you will need to be 1) in a very strong, stable relationship, 2) have a good job and good income to be able to support a ... (read in full...)
I am frightened to leave my marriage for my lover, as I don't want to hurt my teenage children and we have a nice lifestyle.
Q. I am a married woman of 17 years, with 2 beautiful teenage children. I have been having an affair with a single man at work for the past 3 years. I can honestly say I love both men. My husband had an affair 6 years ago and I have found it hard to ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi, god, what a very hard and complicated situation your are in. You have indeed had alot of things to deal with. Your fathers death, your husbands affair (have you both gone to counselling for you to try and deal with his affair) You were looking ... (read in full...)
My partner left me after finding beastiality on my computer. I'm terribly depressed and regretful.
Q. my girlfriend found beastiality on my computer as i was looking at it while she was at work. i have never done anything else but look at it. i know it is terrible and gross but sometimes the sickest things turn people on. she left me and told me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi, if you were just curious and wondered what it was all about then you will just have to sit down with your partner and explain that to her. I find the whole this so disgusting myself,i feel sick even thinking about it to be honest! so maybe ... (read in full...)
I'm 25, so why am I still single?
Q. Why am I still single? I'm a 25 year-old intelligent woman with a college education and a good job. I would say I'm above average in appearance, though slightly overweight, but I have lost weight recently and I'm getting many positive comments about ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi, it will happen in its own goodtime, dont be in such a rush to get married, enjoy your single life now, live for the moment and generally it will happen when you least of all expect it. I was in a relationship of 3 years with a guy, we broke up ... (read in full...)
I love my BF but he has a bad temper and last night hit me! Is it an excuse that he has problems at home?
Q. I love my boyfriend more than anything and i know he loves me to however he can be really childish and he has a bad temper last night he hit me only on my leg but still he hit me. he has alot of problems at home at the minute, should i end it?...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi sweetheart, no matter what the excuse, he should not lay a hand on you. There is no excuse that excuses anyone for hitting another person and i believe he needs some help, if he has problems controlling his anger, he needs proper counselling to ... (read in full...)
Size does matter!! Don't lie to me....can I satisfy her or not?
Q. okay, im a guy with a 5.3 or 5.4 penis, now, no matter how much i read online that "size does not matter" and "its how you use it", ive come to realize its bullshit now, im 20 years old and every one of my friends has had sex at least 4 times, b...
A. 11 April 2008: Hi sweety, relax, take a deep breath. Your penis size is fine, you have nothing to worry about, is normal your size, stop fretting. It all about knowing your woman, different things pleases different women and i know alot of women who get more ... (read in full...)
Should I have the baby when I'm not sure who of the three is the father??
Q. Im 2 months pregnant and i dont know who the father is there is 3 possible dads and i dont know wat to do. please help me !!!!!! its ethier my exs a one night stand or my mate that i had sex with once or twice PLEASE help i know if been stupid but ...
A. 11 April 2008: Hi, definitely have the baby, it will be wonderful. About who the father is, the best thing for you to do have a paternity test done. Check your dates, did you have sex around the same time, if so then a paternity or DNA test or blood group as ... (read in full...)
Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive?
Q. Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive? I find myself interested in a woman 35 but am not sure if she really feels anything for me sexually or is just being nice as a friend?...
A. 11 April 2008: Every individual has there preferences, I have always like older men, i dated a guy before who was 30 years older than me, we have a nice time, however, i wanted children and he had already done all that in his lifetime so did not want anymore. She ... (read in full...)
How can I tell a stranger her husband is a cheating rat?
Q. I'm kinda new to my area and a few doors down is a married couple, thing is i no her husband is cheating on her, and of what i have seen its been going on for while, they are out together during the day, he comes home at 5,6 in the morning, she ...
A. 11 April 2008: I believe an anonymous letter is the best way to go sweety. His wife deserves to know, possibly they have an open relationship, if so, then the letter will have done no harm whatsoever. I myself would like someone to tell me also, as for people ... (read in full...)
How to approach a "shy" girl???
Q. How would you like a guy to approach you if you were shy??? I have a girl in my class who i am interested in, and i think she is interested in me too. everytime i turn to look at her, she is looking back at me, and my friends all say she looks at...
A. 11 April 2008: Hi there, i myself was a bit shy and would prefer a guy to come straight up and ask me as believe me, she will never do it if she is shy. The way i was, if i liked someone, yes i would watch them, but as soon as they looked at me i would smile at ... (read in full...)
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