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writes:Hi my name is daniel and I'm 29 years old and I'm new in this site. Well my question are: I've been in a relationship with my partner for four months an half now but the thing is, he is maried man and Im in the process of looking for a girlfriend. So do you think that is a bad thing being in reltaionship with a maried man? Please be honest. Thank you
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 Yes it's wrong the other man is selfish he wants his cake and wants to eat it. End it with the marryed man as your playing second best and noone is worth that. Find someone eles i'm sure you will be able to move on after all was this guy wanting to divorce his husband and be with you or want both you and the husband cause thats wrong.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): Your relationship is an unfaithful one. If one or both people are married or have a partner then its unfaithful.
So do you like men, women or both? If it is just men then please don't look for a girlfriend.
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (15 April 2008):
 When a couple marry, they commit themselves to each other, to be each other's partner, support and loving companion for life.
When a third party becomes involved, problems arise. This can compromise that partnership, especially if it's done in secret.
Whether the third party is gay or straight, the partner holding a relationship with them is still cheating!
You may be thinking of your gay relationship as purely sexual, just a release and satisfaction of that part of yourself, but people don't function that way! Eventually, a friendship is built and physical attraction becomes love, therefore destroying that bond tied through marriage with your respective wives.
In a few words then, yes, what you're doing is wrong.
You should choose whether you want to be with a woman and have the chance to become a father or be with a man, accept that you're happyer that way and get on with your life.
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (15 April 2008):
 Hi Daniel, yes it is wrong, he is married and suppose to be committed to his marriage. This will all end in heartache, particularly for his poor wife, do they have children? if so, this will affect the whole family and nothing will come of it. He is having his cake and eating it to. Darling i suggest you put an end to this, he is probably saying things to you like, my wife and i have not been getting along, we are always arguing and i am just finding the right time to leave her. He is either bisexual or gay and tried to cover it up and got married, the latter being terrible. You must be bisexual, please make sure it is a girl you really want, its better that you know yourself first and find out whether your 100% gay or bisexual. Please do the right thing. xx
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