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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:HiMy bf of an year often talks about his colleague, says she is sexy and beautiful and all that stuff. I am not comfortable him talking about her even when we are intimate and it also makes me really angry. I told him in a normal way that i dont like the way he talks about her, but it never really helped. Even today he said how much sexier she is and how she turns on all the guys at work. I wanted to shout at him, but i dont want him to think that i am possessive or jealous. How do i make him stop doing that. Please help me
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,Simple problem! You could either:Ignore him simply ignore him and carry on with your work or pretend like nothing's happened because your bf wants a reaction and your not giving him any attention or reaction and sooner or later he will give up!Talk about your ex and how sexy he is, or you could talk about anyone like his best friend or you know a guy you saw walking by and make your bf feel jealous too. (Though this is the LAST option!)To annnooooooooooy and probably shut up him you could bring that colleague he was describing to his face and say my bf thinks your sooooo sexy (like in a flirty manner) and hopefully he'll get red in the face! - Priceless!Remember don't be offended because your the joker and be sarcastic about it!Though don't do anything to the extreme otherwise it's reallllllly gonna hurt people and that ISN'T GOOD!Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Ima FreAk!x
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