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I don't think we need to have sex at this stage of dating. Any tips on how we can slow it down a notch?
Q. I am nearly 17 and my wonderful grilfriend is 16. We have been togetehr for nearly 10months and i am completely devoted to her. And i madly love her. Recently, we have been more passionate. Kissing and 'groping'. But i am becomign worried that this ...
A. 26 May 2007: I am a 16 year old girl with a 17 year old boyfriend and I can tell you from my own experience, I believe you should talk to your girlfriend.
Honesty and talking are important in any loving relationship and for me, in my relationship my boyf... (read in full...)
He doesn't like to call me his 'gf' even though we date! How much longer should I wait for him to accept me as his gf or should I even wait??
Q. I've been dating a guy for over five months and things have been going well except for one problem: he won't call me his "girlfriend." He acts like my boyfriend in every other way though. We get together a couple times a week, he wants to meet all ...
A. 22 February 2007: i think you should wait. he told you titles bother him, and he seems emotionally commited to you anyway, so what's in a name? if people ask about your relationship, say you are dating. simple as that. your "boyfriend" is commited, cares about you, ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and female and I'm in love with a 14 year old boy! Is this normal?
Q. I am 16 and i am falling in love with a 14 year old boy when i am usually into men from 19 up to about 22 years old. He says he is in love with me, and he wants to start a relationship with me, the age gap is holding me bk? do you think its kinda ...
A. 7 February 2007: it's alittle unusual for an older girl/younger guy relationship in highschool, but it certainly isnt pedo or weird. i got with my boyfriend when i was 14 and he turned 16 before i became 15 so we had a similar age gap. also i had a friend (girl) who ... (read in full...)
Can you be in love at 14?
Q. Can you be in love at 14? ...
A. 21 January 2007: i think it's unlikely since so many teenagers believe they are "in love" when really its just lust. you could be in love though, only you for sure would know. there is no age for when you can or cant love, just as you are older you would have more ... (read in full...)
He's choosing this other girl over me..as she has more to offer. What do I do now?
Q. So my brother has this friend and i guess this friend has liked me for 9 years. This past chirstmas I finally told him I was attracted to him also. This friend has been dating another girl for about 5 weeks, but still choose to go on a date with ...
A. 2 January 2007: it's his loss.
he may be confused though, my bestfriend had had feelings for me and when i told him i returned them he and i were going to try dating and at the last minute he went to his ex, making me hurt and rejected. eventually though he came... (read in full...)
I hate swearing and he does this a lot when he's mad! What can I do?
Q. Hello, I am frustrated because I have a really attentive boyfriend and he does all the things that a good boyfriend should, like he cares for me when I'm sick, cooks for me, we can talk forever and he likes to cuddle and hug and make me happy an...
A. 2 January 2007: other than his swearing this boy sounds near perfect. have you talked to him about his swearing? he sounds like the kind of guy who would listen to you and try to stop. maybe to motivate him, everytime he doesnt swear when angry you can reward him, ... (read in full...)
My bf hates condoms and there is no way, I'm having unprotected sex. Any other options?
Q. My boyfriend and I are ready to have sex, but my boyfriend doesn't like condoms and there's no way I'm having sex without protection. There's no concern about STD's, so what other options are out there? I'm sure he'll eventually break down and ...
A. 2 January 2007: there are alot of different options for birth control other than a male condom!
(i actually learned them all earlier)
for the male birth control- condom, vasectomy (dont reccomend if the male ever wants children)
for women- female condom, the ... (read in full...)
second base scenario
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 7 months now and we are getting closer than ever. She recently told me that if i wanted we could go to second base. i don't know what to do, i'm only 14 but i love her more than anything. i'm ...
A. 2 January 2007: like the person below said, only go as far as you are comfortable
she said if you wanted to you could right? well if you are not ready, make sure you tell her you love her, but dont want to push her. by making it seem as though its about her she ... (read in full...)
Does thinking too much leave you paranoid ? How do I stop this over thinking all the time?
Q. dear cupid I am in my teens and am 16 years old and i seem to be worrying and thinking about things every single day and i dnt know how to stop, i sometimes cry with because of thinking to much, my main concern now is "does thinking too muc...
A. 8 December 2006: awww, i feel sorry for you. im a 15 year old teenage girl and i do the same thing. over thinking always makes situations worse, can make you over paranoid, and depressed. advice, try meditation or yoga, both really clear up the mind. or maybe if you ... (read in full...)
Will it stop my breasts sagging if I wear a bra in bed?
Q. I'm 15 years old and i fall asleep wearing a bra almost every night I never really thought anything of it until now recently i've heard A) sleeping a bra keeps you from growing any larger B) if you don't wear a bra when you sleep you start...
A. 7 December 2006: sleeping with a bra may only cause discomfort
it wont stop growth and sagging depends on the size and number of suregerys (at least i think so) a person's had.
if you want to feel like wearing a bra, wear a cami to bed, more comfortable and you ... (read in full...)
I like my friend's bf and he likes me! Should I go for it?
Q. hey i need help! i used to really fancy this male friend of mine and i know that my friend did as well so i decided to set it up for her and now she is with him but i still really like him and he isnt happy with her and keeps making passes at me. if ...
A. 27 October 2006: think about who means more to you
is gaining a boyfriend more important than a friend?
i did something just like this, i chose to date the guy because the friend was miserable to me after they broke up, and because she didnt want to be my friend i... (read in full...)
How do I act at a wake...will I even be welcome?
Q. i have a (hopefully) simple question to ask. what are you supposed to do at a wake? my boyfriend's grandfather died this morning and he is devastated. i'm doing my best to support him, by comforting him, cheering him up, and lending him a sh...
A. 1 October 2006: um hi
thanks for the advice...
his mom actually decided that she didn't want me there since i wasn't family so i dont have the problem of what to do there. i wish i could still support my boyfriend but his mom did give him permission to see me a... (read in full...)
I love this guy to pieces and I want to see him more..but he spends so much time with his family! What can I do?
Q. SOS! I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 weeks and I love him to pieces..He's everything I want and need and he makes me soooooo happy! We both live in the same city but different sides so it can be a pain gettin to and from to see each other. ...
A. 18 September 2006: hey there, im glad you realize it isnt true love yet
since you are a young teen and so is your boyfriend (i'm assuming) this is a time where family runs what you can and cant do so his having to be around family is something that you will have to d... (read in full...)
I love this guy to pieces and I want to see him more..but he spends so much time with his family! What can I do?
Q. SOS! I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 weeks and I love him to pieces..He's everything I want and need and he makes me soooooo happy! We both live in the same city but different sides so it can be a pain gettin to and from to see each other. ...
A. 16 September 2006: um...sweetie how old are you?
you sound like a young girl who has a case of "puppy love"
you say you two have been together for three weeks...and since he is family oriented there is no time for you...anymore? if you only see him like twice a ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents he is of a different race???
Q. i just posted the question "I finally got with Pete! Problem is I've never had a boyfriend before, so dont know how to make us an adorable couple!" around 2 days ago, but i honestly need as much advice as possible. So we've been spending soooooo...
A. 9 September 2006: hey i dont think your parents will mind too much.
im actually half white and half indian, so i think the combo of white and indian is as cool as it gets!
how traditional are your parents? enough that color really bothers them?
since you are just... (read in full...)
I really like my mates girlfriend!
Q. I really fancy this girl in my class. I know her and we're friends but she has a boyfriend and he's my mate. How do i tell her?...
A. 25 August 2006: im sorry to tell you this since you probabaly dont want to hear it.
you dont.
if you are really her friend you will respect her feelings for your mate and not say anything, at least until they are broken up. even though then it is still dangerou... (read in full...)
Never been kissed
Q. dear cupid,im 15 and i am a virgin and i was windering if people think its still late to a be a virgin, also i have never done anything to snog a boy is this unusal for girls my age?. can any one let me know what they think plz thnx xxx...
A. 17 August 2006: wow. you think that being a virgin at 15 is late? im 15 and so are all my friends. every single one of us are virgins. also the majority of my friends havent snogged with anyone either. they are some of the prettiest, funniest people, and the righ... (read in full...)
I don't like my face colour!
Q. Hi, i am a pakistani girl, aged 18. My problem is that I would like to be fair skinned, i am quite tanned. I don't want to change myself out of insecurity or for others. I merely feel that my facial features don't suit this dark colour. I have ...
A. 14 August 2006: you sound absolutely beautiful
im a mixed race girl and i would love to be darker to look like my indian family, but i am paler than all of them b/c i am half white. i wish i could be tanner with green eyes. brown is booring.
dark skin with gre... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but I'm only fourteen!
Q. I am only 14 and my boyfriend has asked me to marry him! I realy love him but how many people stay with someone that they started dating when they were 10? What should I say?...
A. 13 August 2006: no.no.no.
my best friend and her boyfriend had gotten engaged at 15 because they really loved eachother in their minds.
they are broken up now.
they hate eachother.
both now hate the idea of marraige. (both are only 16 now mind you)
and it mes... (read in full...)
My BF didn't want me to date other guys at camp, but I only went out with one! Now I'm afraid he'll find out...
Q. Before going away to camp I asked my bf if I could go out with guys at camp, then just go back to my bf after camp. I told him that I would still write him and miss him like crazy,but he said no!! So while I was at camp I didn't go out with any ...
A. 13 August 2006: sorry to say this
if you really love your boyfriend why would you want to date other guys?
i went to camp too, and my boyfriend told me i wasn't allowed to date anyone. even though i love him and would miss him i wanted a boyfriend so i could ha... (read in full...)
He flirts with other girls , is he trying to hurt me?
Q. My boyfriend who also used to be my best friend is away with his family for the summer. as best friends we told eachother everything and in our relationship we still do. he told me he was going to a bonfire with his friends, and that he planned on ...
A. 10 August 2006: hey thanks for the advice, both are two different ideas and after what i just found out im leaning towards camille.
im even more pissed at him now because he told me he has a date tomorrow, and then he said he was kidding
he is just going out to h... (read in full...)
I want to go out, but I don't know how to ask boys, or if I should...
Q. Hi, I'm 15 Years Old and Never had a boyfriend All my friends have had boyfriends and had sex with them. They all say to me just go out with anyone, screw them and dump them. I don't want to do that but I do want a boyfriend. The problem is al...
A. 10 August 2006: hey dont be pressured by your friends! they sounds like bad people if you were to ask me.
i'm 15 years old too, and im a teenage girl. its true i have a boyfriend, and i think its okay. but dont obsess over having one!
my ex friend obsessed... (read in full...)
I'm 16, said yes to the boy's proposal, so what was I thinking?
Q. ello, i'm 16 and i had this friend that wouldnt stop asking me out and after 6 months of him asking me to date him he took me to a hockey game and acted completly different then he did in school so i finaly gave in and desided to give him a chanc...
A. 9 August 2006: a similar thing happened to my friend.
he proposed to his girlfriend (my ex best friend) after a fight and a break they had had, thinking he really loved her and wanted to be with her forever. she accepted. they were only 15.
i thought it was dumb... (read in full...)
He only ever says he loves me after I say I first!
Q. I don't know if it's just me or what, but should I be worried if when the only time my boyfriend tells me he loves me is after I say it first (like when we're leaving: Me: I love you. Him: I love you too.) and that's like the only time he'll say ...
A. 9 August 2006: hey, if you are younger then you might have a right to worry
in our teenage society these days and in society in general people say "i love you" without truly knowing what the words mean. he might just say the words out of a need to fit in, or he m... (read in full...)
I turn red and get shy when I talk to girls. My confidence needs a boost so what should I do?
Q. dear cupid i am having trouble talking to girls as i cant seem to get my self to talk to them and when i see girlz that i like i turn red and become shy.. is there any solution to this problem, as i have tried everything to put my confidence up bu...
A. 9 August 2006: hey, im a girl and have tons of shy guy friends and i have been able to help a few so hopefully i can help you too. =)
do you have any female friends? if you do, ask if they might be willing to let you practice flirting and dating techniques with... (read in full...)
Thought I'd gotten over the guy I fancied, but then the feelings came back!
Q. I fancied this boy from school and didn't see him for 4 months cos he was on holiday. I got over him but as soon as I saw him again when he got back my feelings came back. :( Is this normal to fancy someone, then not fancy them anymore, then fan...
A. 8 August 2006: oh god is that normal!
honey you just explained my whole life
ive only liked a few boys, but i will give up, then go without liking them, to liking them all over again
i wish once it was over it would stay over but it doesnt work that way.
good l... (read in full...)
We can't hold hands, hug or kiss......we seem like were bestfriend but were not.
Q. Ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 7 months and 2 weeks, But but but....We have a odd relationship, we are not allowed to Hold hands, hug, etc. that rule came into effect about 3 months ago and we have remained loyal to her parents ...
A. 8 August 2006: hey i totally know how you feel!
im a 15 year old girl and my 16 year old boyfriend has really protective parents and so do i
whenever his or my parents might be around he and i have no contact, and thats the majority of the time on our "dates" ... (read in full...)
Does it Matter that My 15-Year-Old Friend Won't Have Sex with Me?
Q. I'm really good friends with this girl in my neighborhood. She's 15 and I'm 19. we both want to get more into an intimate relationship and bring our friendship to the next level, sort of like friends with benefits. The thought of sex has come up, ...
A. 8 August 2006: you sick pervert.
she is 15, far too young for you
its illegal!
she said no sex and no kissing
yet you still want to sleep with her.
i am a 15 year old girl and i totally respect her for not sleeping with you.
if you are really her friend. b... (read in full...)
Two days after our son was diagnosed with autism, my husband left
Q. My husband and i have been married 9 months he has some huge mental health problems and is seeing a counsellor two weeks ago out the blue he didnt come home then told me he was moving out two weeks before that he smashed the house up and i called ...
A. 7 August 2006: Stacey
stop worrying about that man! he is so not worth it.
I'm only a teenager, but i live with a younger brother who is autistic and diabetic and ive learned how to deal with kids. for you right now it would be best for you to focus on your son... (read in full...)
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