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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): I don' think that you can be in true love at 14 even if you think you are. If you're still with that same guy in a few years then maybe you were in love, but know you can know for sure you might be and you might not be.When I was 14 I totally thought that I was in love with my bf. He was 17 and I was with him all the time for almost a whole year. We sent pics by picture phone about 20 times a day and I really thought we were in love till he cheated on me with another girl then I found out really quickly that I just liked being around him and cared about him but it wasn't love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007): Im 14 too bout to be 15 and my bf is 17 i really think i am considering i never thought i was w/ anyone else. lol but idk i kinda got the same ? but i would jus say see where it goes thats what me and my bf r doing we've been together for 7months. && Dont go to far w/ em tho! theres already to many teen pregnancys =)
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reader, ogga +, writes (21 January 2007):
Yeah of course you can.
whats age? nothing
I know a couple who started going out when they were 14 and 15 (the female 14 and the male 15) They are still together. They are my Nan and grandad and they are both 64/65 thats 60 years. Obviously that wont happen for everybody.
But it can. So yes you can be in love by 14.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): yah im 14 and im madly in love with my bf! i have a friend who was 12 at the time that was very inlove with his gf! i think it is totaly possible!
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reader, hugs2muchgal  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 i think it's unlikely since so many teenagers believe they are "in love" when really its just lust. you could be in love though, only you for sure would know. there is no age for when you can or cant love, just as you are older you would have more experience and be able to decipher whether or not its real emotion.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (21 January 2007):
 I think when you're 14 you feel like you're in love. Believe me, I certainly did, but it took ages for me to realise that it wasn't love. It was a combination of lust and excitement about having a boyfriend. Then again every fourteen year old is different so I couldn't say for sure.
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