I can't seem to get into a relationship!
Q. I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...
A. 29 June 2009: I only brought up acting gay because you've said that girls have mistaken you for a gay male. Of course that could also be because they don't feel like you're trying to get into their pants every second of every day.
No, it's not somethin... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my boyfriend won't want to try again after miscarriage in unexpected pregnancy.
Q. Had an unexpected pregnancy with partner when our relationship was quite rocky. A shock to us both, he especially had a really hard time coming to terms with it, and was really unhappy and unaccepting for the first several days. He said he was ...
A. 29 June 2009: Try getting married first, if he won't marry you then why would you want his child? That doesn't make any sense, if he won't commit to a marriage then why do you think he'll be a good provider and father to your child?????... (read in full...)
She cheated, broke up with me, and I'm still hung up on her!
Q. Hi my situation is very complicated. I dated this girl for about a year and two months. I found out she was still talking to an old boyfriend and that she cheated on me. I thought she was the woman I was gonna marry, and even though she did me wrong ...
A. 29 June 2009: It's called weakness, don't worry everyone has it. I've experienced it before and I doubt it'll be the last time.
Find someone else, there's nothing like getting over a broken relationship by finding a better, more attractive woman to be with.... (read in full...)
Please help...guy problem, he's not sure he's big enough!
Q. Ok so there's this guy that I really like and we haven't had sex yet...He has mentioned to me that he is afraid of himself not bein big enough...Which is important to me to be sadisfied in all ways...What should I do?......
A. 29 June 2009: The average male penis is five inches long. The others you've seen are usually doctored in pictures or lies from other guys. Oh and if some guy tells you he has a ten inch penis tell him that it doesn't count if he measured the length starting ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get into a relationship!
Q. I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the w...
A. 29 June 2009: Even if you can or can not verify if the girl you just met really has a boyfriend would it make any difference? If she doesn't are you going to stalk her?? No, so if she say's she has a BF that's just her polite way of saying she's not interested. ... (read in full...)
Settle for friends, or just break it off completely?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend dated almost 2 years. I am going to be a senior while he is going to college 4 hours away. We had a relationship that was based on our friendship, because we had fun together all the time. We hung-out a lot! We really never ...
A. 29 June 2009: Do you really want to be best friends with him??? Do you want him telling you about all the beer parties he's going to and all the girls who took their tops off and flashed him? How about all the new girls he's sleeping with??
Nope, you don't wa... (read in full...)
My feelings don't match my thoughts!
Q. I'm in a year long relationship with a wonderful girl and we're about to move in together. She is gorgeous, brilliant, very loving and completely loyal; she is helpful and sweet to me. We like a lot of the same things. She is very sensual and ...
A. 29 June 2009: Then kick yourself in the ass. There could however be more problems than you even realize with your current GF, which could be why you're having such an issue.
Try relaxing in your relationship. Also see a Dr. about the low libido issue, u... (read in full...)
Looking for tips on how to deep throat a man!
Q. i am looking for information on blow jobs and how to deep thoat a man. it can be in form of books are an advise...
A. 29 June 2009: The only way to learn to deep throat is to practice. You'll have to practice on something long like a vibrator then put it into your mouth as far back as you can without getting sick.
The reason you've seen other women that can deep throat o... (read in full...)
She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!
Q. I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...
A. 29 June 2009: At some point you will have to realize that your GF is more trouble than she's worth. Unless she's rich or has some other appeal that another woman won't then I say get rid of her. It sounds as if you fight a lot, and that's not good in a relati... (read in full...)
Was it cheating or just acting? And should I tell my husband, or let him think that Jim was wearing underwear?
Q. I need some advice, both to make myself feel OK, and what to tell my husband. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, we have 3 kids together. I have some college, but never finished (kids). My husband has an extremely good job, and...
A. 29 June 2009: Wow, I don't think I've ever heard a story like this before.
I think Jim was trying to get a free Feelskee, since the camera was not on his lap he could have easily worn the tan underwear that you spoke about.
I would of slapped the crap... (read in full...)
Wife wants to mend an old wound with a sweetheart?
Q. Should I be concerned that my wife of 10 years wants to "mend an old wound" with a high school sweetheart? She had a very emotional situation when she was 15 with her highschool sweetheart. He fled and does not know what happened after the incide...
A. 26 June 2009: Your situation mirror's mine, feel free to email me so that we can discuss this at length.... (read in full...)
We're drifting apart, I'm contemplating divorce, what should I do?
Q. I have been married for 2 years and with my spouse all together for 3 years. I have a child from a previous relationship that I took sole custody of. She has a daughter from a previous marriage. The first year that we were together was amazing. ...
A. 25 June 2009: Don't allow yourself to be used, you are a better person than that. It seems really fast for a marriage to go downhill. Possibly she married you for the security and nothing else. I hope that's not the case, but if you've tried talking to her b... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test came back negative but I'm still late, what else could be the reason behind this?
Q. hey im a week late for my period and i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back negative my boyfriend and i are always careful and responsible and we havnt had any problems with our contraception im starting to get worried now but sure...
A. 25 June 2009: Where did you get the pregnancy test? Was it something you bought at a grocery store or pharmacy, or did you go to a Dr.
If you bought one of the home tests then go to a Dr. and have them run one.... (read in full...)
I've found a lump. Can girls get breast cancer at 16?
Q. Hi! I found this lump inside my right breast and its realy sore. i just got a new bra the other day, so i guess you could say it's the bra, making me sore, but only one breast is sore and i can feel this lump inside my breast. when i touch it,...
A. 24 June 2009: I'm sorry, I re-read my post and I typed something wrong.
If it came up quickly then the chances are that it's NOT cancer.
But you really should get check out by a Dr.... (read in full...)
I'm too you for sex but he says no-one will know. What to do?
Q. hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he ...
A. 24 June 2009: You're correct, you're to young. He's only saying those things to you because he wants one thing, sex, and that's it. Tell him that you prefer to wait until you're older and if he really loved you then he would respect your decision. ... (read in full...)
I've found a lump. Can girls get breast cancer at 16?
Q. Hi! I found this lump inside my right breast and its realy sore. i just got a new bra the other day, so i guess you could say it's the bra, making me sore, but only one breast is sore and i can feel this lump inside my breast. when i touch it,...
A. 24 June 2009: Absolutely young girls can get breast cancer, especially if it runs in your family.
It could be an inflamed Lobule, which can happen if you've been hurt or had physical impact to that area.
If it came up quickly then the chances are that... (read in full...)
I've asked him to stop but he won't - what can I do?
Q. My husband is flirting over the internet. He goes into instant messenger and flirts with women all over the world. When I confront him, he says its just a joke, nothing serious, it just a hobby. One of these ladies told him she would be visiting ...
A. 24 June 2009: Pack his bag and put him out on the street like the trash he is. This is not a hobby, it's disrespectful and rude to you his wife.
And it's not a hobby, he just hasn't been lucky enough to meet one of these women physically, and when he has the ... (read in full...)
I have an abnormal penis with a lump on it. What is it?
Q. So need calming down!!! For the past month I have had a whitish lump almost on the base of the head of my penis (I am uncircumcised and it is on the head itself). I have been to the doctor and looked online and it seems it is very probably a swoll...
A. 24 June 2009: Call the Dr's office and tell them that you were told that the test results were abnormal and it's really stressing you out, they should tell you what they found over the phone, that way you can talk about how to cure it on Friday with the Dr.... (read in full...)
Is he insecure or just nasty?
Q. Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race child...
A. 24 June 2009: Yes, he's a jerk and you can do better. Actually being on your own would be better at least nobody would make fun of you on a continual basis.
You've done well for yourself, don't start ruining that by hanging around an insecure looser.... (read in full...)
Cheating wife and I don't think I can forgive her!
Q. just found out my wife has done something with another man,she said they havent had sex but only done it the once,we been together 20years,dont think i can forgive her,she says shes sorry and wants us to start again, she said it was because she was ...
A. 23 June 2009: You didn't provide much information, but I'll throw in my two cents based on my experience.
She probably did more, you'll find that the truth will trickle in from a cheater. There is one constant that always holds true, cheaters are liars an... (read in full...)
His family keep inviting his ex-wife to family gatherings, what can I do?
Q. I am in a tough situation. My boyfriend is divorced but his family keeps inviting his ex wife to family functions even though he has asked them not to. She also invites them to her family functions and they accept. Last December his parents ...
A. 22 June 2009: You're right, his family likes his ex better than you. Who knows why, but this happens fairly often. In my example my wife was married once before. The marriage lasted a year, no kids, and he was physically abusive. About five years into her m... (read in full...)
Not sure how to approach a girl I like for a date?
Q. Ok so here's my problem i met this girl at a carnival she's a cheerleader so she was working the dunk booth and i stayed there almost the intire day talking to her and afterwards we went for a walk. I found out she's a senior in high school and i'm ...
A. 22 June 2009: When you're 17, 15 is a big age difference. Mostly because of peer pressure from your friends and family.
If I was you I would ask her out on a date, something not to romantic, and see what she say's. Don't even call it a date, just tell her... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my girlfriends sexual past, we broke up. Have I done the right thing?
Q. I recently broke up with my girl because of things she has disclosed to me about her sexual past. I know that may sound immature but it wasnt just the fact that I had thoughts of the guys she told me about her having sex with. The situation ...
A. 22 June 2009: Not at all. Why stay with someone that you don't trust. If she was unwilling to take your relationship seriously then why continue to stay with her.... (read in full...)
Why can I have great sex in the affair but not my marriage?
Q. I started an affair 8 months ago with a woman not to much younger than me. From the beginning our sex has been the best I have ever experienced. I actually am able to have a great erection with her and actually every time we make love I last quite ...
A. 22 June 2009: Go ask for help somewhere else. Cheaters are despicable, self centered, and low people. If you were a real man you'd leave your wife instead of stomping on the promises and vows you took.... (read in full...)
Sex is painful, he's too big, it's killing our relationship
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. Yet we've never fully had sex. He's on the large side penis wise, but I've had boyfriends with large penises before and it's never been this much of a problem. It just really, really hurts! When he first go...
A. 22 June 2009: Something else occurred to me as well, they sell numbing creams at certain sex shops that you may want to look into. Usually these creams are for people experiencing with anal sex, but I bet they'll work for the vaginal area as well.... (read in full...)
Sex is painful, he's too big, it's killing our relationship
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. Yet we've never fully had sex. He's on the large side penis wise, but I've had boyfriends with large penises before and it's never been this much of a problem. It just really, really hurts! When he first go...
A. 22 June 2009: Is it a stabbing pain or a stretching pain? Usually you can tell the difference.
Have you tried different positions to see if any of them make it easier? Usually if you can get started then your vaginal area will relax.... (read in full...)
A woman came to my door telling me she was through seeing him, and he claims he doesn't even know her?
Q. Boy Friend trouble....Need help figuring it all out...Is he cheating? OK I have posted before asking questions and I have to add more details. I am currently 28 years with a 9 year old little girl and my boy friend is 48. He has kids himself ...
A. 18 June 2009: Cheaters are liars, you should have learned that from the husband you had who cheated on you.
He's lying to you, plain and simple. "My wife will kill herself if I leave her", that's the biggest load of horse manure I've ever heard.
He's le... (read in full...)
I'm a 30 year old virgin and I feel judged for wanting a virginal woman...
Q. Non religious 30 year old male virgin here. I am wondering what women think of me for wanting an inexperienced partner. Of course I have had chances to have sex with lots of women since I was a teenager but I turned it down because I want to share ...
A. 18 June 2009: If that is a choice that you've made willingly then good for you.
As to finding another 30yr old virgin, that's going to be extremely difficult to impossible.... (read in full...)
He was trying to keep us a secret, people found out and now he won't contact me!
Q. Please help me... I have been seeing a guy I have known for years for the past 3 months. He has been out of his marriage for just under a year and they have 2 children. His ex cheated on him on numerous occasions and the love has gone. He asked me...
A. 18 June 2009: It sounds like he's still married. If he's divorced then why would he care what his ex thinks about a new relationship?
It really sounds like he's been lying to you. It's probably best to move on and find an honest respectable and unmarrie... (read in full...)
Breaking up is very hard to do!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. He's great, generous, understanding and always for there for me. I've never met anyone as giving as he is. He's also incredibly busy most the time as a doctor and works long hours. So far we'e made ...
A. 18 June 2009: You want to give up on a relationship with a Doctor??? And he's a nice guy??
Why can't you do both? Commit to a relationship and still go on your traveling excursion. You can't travel forever.... (read in full...)
How can I talk sexy back to him?
Q. my guy is into sex and anal, and he says the next time we meet up he wants me to try me fingering him and he wants me to try to use a dildo on him. im ok with that but he does the sex and talks about it. i dont know how to respond and sound sexy ...
A. 17 June 2009: Unfortunately Lacy that's one you'll have to learn with experience.
Try saying small things like "I want you", or "I want to feel you in me", then you can gauge his reaction and start getting dirtier if you think that's not enough.... (read in full...)
Broke up to much ago and still can't get over her. I loved her.
Q. I dated this girl for about 10 months until our breakup two months ago. 10 months may not seem like a long time to fall in love, but this girl really got to me. She broke up because she felt "confused" because she ran into her bastard exbf right ...
A. 17 June 2009: Two months is about the right time to expect to get over a previous relationship. But everyone is different, and it sounds like this may have been the first girl you've had "real" feelings for.
Give it a little more time, it sounds like your ex ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my new man about my problems with my ex?
Q. Hi: I have been talking to a very nice gentleman online for approx. one month. We will be meeting this weekend. He seems very nice. He is totally the opposite from my ex boyfriend. This person is intune to my feelings, he calls, he texts, he sends ...
A. 17 June 2009: Yes, nice guys exist, usually however they end up with women who abuse them.
Trust is built over time, don't expect it to happen over night.
Since you're starting a new relationship with someone I would keep the talk about previous guys ou... (read in full...)
How can I make Ensure taste better?
Q. i have ensure plus the strawberry flavor because i dont like the others and i was wondering how can i make it taste better? i want to gain 15 lbs this summer so how many should i drink a day and how many meals should i eat a day? also after i have ...
A. 17 June 2009: Ensure will definitely help you gain weight, I've seen Dr's prescribe it to the elderly who are under weight. So you're going the right direction.
Something else you can do is use Half & Half instead of milk with your cereal. It tastes really g... (read in full...)
Hes clearly not going to stop. How do I tell him I know hes still watching porn?
Q. I'v written on here before, and the advise I've been given is sound advise... It's about porn. My boyfirned used to watch a lot of porn. I'd talk a lot about it to him because I've never undertood the attraction myself. I'd tried watching it with...
A. 17 June 2009: I'll never understand what is the huge deal about a guy who likes to watch porn and masturbate once and awhile?
So he likes to look at porn, most of us do. Unless he's trying to do things that will turn you into a porn star don't worry about it... (read in full...)
10 years on and after so many time of saying she will give me oral it just doesn't happen!
Q. I know this has been asked many times. I've been with my wife a little over 10 years, she has never even tryed to give me oral, never touches me. She says she will and wants to but still won't. She knows I like oral etc. I always do for her. What ...
A. 17 June 2009: First you wait until she falls into a deep sleep, then hold her nose.....and jam it in. :) Just kidding.
I've found that some women can't get enough of it, and others think it's "icky". Unfortunately there usually isn't much you can do about it... (read in full...)
How can I talk sexy back to him?
Q. my guy is into sex and anal, and he says the next time we meet up he wants me to try me fingering him and he wants me to try to use a dildo on him. im ok with that but he does the sex and talks about it. i dont know how to respond and sound sexy ...
A. 17 June 2009: That's a tough one. Usually I find that with sex talk you're either into it or not. It's difficult to make yourself do it, or like it.... (read in full...)
I keep getting the urge to cheat on him.
Q. I keep getting the urge to cheat. I was his first, but I've had 7 other people over the space of 3 years. I know he loves me and it would kill me to break his heart, but sometimes we just argue and argue and I feel like we're going nowhere. I get ...
A. 17 June 2009: Why is it that women think they're the only woman that their BF/Husband is attracted to???
Are you trying to say that there are no other guy's that you're attracted to?
Stop fighting life is to short. If you don't love him anymore then do ... (read in full...)
How can I turn snuggling into something more?
Q. I have a friend with benefits and i am wondering how could i turn good snuggling session with her into something more? like while snuggling, try and lead on to other stuff, like sex or something.... we have only hooked up, but we 'kinda joke' around ...
A. 17 June 2009: She's probably not joking, she's just waiting for you to make the first move. Women don't usually snuggle with a man they don't want to have sex with.
Next time try touching her intimately like on the small of her back or neck. See how she reac... (read in full...)
Do I need to be worried about my husband visiting our neighbour?
Q. i've been crying all day. i really don't know what to do. let me explain. my hubbie and i went to a neighbor's party this weekend. there were about a dozen people there including my good friend vicky and her husband carl. it was good at first ...
A. 17 June 2009: Why in the hell would you suggest that a group of adults get naked and go swimming???
It sounds like you had designs to have a big orgy. And since you started it your husband now thinks that you don't have a problem with him getting naked wi... (read in full...)
Need divorce advice!
Q. I’m going through a divorce right now, we have a home that he was living for the past 5 months and didn’t make any payments on it. He moved out two weeks ago so now I’m at the home. I want to keep this house what should I do? I’m going to file for ...
A. 11 June 2009: Unfortunately you'll be stuck with owing 50% of the credit card bill too. Sorry, this is the reason that divorces are so difficult.
You need to contact an attorney immediately before he starts running up more debit. There is something that the... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about the pornography?
Q. OKay...so my boyfriend has been masturbating to porn alot when im away....and i find porn on the computer alot lately we have been having sex and stuff should i be worried?...
A. 10 June 2009: Nope don't be, he's a guy that's what we do.... (read in full...)
Need divorce advice!
Q. I’m going through a divorce right now, we have a home that he was living for the past 5 months and didn’t make any payments on it. He moved out two weeks ago so now I’m at the home. I want to keep this house what should I do? I’m going to file for ...
A. 9 June 2009: That's going to be pretty much impossible to get him to pay for the months that he was there that he didn't pay. Unfortunately everything is "marital assets", for your house what this means is that if you owe $100,000 and it appraises for $150,000 ... (read in full...)
Wife wants to mend an old wound with a sweetheart?
Q. Should I be concerned that my wife of 10 years wants to "mend an old wound" with a high school sweetheart? She had a very emotional situation when she was 15 with her highschool sweetheart. He fled and does not know what happened after the incide...
A. 8 June 2009: I hope you're reading this and pay attention to what I'm about to say. This was the EXACT thing happened to me Sept. of last year. My wife had an old BF that she broke up with because of a bad situation and wanted to mend it. My wife proceeded t... (read in full...)
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