Wife wants to mend an old wound with a sweetheart?
Q. Should I be concerned that my wife of 10 years wants to "mend an old wound" with a high school sweetheart? She had a very emotional situation when she was 15 with her highschool sweetheart. He fled and does not know what happened after the incide...
A. 26 June 2009: Your situation mirror's mine, feel free to email me so that we can discuss this at length.... (read in full...)
Teacher mystery. Please help!
Q. I know this is long, but I would really appreciate your help with this. This took place over years and I have to put everything in a few paragraphs... Like many of the cases mentioned on this site, mine also involves a teacher in high school. How...
A. 9 June 2009: Because even the slightest hint of impropriety can cause her to loose her teaching position.
Even if you just want to meet as friends, chat, talk about old times and nothing about starting a relationship it can still cause problems with her care... (read in full...)
Should I tell my 11 year old cousin that I love her?
Q. Hi i am an 18 year old boy and last week i met my cousin who is 11years old actually i met her for the very first time...we had nice time and became really very close.but i have fallen in love with her i am too much attracted to her. What shall i ...
A. 8 June 2009: One word, YUCK! 11 seriously? She isn't even a teenager yet.
Keep your stuff in your pants and keep quiet. Don't confuse her in the sexual arena like someone obviously did to you.... (read in full...)
I'm having a terrible time getting over an affair...
Q. I am a married woman who until 6 months ago had been having an affair for 10 years with a male colleague, also married. He ended it because he said he had felt increasingly unhappy for the last year or so. He felt that we were arguing too much, that ...
A. 8 June 2009: Tell your husband about the affair so he has the opportunity to kick you out of his life so he can find someone with better morals.
It makes me laugh to think that he's started another affair with someone 20 years your junior. It sucks doesn't ... (read in full...)
Teacher mystery. Please help!
Q. I know this is long, but I would really appreciate your help with this. This took place over years and I have to put everything in a few paragraphs... Like many of the cases mentioned on this site, mine also involves a teacher in high school. How...
A. 8 June 2009: Of course she acted "weird". SHE DIDN'T WANT TO LOOSE HER JOB. Having a sexual relationship with a minor student would cause her to loose her job, teaching credential, and lively hood. She would never be able to work as a teacher again, and if ... (read in full...)
He was perfect...and now he's married. What do I do?
Q. Ok so here's the problem: 7 years ago I met my dream guy, as close to perfect as a man gets...only thing is, I wasn't ready at the time. He tried to help me get into college...he was always there for me, we talked for hours, he was just amazing, but ...
A. 8 June 2009: Stop it now. If I was there I'd have to smack you on the nose with a rolled up newspaper and say "Bad Other Woman, Bad!!". Don't be the OW, and don't screw up someone elses happy marriage. He is probably having a low time in his marriage, it ... (read in full...)
Deeply in love with, or confused about my sister in law!
Q. I am seriuosly confused and struggling to understand the root cause behind my feelings. Short version: I sometimes think I am deeply in love with my sister in law (wife's sister), so much so that often days go by where I can't think of anything but ...
A. 8 June 2009: Man that was WAY to long and cluttered to even read. You need to fantasize how to have sex with her? Do you not know how? Should we send you a copy of the Kama Sutra? Seriously stop thinking with the big head and not the little one. One night of ... (read in full...)
Do you think my sister in law might have been trying to seduce me?
Q. Dear Cupid... I have been married with my wife for about 7 years already and we have two daughters who are still in their grade school levels. We live just a door away from my in-laws who were concerned with our situation. I am a sensual and so...
A. 8 June 2009: Dude, stop peeping, what are you like 14. This sounds like an excerpt of "Fast Times at Ridgemont High". Grow up you have a wife and children, this is a responsibility you have taken on. So man up and focusing so much attention on it. You'll ... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about my teacher, but he's leaving
Q. Hi, i'm sixteen and as many people have said on this website, I am in love with my teacher. Well, former teacher now, he's going away to become principal at another school...which of course,tears into my heart everytime i say that, or hear it. I ...
A. 8 June 2009: Wait till your 18th birthday then pursue him, unless he's married, then leave him alone. You don't want him to loose his good job and financial security no matter how real your feelings are.... (read in full...)
Want to do more with my boyfriend than making out, what is the next step/
Q. okay, like i wanna step up in my realationship, but what do you do, my boyfriend and i only make-out. what do you do to have him do more with you? thanx. [:...
A. 8 June 2009: Guy's are easy, just tell him. I doubt he'll turn you down.... (read in full...)
We were close once, now don't talk , what can I do to change that?
Q. Hi I'm 15 well there is this girl I really like. We once were really close but now I don't ever talk to her. I really like her but I just don't know what to say?...
A. 8 June 2009: The truth, that way you'll know if she likes you either way. Girls can be pretty good at hiding emotions. So if you ask and she say's no, then you'll know.... (read in full...)
I love her, she is not bi-sexual, is there a good way to tell her?
Q. i'm in love with my bestfriend, we grew up together. But i never had the guts to tell her how i felt. We always used to practice making out when we were 9 because we wanted to be experts for the boys. I'm 13 and i really wish we could rewind back ...
A. 8 June 2009: Don't it's a waste of time, you can't make someone love you just because you tell them that you love them.... (read in full...)
How can we get her to join us in a threesome?
Q. Well me and my boyfriend of 3 years have thought of having a threesome with him and another girl. and this was basically all my idea, but i am bisexual, and i think this would make my fantasy come real as also give him good pleasure, but we don't ...
A. 8 June 2009: Don't, you don't want your BF to be happy you only want to satisfy your lesbian needs. It's all about you, get rid of the BF and live your life without making attachments so you won't snowball another BF.
Quit lying to him and to yourself... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me because he is not over his ex, what do I do?
Q. My close guy friend i knew about a year got out of a year relationship this March. He was upset because he said she was his first love. In late march we started being somewhat affectionate then he said we should stay friends. He changed his mind...
A. 8 June 2009: Find someone else, don't allow anyone to pull you down into their self created misery.... (read in full...)
Don't really know how to 'do' a relationship
Q. :( ok..I'm 14 years old and I got a girlfriend two weeks ago.The day I asked her out.. I sat at her lunch table feeling weird and not knowing what to say and... neither did she. I can understand that (might) be normal on the first 1 or 2 days but...
A. 8 June 2009: You're young, don't put so much intense feelings into it. Have fun, find things that you both like to do. This girl probably won't be your soul mate so just enjoy having someone you can go out and have fun with, or talk to over the phone.... (read in full...)
Still confused..do I give him my virginity?
Q. i have wrote a series of questions about this boy but im still caught up with it :( i am 15 and i like this 16 yr old boy and im still a virgin and he isnt. i have known him for about a year now and i still want to lose my virginity to him...
A. 8 June 2009: 15 is WAY to young to lose your virginity. If you do decide to have sex with this guy he'll be out of your life soon enough. There are not to many people who meet at 15 and stay together forever. So save it till later, and trust me a 16 year old ... (read in full...)
Will my husband know I have masturbated and has it affected my 'tightness'?
Q. am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years With a wooden tool due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will ...
A. 8 June 2009: The first thing that pops into my mind, Ouch Splinters! Quit over thinking trivial things. Unless you're using a baseball bat he won't know.... (read in full...)
I am seeing a therapist, but the issue is not resolved.
Q. Please give me some perspective! I am a 41 year old recently married male. In my younger days, I led a very very wild life. I have had sex with hundreds of women, been with escorts, done threesomes, dated strippers, etc etc. I always was safe ...
A. 8 June 2009: Try roll playing with your wife, do what you can to spruce up your current sex life and see what happens.... (read in full...)
Married man wants me all for himself, what do you think?
Q. i met this guy at my job...who was sexually attracted to me and everyday he kept bothering me until finally he kisses me and we have a deep long sexual moment. the problem is that his with a girl and has two kids with her. i dont care and never ...
A. 8 June 2009: First rule, Cheaters are liars, and that's a fact. They will say and do anything to get what they want. And the person who sleeps with someone who is married isn't any better. Go somewhere else to get sympathy for a situation that doesn't war... (read in full...)
I am married and have a child, how to deal with the resurging feelings for my ex?
Q. hi .i am 28 years old. i am a mum of 10 months baby and i have been married for 2 years.i feel cofused in my feelings and i want to understand my self and how do i react like this. i m happy in my life and my husband is very good with me .the onl...
A. 8 June 2009: Dump the ex if everything is that great with your husband. If it's not great with your husband then dump him so that he can move on and find someone that will be faithful to him and appreciate all the hard work he does to provide for his family.... (read in full...)
Wife wants to mend an old wound with a sweetheart?
Q. Should I be concerned that my wife of 10 years wants to "mend an old wound" with a high school sweetheart? She had a very emotional situation when she was 15 with her highschool sweetheart. He fled and does not know what happened after the incide...
A. 8 June 2009: I hope you're reading this and pay attention to what I'm about to say. This was the EXACT thing happened to me Sept. of last year. My wife had an old BF that she broke up with because of a bad situation and wanted to mend it. My wife proceeded t... (read in full...)
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